Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Thammy]

there is this guy i like whom i will call K for now but last week he started calling me a PANDA and everyone started calling me that as a newname i don't really like it but i seem to caught him staring at me and smiling but he tried to avoid my eyes but im not so sure if i should ask him out or if he likes me or not but usually he makes fun of me

please help and P.S its his Birthday today

[s y n]

Oh today was eventful.

I know that A likes me. I know this for sure now. Today, EJ showed him (at school) all the texts from me to her saying I like him. He said he didn't believe her, though I was standing right beside her NODDING! Oh, that boy makes me laugh :3

After that, I was walking down the hall and he wouldn't hug me. So I made a heart with my hands, then broke it into two pieces to represent a broken heart. I continued down the hall, and about five seconds later, he came running after me telling me that he loved me. I sighed dramatically and said, "I love you tooooooo." and hugged him with a smile.

Then, because everyone (even him I'm pretty sure) knows that I like him, which I'm perfectly fine with, I got dared to ask him out like I've wanted to. So I did, via a note. I wrote on the front: "To: [Inserthisnamehere]. From: Open it and find out c:" on the inside, it said, "Will you go out with me? Love, [Insertmynamehere]." then it had two boxes: A yes box, and a no box. I wrote check one, then added, "P.S: If yes, return this note to locker #303." because 303 is my locker and he knows that.

At lunch in the gym, he informed me that his answer to my asking him out was on the note and in my locker. I freaked out (on the outside I was all like "Oh cool, let's go check it out" but on the inside I was like, "OMGWAFFLES HE SAID YES<3<3<3<3<3") so I go to my locker and I read the note. He checked BOTH BOXES! And, after I smirked, he came up behind me and asked if I liked his joke. I said yeah and looked straight at him and said, "Did 'ya like mine?" he got all confused and was like, "Wait... So asking me out was a joke?" and I was like, "You took it as one, so sure." then walked away like a boss.
He's hilarious and I love that, but sometimes I just wish he'd give me a straight answer. >.>

I didn't talk to him for the rest of the day after that, just to show him that, even though I love to joke around, I need some seriousness in my life. I passed by him at his locker, and instead of running up to him and hugging him like I usually would, I just glanced at him then continued walking.
That showed him. I noticed him looking at me with an odd look, almost like he was regretting taking it as a joke. I guessed this was because he thought I was mad at him, which I sorta was and still sorta am. I know that he likes me, and I took the opportunity and, instead of answering me seriously, he had to turn it into a joke like everything else.
Then in gym, we were doing this jump rope thing for seven minutes where we had a partner and they counted how many skips we got. I tripped on my too-small-for-me rope, which was too small because my partner was a lot shorter than me and even though he's so small that it's adorable it gave me issues, and ended up landing on my left ankle with it bent at a very painful angle.
I was crying in gym because it hurt so badly, and my gym teacher took a lot at it and told me it looked broken. It was all swollen and bruised and you could see the bone at a weird angle that it shouldn't be at. When I left the gym, limping intensely, you could tell that I had been crying. I passed A and he looked at me all sympathetically and asked what happened in a tone of genuine concern. Still mad at him and in horrible pain, I ignored him and kept wobbling down the hall.
I figure he's playing hard to get, and I'm making myself too easy to get. Guys like him like a challenge, and they only want to be with a girl who'll make him work for it. So I've decided that two can play at that game. I didn't text him today, and after lunch, I didn't even talk to him, much less run to his locker and ask for a hug.

Any tips on how to play hard to get without making him think I don't like him? Some girls always try that and they play too hard to get and make the guy think that they don't like him. I don't want to give him the silent treatment, but at the same time, I don't want to talk to him so much that it makes it seem like I need to talk to him. I'm thinking that tomorrow I'm going to talk to him in a friendly way, maybe add on ONE SLIGHTLY flirty comment just to let him know that I'm still interested, but not hug him or make hearts to him or tell him I love him at all.
I have sectionals at lunch (that's where certain sections of our band class, like all clarinets or all flutes - which I play :3 - get together to practice) which is just perfect because I won't be able to see him, so I'll be able to play hard to get, but have a reason at the same time.

Anyways, how can I be a challenge to get, but still let him know that I'm interested?

[Refugee]

Can anyone please give me outside advice on something?

Okay, so I've told you about my Brian I'm madly in love with, right? (You can read more of my posts if you go in the search this topic box and type brian.) Anyway, so him and I have been flirting a LOT since October, and I thought about asking him out in January because all the girls he's dated before had to ask him out, he'd just kinda... idk lure them in by flirting a lot with them like he does with me.

Anyway, I found out he started dating an 8th grader in mid-January. We're in 9th grade, at the high school and his girlfriend is in the middle school. My friends have a bunch of different opinions on this. One thinks he's using his girlfriend to make me jealous or to try and make me tell him how i really feel about him. Other friends think she was the one who asked him out, after all he doesn't ever ask the girls out.

So what am I to think? Is he trying to make me speak up? Is this whole girlfriend thing a scam to make me say "I love you"? I mean he's told me that before I know he likes me and he reads me pretty well so I'd say he knows I love him, too. I'm so confused!

[AWarriorcat]

ZeldaFreak: I wouldn't tell him until he no longer has a girlfriend, because if you tell him you love him, it could get really awkward while he's dating someone, personally wait till he's single, if it's taking too long than try it and scream it in his ear, but just wait a little longer

[gone for good :)]

The guy I like has some MAJOR flaws. I don't know if I like him any more, because he might like my friend. Ugh, but I have been liking him for five years.

He likes to SHOP. Shop. He likes to shop. He shops more than his sister, who is the shopper of the family. Seriously. He would have rather gone shopping than go to my birthday party. Before, if you guys saw, I said he would have rather gone with his friends. I lied. He would rather have gone SHOPPING.
I dun know if I like him anymore. At church, he completely ignores me and goes to talk to my friend. He is a year older, and she is his age. Completely ignores me. After church, he says hi, but that's about it.
What do you think? Should I still like him, or stop? I haven't told him I like him yet...
This post is confusing, I'm sorry. Just a bit pissed.

[*Wonderstruck*]

I need some advice on my current problem if y'all would be willing to help, it's really appreciated.

I was at home sick today, and I really wish I could've been at school with my friends and my boyfriend. He's so sweet and caring, and he isn't afraid to act like a complete dork around me unlike most of my past boyfriends. We've been dating for just over a month now, we've kissed, blah blah blah. He always goes completely out of his way at school just to spend more time with me. He will walk me to my classes, and most of them we have in the morning on separate sides of the school. Anyway, I got a text from one of my very good friends/neighbors, D, saying "Hey, hate to mention this, but B didn't ask about you ONCE. Not ONE time. I asked him 'Don't you miss your girlfriend?' and he said 'Not really....'. Sucks for you. He also said he was happy that he could get a back seat on the bus today because you didn't walk down with him." Just the way she worded that made me super suspicious, because I know she used to be into him, and she hates it when I talk about him. I don't have any idea who to believe. All my other friends think D is lying. Any help??

Sorry it's sooooo long!!!

[gone for good :)]

I need some advice on my current problem if y'all would be willing to help, it's really appreciated.

I was at home sick today, and I really wish I could've been at school with my friends and my boyfriend. He's so sweet and caring, and he isn't afraid to act like a complete dork around me unlike most of my past boyfriends. We've been dating for just over a month now, we've kissed, blah blah blah. He always goes completely out of his way at school just to spend more time with me. He will walk me to my classes, and most of them we have in the morning on separate sides of the school. Anyway, I got a text from one of my very good friends/neighbors, D, saying "Hey, hate to mention this, but B didn't ask about you ONCE. Not ONE time. I asked him 'Don't you miss your girlfriend?' and he said 'Not really....'. Sucks for you. He also said he was happy that he could get a back seat on the bus today because you didn't walk down with him." Just the way she worded that made me super suspicious, because I know she used to be into him, and she hates it when I talk about him. I don't have any idea who to believe. All my other friends think D is lying. Any help??

Sorry it's sooooo long!!!

He just might have wanted his space. It's normal. If he was always cuddling you and trying to stick to your side the WHOLE time, you would get tired of it and want space, yes? D might have been lying too. But, don't get angry just because he wanted space. :3

[rachiechu888]

My crush looks REALLY weird (different) with a haircut, and without his glasses (he broke them).

[. silent]

I've had a crush on this really hot guy for Six years, ever since grade one, and I really want to tell him that I like him, but he is dating someone else. And I think he doesn't like me. What should I do?

[f l i g h t]

I've had a crush on this really hot guy for Six years, ever since grade one, and I really want to tell him that I like him, but he is dating someone else. And I think he doesn't like me. What should I do?

From what it sounds like, it might be better if you don't like him, since he's dating someone else. Telling him that you like him might not be a good decision either, since he has a girlfriend, and doesn't like you. It might only end up in embarrasment. This sounds like terrible advice, but if the only reason that you like him is that he's hot and he hasn't noticed you for six years, maybe you should give up liking him for now until he breaks up with his girlfriend.