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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Shine » Wed Feb 08, 2012 2:14 pm

I don't Even know if I love anyone anymore. I moves from D, he hadn't talked to me since, and I don't think there's anyone I love </3 ): ):
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Livalathia » Wed Feb 08, 2012 2:25 pm

~iridescent~ wrote:
.:Sweet-Silver:. wrote:
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Only issue I'm having...x3 This is going to sound funny to some of you most likely, and I hate to say this cause I feel like a loser...but the thing is...D and I can hug no problem, and I occasionally kiss his cheek and I will put my head on his shoulder when were sitting in class, hell he even puts his arm over my shoulder sometimes.
The one thing we still haven't done is hold hands x3
I know...Its weird and stupid...but I just feel so awkward just taking his hand or something in the hall. I want to...but I'm to shy to -.- Curse me. Any advise would be LOVED! ;) Lol thanks x3


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Also! We still haven't really hung out outside of school yet, mainly because D is always busy with either UB math hw, parties, or he goes skiing with his family, but I really want to hang out with him outside of school. I have told him that quite a lot but I don't want to seem pushy or anything and this weekend is the last weekend that I can do something for this month because the weekend after i'm going to Florida with my family.....Should I just let it go for now or should I keep asking him if hes busy? What do ya'll think?

About the first one, maybe when you're sitting next to each other somewhere where not much other people around (after school on a bench, maybe) you could put your hand right next to his (touching) and if he doesn't move it, hold it, and just keep on with a conversation like nothing happened. That's my suggestion. :)


That's a good idea, but we hardly ever sit down during the day together since he gets to school late and stuff...The only places we really see each other is in the hall in passing time to each class and in Biology, but we don't sit by each other and we hardly ever get to work together :/
Thanks for the suggestion though :]
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby .Eclipse. » Wed Feb 08, 2012 2:46 pm

I feel like B is trying to aviod me :./ we don`t even sit near each other any more
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby loonyloolaluna » Wed Feb 08, 2012 8:34 pm

Hybrid - Give her a small gift. Like a flower, maybe a hersheys kiss ;) or poem.
theloveanddove - Why does you friend not want you to be friends with her brother?
Shine - Sometimes it's better not to be in love ... It's a better way of not breaking your heart later ...
ShatteredSoul - Keep talking to him, get to know him

Now I have a problem. After ignoring this chick for a month. She likes me, and keeps asking me out, but I don't like her, and she just sent me a text saying 'Hey'. What do I do? I've had a friend who liked me, but She ... keeps asking me out, she's just not my type, yeah I'm bi, but ... She keeps saying that we belong together, and that we have a connection and $#!% like that ...
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby maxlet » Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:04 am

*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~* wrote:Now I have a problem. After ignoring this chick for a month. She likes me, and keeps asking me out, but I don't like her, and she just sent me a text saying 'Hey'. What do I do? I've had a friend who liked me, but She ... keeps asking me out, she's just not my type, yeah I'm bi, but ... She keeps saying that we belong together, and that we have a connection and $#!% like that ...

Be straight forward with her and let her know that you don't see her that way. If you think she's a nice person, you could add that in to ease the heartache. I just wouldn't keep ignoring her or putting off telling her because that might lead to her thinking she still has a chance.

.:Sweet-Silver:. my sister actually helped with that process. Me and my boy were sitting together and she grabbed my hand and squeezed it. I told her that wasn't the right way to hold it and she switched her fingers so it was the way most guys and gals hold hands. He must not have wanted to be left behind because he grabbed my other hand and held it the same way.
Now, I don't know how that would work for you. However, if you are too shy to grab his hand yourself you may have to just hint at him to do it. Brush his had against yours while your walking. I'm not sure how he is but mine would take it as an open invitation to take my hand in his. I'm sorry I can't be more help.

Finally, I have a question. My boy and I have been dating for seven months. He's opened up to me, but then when I just try to talk to him he's really quiet. He tells me he isn't talkative, but I think he shuts down when we try to have casual conversation. Like, when we text - calling not being an option - he sends one word replies. I doubt it's true, but it makes it seem like he doesn't care if we talk or not. Is there a way to get more out of him?

Help would be appreciated ^-^
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Pangali » Thu Feb 09, 2012 7:09 am

I give up.

I didn't see F the other day and haven't seen him now since last Friday. :(

But my best friend is going to ask him out for me over Facebook(I'm not allowed it til I'm 16) so fingers crossed. He might not want to talk to her though because they've never actually met before..

Anyway in my dream last night she asked F out for me and he said yes XD right now I have resorted to chocolate because I can't see him.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Shine » Thu Feb 09, 2012 9:45 am

I give up, too Jani. D hasn't even payed any attention to me lately. I don't know but I think I like I. He's asked me out twice before and I said no (DAMN ME XD) I was going to ask his friends that asked me out for him if it was really true. Then I might say "does he still want to" and see what happens (;
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby peachie. » Thu Feb 09, 2012 9:53 am

Shine wrote:I give up, too Jani. D hasn't even payed any attention to me lately. I don't know but I think I like I. He's asked me out twice before and I said no (DAMN ME XD) I was going to ask his friends that asked me out for him if it was really true. Then I might say "does he still want to" and see what happens (;


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Anyways I need some help, I am having mixed emotions about my best friend who is a guy;
I am not sure if I like him as a friend or more. I have liked him in the past but it kind of faded.
Now he is paying attention to me, talking to me, making me blush more, giving me gifts etc.
But he is dating a B!+c#. She is jelous that him and I talk so much and spend time together.
She actually went up to him and told him to end his friendship with me, thankfully he disagreed with her.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Pangali » Thu Feb 09, 2012 9:55 am

Shine wrote:I give up, too Jani. D hasn't even payed any attention to me lately. I don't know but I think I like I. He's asked me out twice before and I said no (DAMN ME XD) I was going to ask his friends that asked me out for him if it was really true. Then I might say "does he still want to" and see what happens (;

Yeah, its not like F actualy makes an effort to talk to me when I do see him, its me that's going out of my way to ask him out.

If you think he likes you then go for it, you can't wait forever for one boy to pay you some attention ;)
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Shine » Thu Feb 09, 2012 9:57 am

I think I know amour. D? Yes. Well. You need to tell KH off cause she is a b****. I know her in real life (note to all yous :3). That's not right of her. You know you all have been friends since...a long time Cx You should tell her you dont think it's fair and that she's mean.
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