Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[TubsDeGoat]

I need some advice on my current problem if y'all would be willing to help, it's really appreciated.

I was at home sick today, and I really wish I could've been at school with my friends and my boyfriend. He's so sweet and caring, and he isn't afraid to act like a complete dork around me unlike most of my past boyfriends. We've been dating for just over a month now, we've kissed, blah blah blah. He always goes completely out of his way at school just to spend more time with me. He will walk me to my classes, and most of them we have in the morning on separate sides of the school. Anyway, I got a text from one of my very good friends/neighbors, D, saying "Hey, hate to mention this, but B didn't ask about you ONCE. Not ONE time. I asked him 'Don't you miss your girlfriend?' and he said 'Not really....'. Sucks for you. He also said he was happy that he could get a back seat on the bus today because you didn't walk down with him." Just the way she worded that made me super suspicious, because I know she used to be into him, and she hates it when I talk about him. I don't have any idea who to believe. All my other friends think D is lying. Any help??

Sorry it's sooooo long!!!

Well many he did want his space like Worriorqueen said. Try asking him about it. You can't just believe one person if you have suspicions. I would talk to him, if their storys are totally diffrent there is a problem. And if he is saying things that look like he is trying to cover up then he might have done exactually what your freind said. But if you ask your freind about it again and then seem to have changed their story then they are lieing :p but yeah the best to do it just talk to them and follow your gut.

I've had a crush on this really hot guy for Six years, ever since grade one, and I really want to tell him that I like him, but he is dating someone else. And I think he doesn't like me. What should I do?

Well is he your friend? Or just a guy? If he is your freind then try and drop hints, when he is single. Or if he isn't your freind then you can try and talk to him, if you have classes together you can go ask him a question on class work? If that would look to obvious and you always ask a freind or something then set up a plan with a freind to pretend to be in a fight and so it dosn't make him question, or you can say that your freind dosn't know either haha. But if all else fails then try and find someone new to be interested in, if it is to hard to just stop liking him then think of all his bad qualitys :]

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...Give up liking him? I don't want to! And I like him because he is very sweet, funny, kind, hot, a sweetheart, and amazing. I don't think I'll be able to give up liking him ever. Even if I wanted to, I always feeling like...he's part of me, ya know? And I agree with you on not telling him I like him, but, how should I deal with this? I literally can't stand it anymore!

And he is sort of my friend, and I'm in Grade Six and I live in Canada, so we don't have Middle school so no separate classes. He is in a different grade six class, and I don't know if he'll ever break up with his girl friend any time soon. One of my friends said to try and get him to like you more so he will break up with his girl friend, who is one of my friends, but I don't know if that will work.

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The guy I like has some MAJOR flaws. I don't know if I like him any more, because he might like my friend. Ugh, but I have been liking him for five years.

He likes to SHOP. Shop. He likes to shop. He shops more than his sister, who is the shopper of the family. Seriously. He would have rather gone shopping than go to my birthday party. Before, if you guys saw, I said he would have rather gone with his friends. I lied. He would rather have gone SHOPPING.
I dun know if I like him anymore. At church, he completely ignores me and goes to talk to my friend. He is a year older, and she is his age. Completely ignores me. After church, he says hi, but that's about it.
What do you think? Should I still like him, or stop? I haven't told him I like him yet...
This post is confusing, I'm sorry. Just a bit pissed.

Maybe it's just because that you're a year younger, and he might just like people only his age. I've met people like that, who think it is strange to like someone not your age. It isn't your fault, or his. Just a thing of his likings.
And who cares if he likes to go shopping? Different sexes doesn't mean different doings.

[f l i g h t]

...Give up liking him? I don't want to! And I like him because he is very sweet, funny, kind, hot, a sweetheart, and amazing. I don't think I'll be able to give up liking him ever. Even if I wanted to, I always feeling like...he's part of me, ya know? And I agree with you on not telling him I like him, but, how should I deal with this? I literally can't stand it anymore!

And he is sort of my friend, and I'm in Grade Six and I live in Canada, so we don't have Middle school so no separate classes. He is in a different grade six class, and I don't know if he'll ever break up with his girl friend any time soon. One of my friends said to try and get him to like you more so he will break up with his girl friend, who is one of my friends, but I don't know if that will work.

Oh, he's in a different class? Well, I agree with your friend, you should try and get him to like you more. He might not break up with his girlfriend because of that, but if he ever does than you might be the next person he'll ask out.

[Livalathia]

...Give up liking him? I don't want to! And I like him because he is very sweet, funny, kind, hot, a sweetheart, and amazing. I don't think I'll be able to give up liking him ever. Even if I wanted to, I always feeling like...he's part of me, ya know? And I agree with you on not telling him I like him, but, how should I deal with this? I literally can't stand it anymore!

And he is sort of my friend, and I'm in Grade Six and I live in Canada, so we don't have Middle school so no separate classes. He is in a different grade six class, and I don't know if he'll ever break up with his girl friend any time soon. One of my friends said to try and get him to like you more so he will break up with his girl friend, who is one of my friends, but I don't know if that will work.

Whatever you do, don't go trying to break him and his girlfriend up just cause you like him a lot. If hes happy at the moment let him be, and just start to get close to him if you can. Slowly become good friend with him and when he breaks up with his girlfriend then you can be there for him if he wants to talk about it or something.

Just don't try and break someone up cause that's just not right...

On a side note! ;]

D is soo sweet <3 Gosh I love him...I just wish he wouldnt have lost his phone xD
I havnt texted him in like 2 weeks and its killing me x.x I want to talk to him! Gosh I cant believe he lost his phone....again lol

[itsdemonnxoxo]

Devin

I think he is getting cuter by the minute!(: Well, their is the Right Choice program and if you have had it Tuesday and Wednesday you don't have to go to it Thursday..Well, I was going to my exploratory and which is music and its boring in there..Well, were walking to the end of the hall to wait at the door for our teacher to tell us to go inside and go to our seats.Well, before she made it down there the fire alarm goes off so we have to go outside and stand.Well, when I have to turn around I see Devin at the end of our line!I am freaking out because he is so hot.Well, I catch up with my friend, L and she is like, "Have fun staring at him.." and I am smiling like repeatedly!And then when our trill was over with we go back inside and enter the classroom.I am watching Devin circle the room and he doesn't know where to sit.
Devin: "I don't know where I am supposed to sit?"
Teacher: "Go ahead and sit anywhere.."
Devin: *Looks Over At Me*
Me: *Looks Beside Me And Sees 2 Empty Chairs*
Devin: *Walks Over And Takes A Sit Beside Me*
Friend 'J': "Whats up bruh?"
Devin: *Does His Bro Handshake!*
Me: *Laughs At J..*
Devin: *Does Bieber Flip*
Me: *Blushes And Glares Away*
Devin: "Mrs. J** am I suppost to be in here, because Mrs. P**** didn't tell me where to go?"
Me: *Whispers* "Please stay in here, this is the closest I have ever been to you,Devin!"
Devin: *Looks Over At Me And Flips His Hair*
Teacher: "Hold on let me check roll and I will tell you."
Devin: "Ight."
Teacher: "Nope, Devin you not on here that I can tell?Go check with Mrs.P**** again and if she doesn't know come back in here and sit back down in the same chair."
Devin: "Ight, I will be right back." *Does Peace Sign With Hands To The Class*
(10 Minutes Later!Devin Doesn't Come Back!)

[~ i n f e r n o ~]

I have two crushes. Let's call one of them Adam and the other one Collin.

So last year I was Adam's best friend [guy friend, at least, boy-wise]. We had inside jokes, laughed together, got in trouble together, did what little lovers do. Yet last year was 5th grade. I didn't really think about my feelings until one day, I noticed Adam's eyes.
From then on until this day, I have been in love with him. Except this year, I have zero- zilch- classes with him. ;( One of my 'friend'-s told him that I like him as more than a friend this year, and now whenever my 'friend'-s attempt to push me into him, we're both like "NO!!"
Me, because I might start spazzing out or something a lovesick girl would do.
Him, because I am kinda crazy and spazzy, and he might, you know, be afraid of me for some random reason.
So I kind of gave up on him. I know, I should keep trying, but I haven't talked to him ONCE this year. It's been SEVEN MONTHS NOT INCLUDING SUMMER since I've talked to him! I'm too nervous!!! He's always with friends, anyway.

This year and since early elementary school, Collin and I have been friends. We 'hated' each other until 4th grade.... it was kind of funny. We chased each other around if one of us tripped the other or something.

This year, 6th grade, Collin is a humongous flirt. With most of the girls he talks to. But I have enrichment, science, and band with him. He's a really good trumpet, I'm a good clarinet. In science, we always make funny faces at each other, laugh, he cracks funny and sometimes lame jokes that I laugh at anyway to make him feel better, and he actually flirts with me. I have sparks that fly whenever he gives me those funny looks, flips his blond hair, cracks jokes, etc. I am hoping he likes me back; most of my girl friends in my science class say he likes me but I have no idea.

It's really sad. When you go through puberty, like I am, you think you like one guy one minute, the next you like someone else. I'm only positive about Collin and Adam, however.

Any help on what to think.....?

[SexyAsYourMom]

I love Matt! He is soooo beautiful. Just. Like. Me.

[christine-marie]

Does anybody else dream about their crushes?

I used to dream about the guy I liked/went out with for a long time, but once I lost interest they stopped (for the most part).

Last night I dreamed about some random guy who goes to my school and is really adorable, haha. <3

[bast,]

Nobody knows how long I've been looking for a thread like this... *3*

Here goes! 8D So, I like this guy, lets call him M. I have this HUGE crush on him, and I totally know he likes me back. There was this valentines thing at our school where you could buy somebody a bag of candy, and he bought me one. His name was clear on it. Well, I really want to go out with him, but he's not asking me out. I want to ask him out but I don't know how and I can never find the right time and ohmaigosh what do I say?!? D':


[Just quoting so people may remember who I am... xD]

Yay for good news! 8D
We went to see a play today, and I was sitting with my friends in a row. M passed by my row, so I called out, saying "Hey ___! Come sit over here!" and waving him over. My best friend rolled her eyes, and my other bestie chuckled... xD So he sat next to me, and we were whispering about the play to each other the whole time. <3 My teacher was sitting in the row in front of us, a couple seats down though, so she kept on glaring at us... xD My friend made my promise that I wouldn't flirt with him, but I didn't do that... xDDD On the bus ride home, I sat in the seat in front of him, and we talked the whole time, as my friends started at us intently... o.o;

It was awesome... ^^ <3