Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[~Prussia~]

The day started so good...

Until I opened my facebook and saw the words I dreaded the most for so long now:
[My crush, let's call him D] is in a relationship with [some girl].

Why? I've been in love with him for over three years now, why didn't I dare to say something? Why can I only cry now while the words "forever alone" soar through my head? He's the only one who likes at least two things I also like and he's the only one I can ever imagine being with. I know you have to think "not a hand full of boys but a land full of boys" but I just don't care.

Just, why...

[BlueEyedKite]

The day started so good...

Until I opened my facebook and saw the words I dreaded the most for so long now:
[My crush, let's call him D] is in a relationship with [some girl].

Why? I've been in love with him for over three years now, why didn't I dare to say something? Why can I only cry now while the words "forever alone" soar through my head? He's the only one who likes at least two things I also like and he's the only one I can ever imagine being with. I know you have to think "not a hand full of boys but a land full of boys" but I just don't care.

Just, why...

well friend :c you can't expect him to be alone forever. Eventually he would find someone so this was a hurt waiting to happen. If you've crushed on him for three years--girl go and talk to him! It will only be a fantasy crush if you don't make a move. Go talk to him c: hang out with him, get to know him. He can't like you back unless he learns who you are. Sure, he's dating someone but you can still be his friend in the meantime ;] Take this as motivation to reach out to him.

It's scary but it's the only way to move from someone in the shadows to possibly a close friend that means a lot to him.

[~Prussia~]

The day started so good...

Until I opened my facebook and saw the words I dreaded the most for so long now:
[My crush, let's call him D] is in a relationship with [some girl].

Why? I've been in love with him for over three years now, why didn't I dare to say something? Why can I only cry now while the words "forever alone" soar through my head? He's the only one who likes at least two things I also like and he's the only one I can ever imagine being with. I know you have to think "not a hand full of boys but a land full of boys" but I just don't care.

Just, why...

well friend :c you can't expect him to be alone forever. Eventually he would find someone so this was a hurt waiting to happen. If you've crushed on him for three years--girl go and talk to him! It will only be a fantasy crush if you don't make a move. Go talk to him c: hang out with him, get to know him. He can't like you back unless he learns who you are. Sure, he's dating someone but you can still be his friend in the meantime ;] Take this as motivation to reach out to him.

It's scary but it's the only way to move from someone in the shadows to possibly a close friend that means a lot to him.

Thank you

Of course I never meant him to be alone forever, that would've hurt him as much as it did to me... He already is my friend and I think I'm going to follow your advice and just hang out with him and be there in his friendzone for if he needs me.

I'm not angry at him at all, I totally understand him and are very happy for him, I'm just sad that I was such a coward of not telling him, resulting in not me being at his side...

[autumnsoundtrack]

So, I have had a crush (His name starts with L, so I'll call him L) on L for about two years. I've tried to stop liking him, and it worked for about a week. But when we had to present our books we read over winter break, he was smiling and messing up, and when he looked right at me I felt as though I'd throw up, but in a good way. (Butterflies, as some may call it) Then, he said something funny, and I laughed a little, and couldn't stop smiling. My heart felt like it would burst through me and burned like it was on fire.

Any advice on how to get rid of this feeling? I mean, L's a nice, funny, and amazing guy, but I'm sick of my friends all saying "You have no taste.", or "He's such a jerk/player!", or "Are you kidding me! He's so SHORT!" And it makes me feel depressed, but I just can't get rid of it no matter whatever I do. I do something fun; it reminds me of him. I read a book; it reminds me of him. I watch the sunset as the moon glows in a tiny sliver and the first star appears, I feel a longing for him to be by my side. What's this feeling, and again how do I get rid of it!!?

I have a crush i call L too who is also short. I just say to my friends you know what?! Size dosen't matter hes sweet & kind & thats all that matters

I guess so. But I mean, every other girl is falling at his feet and saying he's soooooo cute right in front of him, while I'm the underdog who's always talking about him to my friends but never even says hi because I don't have the courage.

[~Prussia~]

So, I have had a crush (His name starts with L, so I'll call him L) on L for about two years. I've tried to stop liking him, and it worked for about a week. But when we had to present our books we read over winter break, he was smiling and messing up, and when he looked right at me I felt as though I'd throw up, but in a good way. (Butterflies, as some may call it) Then, he said something funny, and I laughed a little, and couldn't stop smiling. My heart felt like it would burst through me and burned like it was on fire.

Any advice on how to get rid of this feeling? I mean, L's a nice, funny, and amazing guy, but I'm sick of my friends all saying "You have no taste.", or "He's such a jerk/player!", or "Are you kidding me! He's so SHORT!" And it makes me feel depressed, but I just can't get rid of it no matter whatever I do. I do something fun; it reminds me of him. I read a book; it reminds me of him. I watch the sunset as the moon glows in a tiny sliver and the first star appears, I feel a longing for him to be by my side. What's this feeling, and again how do I get rid of it!!?

I have a crush i call L too who is also short. I just say to my friends you know what?! Size dosen't matter hes sweet & kind & thats all that matters

I guess so. But I mean, every other girl is falling at his feet and saying he's soooooo cute right in front of him, while I'm the underdog who's always talking about him to my friends but never even says hi because I don't have the courage.

I understand your problem, except the boy I love wasn't that popular on the places where I saw him. But have the courage. It's hard, but try to do it. I didn't do it, and really regret it now because he's with someone else now. I wished I told him... But now it's too late, he has a girlfriend now.
So have the courage and tell him before it's too late! We are standing right behind you and know how you feel. And if he says no, remember there's a land full of boys and maybe he really is the jerk your friends described

[autumnsoundtrack]

I guess so. But I mean, every other girl is falling at his feet and saying he's soooooo cute right in front of him, while I'm the underdog who's always talking about him to my friends but never even says hi because I don't have the courage.

I understand your problem, except the boy I love wasn't that popular on the places where I saw him. But have the courage. It's hard, but try to do it. I didn't do it, and really regret it now because he's with someone else now. I wished I told him... But now it's too late, he has a girlfriend now.
So have the courage and tell him before it's too late! We are standing right behind you and know how you feel. And if he says no, remember there's a land full of boys and maybe he really is the jerk your friends described

The truth is, I don't think I can. (I've tried at school.) Whenever I'm around him, I blush and smile (I'm a redhead, so I look like a tomato when I blush) and can't seem to find words. I'm such a clam, but I'll see if I can, even though I hardly ever get a chance to see him except for the one class we have together. And glad to know I have people at my back.

[[But in an incident when we were having a conversation walking home (We live down the street from each other) he couldn't stop smiling too and was mimicking me (In a funny, nice way) and we both were laughing very hard until the crosswalk when we had to separate. It wasn't too hard, but we weren't at school and nobody was around us.]]

[~Prussia~]

I guess so. But I mean, every other girl is falling at his feet and saying he's soooooo cute right in front of him, while I'm the underdog who's always talking about him to my friends but never even says hi because I don't have the courage.

I understand your problem, except the boy I love wasn't that popular on the places where I saw him. But have the courage. It's hard, but try to do it. I didn't do it, and really regret it now because he's with someone else now. I wished I told him... But now it's too late, he has a girlfriend now.
So have the courage and tell him before it's too late! We are standing right behind you and know how you feel. And if he says no, remember there's a land full of boys and maybe he really is the jerk your friends described

The truth is, I don't think I can. (I've tried at school.) Whenever I'm around him, I blush and smile (I'm a redhead, so I look like a tomato when I blush) and can't seem to find words. I'm such a clam, but I'll see if I can, even though I hardly ever get a chance to see him except for the one class we have together. And glad to know I have people at my back.

[[But in an incident when we were having a conversation walking home (We live down the street from each other) he couldn't stop smiling too and was mimicking me (In a funny, nice way) and we both were laughing very hard until the crosswalk when we had to separate. It wasn't too hard, but we weren't at school and nobody was around us.]]

If you réally can't find words spent an evening writing down everything you want to say and read that over and over. Then try the next day saying what you wrote down. And if you really can't do it you can send the letter in which you can say something like "you're loving him so much that words get lost", I'm sure he'll understand. And if he doesn't, well, then it's bad luck for him, not?

C'mon girl, you can do it!!

[ana4patch]

hey i fancy a boy to called david and another caled james they are sssssssssooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo dreamie

[no .]

The girl that I have a crush on, Arianna, is dating another guy. D:

[~Prussia~]

The girl that I have a crush on, Arianna, is dating another guy. D:

Know your feeling, but try to be strong! Be there for the girl if you think she's worth it to help her. If she isn't, look around you, into the world with a whole lot of other awesome girls!