~Love_Zelda~ wrote:You can skip over to the bolded words if you don't want to read the whole story :D
Okay, so a while back when high school started this guy i barely knew told me he liked me. A couple months later after I got to know him a lot more, I started to like him. I liked someone else a lot more at this time, and he just hooked up with another girl who I didn't like in the first place. And the boy who liked me knew about them and knew how much I liked the boy. I was talking to him on facebook and i started joking around and said that I must be hideous, and he told me that I was beautiful. This sounds a little corny, but something just hit me when he said that. It made me think, "Wow. . . the one I've been looking for has been here the whole time."
A few weeks later, I told him I liked him. He was the happiest person in the entire world. A couple days later he held my hand when I was upset about a family problem, which made me a lot happier. Then in homeroom we started holding hands under the table everyday. People kept asking if we were going out, bt we didn't want to admit anything yet.
On the facebook chat, he told me he wants to kiss me. But I told him I was afraid to, so that didn't happen for weeks. Finally, last week, he kissed me. A real kiss. Not just a little peck. It was the real thing like you see in movies. And he kissed me earlier this week on the stairway when nobody was around. Then yesterday he asked me out because it was 11.11.11 and we went to the park and we kissed me for what felt like 20 minutes. I'm not even exaggerating here.
Okay so here's the point. He hangs out with his two exes a lot. He says he's over one of them, and said nothing about the other. For some reason it just makes me mad. Even though he's still with a big group of people when he hangs out with them. He has a very hard time getting over girls, and I don't know if that is just a boy thing or if this is his own problem. And he texts them a lot. I really don't like that. Should I tell him that I don't like it? Or should I wait until we are official and sure that we are in a relationship? I really need some advice with that, so if anyone with experience (because this is my first "boyfriend" and I need someone who has had more than one boyfriend before to help please). Thank you. (:
Well, I think if he's kissed you then he should be more serious about you. Ask him if he's serious about you. If he isn't then just drop him, but if he is tell him you want to be sure about it but can't because you don't know if he still likes his ex's or not.
I hope you got that. :) And if he still doesn't get what you're trying to tell him, just tell him straight out you don't like him hanging out with those girls. If he deserves you then he will stop talking to them.
