Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Featherpaw]

There's this guy in my class who has liked me for about 3 years and finally told me. And I might like him back but I don't know for sure. Does anyone have any suggestions?

[Apollo fon Friso]

OMG!! Today I had science at school, and I sat at my assigned seat next to my crush, and the first thing he said to me was "Hey, your looking good today"...omg i almost fainted.

[darlingdiablo]

Some of you people take your guy as an advantage. Some of you complain 'Im not good enough.' Or ' I don't deserve him' Hey, the only person stopping that is YOU. So go ahead and keep on going, but remember If a guy Is going through that much trouble to support you and make you smile, then let him. it show's you that he means It, that he cares. So give him some in return, and dont tell yourself your not good enough.

Raise your head high gorgeous, there's many who want to see you fail- show them every reason you won't. prove them wrong.

[paradox.]

I have a crush on a guy named mattew

Funny. A guy named Matthew likes me >.< The awkward moment when I like his best friend instead.

[Nimble Awesomeness]

I have a crush on a guy named mattew :roll:

Funny. A guy named Matthew likes me >.< The awkward moment when I like his best friend instead. :oops:

Oh my gosh, we're in the same situation! Exactly! Well... More one of his best friends also likes me.. And another one of his best friends also likes me.

Oh, and maybe another. -_-

That awkward moment when all these guys like you, and you just want J <3 Not N, Not M, Not L or C, (Or another J..) just J. Plain, hilarious, dumbo-eared J. <3 <3 <3

Hey, you 5/4/6 guys! Yeah, you! Stop liking me, you make this so hard on my teenage girl mind. I'm already having problems keeping my ego in check, (try as I may) and you aren't helping. I CAN'T BE THAT AWESOME, CAN I? D8 *Kidding, by the way. Kidding. >.>*

[Shine]

I have a crush on a guy named mattew

Funny. A guy named Matthew likes me >.< The awkward moment when I like his best friend instead.

Oh my gosh, we're in the same situation! Exactly! Well... More one of his best friends also likes me.. And another one of his best friends also likes me.

Oh, and maybe another. -_-

That awkward moment when all these guys like you, and you just want J <3 Not N, Not M, Not L or C, (Or another J..) just J. Plain, hilarious, dumbo-eared J. <3 <3 <3

Hey, you 5/4/6 guys! Yeah, you! Stop liking me, you make this so hard on my teenage girl mind. I'm already having problems keeping my ego in check, (try as I may) and you aren't helping. I CAN'T BE THAT AWESOME, CAN I? D8 *Kidding, by the way. Kidding. >.>*

There Is a guy who has a crush on me named Matthew too. I hate him. He likes to stalk me O___O

[Official-Enjolras]

Wow, my boyfriend has totaly changed how he acts toward me. We talk differently, and everything. I mean we just found out we like each other and we've just changed from friends to boyfriend & girlfriend <3
EDIT: x.x well, my day was a mess. I first told me "Sister" that I had a boyfriend now and she went and told the ENTIRE school about us and who I was dating. Great. Just perfect, but the icing on the cake was when my Ex-boyfriend shouted in a crowd of people who I was dating. Damnit x.x
~Crowy

[rachiechu888]

My crush might join CS! I told him about it in math class, and he didn't this I was totally crazy! In fact, he seemed a bit interested (In the site, not me XP)

[spaceferrari]

I haven't posted here in forever--but anyway. This is ridiculous. You are just like me! I don't think this Glasses fellow is trying to hurt you... Like you said, he's a decent guy. You just have to trust him and give yourself some more credit. Let me tell ya, Glasses knows there are other fish in the sea and if he is trying to keep you with him, you should accept that of him and embrace it. You aren't your young self anymore and Glasses isn't the one who took advantage of you, so you should let that go. A bad analogy would be drinking coffee: You get a few crappy ones now and again, but there are always some that are just right.

At the same time... Something else to keep in mind is that if you are unhappy where you are in your own life, you cannot be happy in a relationship. Figuring out your own life and getting things under control is an important step to take before getting into a relationship. Love yourself first and all that.

@Space Ferrari -

I read that...and honestly, don't bring yourself down. I don't think hes trying to hurt you, and I think he may actually truly care, but the way he sounds like hes talking may come off as - for a lack of a better way of stating it - bull sh*t but honestly, some guys can't get across what they want to say without sounding totally insane to us. For me personally with my boyfriend D, he seems WAY to good for me, and I always tell myself this. Hes super smart, hes sweet, always happy, fun, honest, caring and all around a really great guy; while there is me who lies, has her mean days, can be annoying, mostly always depressed, has family issues at times...the list goes on. Half the time I don't even know how I got so lucky.
I'm like you in the way that you used to be the person who let herself believe people and then got hurt. I was that girl and that's why I have depression issued for the most part is because for my whole life I was the girl that people made fun of. Its taken a whole lot for me to get as far as I have with D and be able to give my heart to him even a little.
I also have semi trust issues, but with D I feel like i'm safe around him. Sure at times I feel a little nervous because I don't want to get hurt but hes told me many times, and I quote - "I will never hurt you <3 You mean to much to me".
I get that your afraid, but if your in a relationship you have to trust that the person your with WONT hurt you in that way. Its a risk you have to be willing enough to take, and if you feel like your not ready for that risk, dont force yourself to stay with the person...
However, I think you should give him a little credit and try to work it out with yourself, because you may be surprised later on.

Thats all I have to say.... xD

Wow, I was honestly expecting more of a "suck it up" response.
Thank you guys, that really does help. When I think about it, we have been together for nearly a year (not that big a milestone, I know), and if he were just trying to play tricks on me, he would probably have given up long before now. If being picked on taught me anything, it's that bullies get bored fast; that's why they tease you for what seems like "everything," not just one thing.
Glasses really is a good guy, not just to me, but to everyone. There are a few people he'll pick on just to poke fun, but he isn't cruel. Heck, we make fun of each other sometimes.
If I didn't love the boy so much, he would probably still be my best friend. We can finish each other's thoughts, have the same sort of dark/nerdy (odd combination, yes) sense of humor and find joy in similar things.
He deserves everything he has, and that should include my faith. He's told me several times that he promises never to harm me, or take advantage of me, or do something I'm not comfortable with. Sometimes, when he puts his arm around me, he says something like "Just knowing you're here, safe, with me, makes me happy." I seem to have forgotten that.
I'm not sure I'll ever completely conquer my self-esteem issues, but you guys got me to stop and look at myself for once.
Thank you all. You're the best. <3

[Crum]

I cant tell if this one guy I like likes me back... he knows I like him (annoying friends...) and we talk a lot... we are friends you could say...