Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[mekaiser]

I'm not sure if I really like him or not, but whatever.
There's this guy..We'll call him C, for his last name. He's pretty popular, but more down-to-earth than last year. We only have one class together, but something weird happened the other day.
Okay, so, normally I have strange eye contact with every one. But for the past few days it's been more intense and strange with him, and I'm getting that door-opener kind of eye contact instead of the normal it's-okay. This is serious like...just, it feels weird.
xD But he did something so strange two days ago. We were playing jeopardy and he was talking to N, who sits behind him. (C, N, G, me, and maybe ONE other person are the only eighth graders in there. I dunno. We're in the normal advanced class but they put the majority as seventh graders.) I heard him say "eleven" (Not my age, it was just a random number, which is why it's weirder.) and look up at me (I had to sit in the back on his side of the room since the stupid jeopardy boxes were blocking my view), which made me freak out a little and look down. Being myself, I looked up again and he looked over at me again. He said "What's your number?" I just stared for a second until I asked "What?" Then he replied "What's the number of your controller on the bottom?" I just went o3o and said "Eleven.." and showed it to him.
He turned around and said to N "OMG YESSSS I GOT IT RIIIIIIGGGHHHTTT DDDD" I was just staring at him like an idiot. xD

Last year, I had to sit in front of him in english when I moved here (In April, so we haven't known each other for long.) He always stabbed me with things, called me "Ala" instead of "Ali" and laughed when I responded, he used my hair and body as a ramp for his little toy skateboard (to which I responded by snatching it away and giving it to W. ..xD), and threatened to lick my elbow.
THREATENED TO LICK MY ELBOW.

well that's sort of weird....DON'T MAKE ME LICK MY ELBOW, MMMMHHHHMMM! i think your in the offical class of ƃuıllɐɟ LOL. what you should do? well like most guys in our grade are weirdos....i think he is one of them...BUT i think haveing a weirdo in your life is the best thing ever! i had one in my life that always made my day, he would always take my breath away with stupid tricks and i really loved him like a brother, not like a boy friend or anything untill the day i knew he was the one for me....the day of the dreaded question "will you be my girl friend?" i hesitaited but i knew then my brother (soul wise) was now my boyfriend.

[Firefly_Dreamer]

I am certain, now, that i am in love. i feel so alone when i'm not with this guy in my grade. I liked him for four years, now.
I feel so wierd and am not sure why.

He cheers me up when i'm about to explode, and has talked me out of hurting myself a couple of times.
What i don't get is why i feel so miserable and this deep pain when he doesn't talk to me, or when i don't see him around school, and why i feel so at ease, happy, and bubbly around him, and when he talks to me.

My friend says we are perfect for each other, and have so much in common, and that he stopped dating a different girl who hates me. He still thinks she likes him, but she doesn't and i have witnessed her telling him many times. what should i do to help him?

[mekaiser]

I am certain, now, that i am in love. i feel so alone when i'm not with this guy in my grade. I liked him for four years, now.
I feel so wierd and am not sure why.

He cheers me up when i'm about to explode, and has talked me out of hurting myself a couple of times.
What i don't get is why i feel so miserable and this deep pain when he doesn't talk to me, or when i don't see him around school, and why i feel so at ease, happy, and bubbly around him, and when he talks to me.

My friend says we are perfect for each other, and have so much in common, and that he stopped dating a different girl who hates me. He still thinks she likes him, but she doesn't and i have witnessed her telling him many times. what should i do to help him?

well i do think your in love and when you are in love it is unbelieveable, and yet it totally is. what i would do is just try to keep your distance from that girl he doesn't like and push him away from her whenever she gets near him. but don't make it noticeable. sounds easy enough!

[Firefly_Dreamer]

I am certain, now, that i am in love. i feel so alone when i'm not with this guy in my grade. I liked him for four years, now.
I feel so wierd and am not sure why.

He cheers me up when i'm about to explode, and has talked me out of hurting myself a couple of times.
What i don't get is why i feel so miserable and this deep pain when he doesn't talk to me, or when i don't see him around school, and why i feel so at ease, happy, and bubbly around him, and when he talks to me.

My friend says we are perfect for each other, and have so much in common, and that he stopped dating a different girl who hates me. He still thinks she likes him, but she doesn't and i have witnessed her telling him many times. what should i do to help him?

well i do think your in love and when you are in love it is unbelieveable, and yet it totally is. what i would do is just try to keep your distance from that girl he doesn't like and push him away from her whenever she gets near him. but don't make it noticeable. sounds easy enough!

Sorry i meant, she doesn't like me. She doesn't like him, because he's a bit overprotective.

He likes her, though, even though she doesn't like him anymore.

My bff thinks he likes me, but i'm nnot sure if he does. i am a little afraid to ask, because i don't want my heart broken, again, like in sixth grade.

[mekaiser]

Sorry i meant, she doesn't like me. She doesn't like him, because he's a bit overprotective.

He likes her, though, even though she doesn't like him anymore.

My bff thinks he likes me, but i'm nnot sure if he does. i am a little afraid to ask, because i don't want my heart broken, again, like in sixth grade.

i had my heart broken in second grade...puppy love never lasts....You need to let this play itself out...i don't know what to tell you

[loonyloolaluna]

(thanks YTG for dragging me into this)

YTG... i guess what you just said... was partly my fault
sorry T.T

I remember in year 7 i liked this guy (i called him cheese - dont ask) and i liked him for... nearly a year... (some 'friends told him i liked him) we flirted, texted... but it was all a ruse... he as using me, i can tell now he was rofling at how desperate i must have sounded...
he was sporty, and looked hot... i was shallow... and young... and naive
he broke my heart by telling me (ill * out the vowels): 'F*ck off you b*tch! I hate you!'

then in year 8 i had another crush (i called him monkeys - again for the love of god dont ask) after 2 terms i told him that i liked him (man it was so hard to say that) he looked awkward, and embarressed... i asked him not to tell... but he did (even the teacher found out T.T) after him ignoring me so much (i actually dumbed my self down so i cold be in his maths group, and english group....) i just thought 'You fugger! you ignore me! after all ive- screw YOU!' (lol fugger - cant say thats swearing!)
again, he was tan, sporty... kinda smart, but dumber than me... but yet, i was still shallow and naive (it was only in january this year i started wanting to rip him to shreads everytime i saw him)

now i have a new crush (dear god) i nick named him UFO, 2 reasons, 1: his rank at ATC if Under Officer (which i hope you can guess is pretty high) so the initials are UO, and 2: my friend YTG always went UFO! and well, it made sense: unidentified (check), flying (check), object (... check?) so the name stuck
i mean... this guy is......... oh its more than a crush, its bloody (sorry if thats cussing) magic!
ive done so much... to know about him.... (next post ill say just how far ive gone)

On Facebook
I 'stalked' his
Wall
- He likes reptiles!
- And he's so awesome

Photos
- Hes standing infront of the collisium of Rome! weird, one year ago i did some 'cocoa reading' (like reading tea leaves, but with milo) and, there came up, the collisium of Rome! (If that's not a sign Idk what it!)
- He went to my school, and theres a pic of him, standing there, where my friends hang out (And every time I pass it I'm like OMG!)

Info
- Looking at all his likes (just casually), and liking, like half of them. (And four of them are... Lets just say not that manly -.-)
- The last like says 'facebook stalking... admit it, you do it' I jumped a meter back when I saw that.

Friends
- I saw i was mutual friends with someone, and when they finally put as their status 'mail me a question and a number, and I'll reply honestly' that was my chance, so I asked her how she knew him, and apparently they're family friends .
- I saw he had that one mutual friend (^that one up there^), I added him. He declined T.T. Then a few weeks later he added some girl (his age) from ATC. Then 18 days ago (ehh calender's right behind me) our squadron went bowling, then that night I check his Fb again >.> and he had one more mutual friend =O so I waited ... until the end of school next day, and he had another mutual friend, so I added him... 5 odd hours later, he had another mutual friend (that's 5 so far..) but didn't accept me (yet didn't decline). Two weeks later he still hasn't accepted my friend request (and still hasn't declined), but added someone else... And I'm sitting at home, on my laptop, arranging my privacy settings so he can see my photos, and posts... And whatnot.


I'm finally ironing my ATC (air training cadets) uniform, and 8 simple rules is on.
bridget likes a guy (like she usually does), but she says its more than a crush, its different
when i heard that... I felt the same way (about UFO)
then she (btw, hes her tennis coach) says his name is S**** (im not going to say -.-) and I'm like
then she says his name is S**** **-something-or-rather and I'm like *backing away from the tv*
it. was. scary!


Then I look in the white pages (peoples addresses/numbers) and look him up, (don't judge please)
and ... I didn't know quite where it was (his house...), so I searched it up on google maps
turns out i pass his house 4 times a week o.O
and recently I've found out the WAY to his house... (he like lives in the middle of this triangle thing)


I calculated our age difference
4years-9months-4weeks apart
57months-4weeks
1762 days all together
I still need to figure out the weeks-days
I also figured out that (for example:) when i was 1 year old, he WAS year one (that's like 4/5 years older)
and I turned 13 last year, and he was year 13 last year (making it his last year of school, he's in uni now)


You know that song in Sleeping Beauty? It goes:

I know you
I've walked with you once upon a dream
I know you
The gleam in your eyes is so familiar a gleam
Yes I know it's true
And visions are seldom all they seem
But if I know you
I know what you'll do
You'll love me at once
The way you did once upon a dream...

Yeah... For me that's our song (and he doesn't even know it! T.T)


And I was watching the Little Mermaid (I was having a Disney Princess marathon) and then I started to draw a picture... I was like a cross between a harpy and a siren (like 90% harpy) next to it says 'The Little Mermaid has taken its toll on me.' And under YTG wrote 'Shot'


I've just found out so much, done so much, looked into it and all... I've put it onto a piece of paper, and it's the most precious thing to me at the moment, more precious that my laptop! Even more than my Harry Potter books.....

So tell me, what do I do?

[mekaiser]

(thanks YTG for dragging me into this)

YTG... i guess what you just said... was partly my fault
sorry T.T

I remember in year 7 i liked this guy (i called him cheese - dont ask) and i liked him for... nearly a year... (some 'friends told him i liked him) we flirted, texted... but it was all a ruse... he as using me, i can tell now he was rofling at how desperate i must have sounded...
he was sporty, and looked hot... i was shallow... and young... and naive
he broke my heart by telling me (ill * out the vowels): 'F*ck off you b*tch! I hate you!'

then in year 8 i had another crush (i called him monkeys - again for the love of god dont ask) after 2 terms i told him that i liked him (man it was so hard to say that) he looked awkward, and embarressed... i asked him not to tell... but he did (even the teacher found out T.T) after him ignoring me so much (i actually dumbed my self down so i cold be in his maths group, and english group....) i just thought 'You fugger! you ignore me! after all ive- screw YOU!' (lol fugger - cant say thats swearing!)
again, he was tan, sporty... kinda smart, but dumber than me... but yet, i was still shallow and naive (it was only in january this year i started wanting to rip him to shreads everytime i saw him)

now i have a new crush (dear god) i nick named him UFO, 2 reasons, 1: his rank at ATC if Under Officer (which i hope you can guess is pretty high) so the initials are UO, and 2: my friend YTG always went UFO! and well, it made sense: unidentified (check), flying (check), object (... check?) so the name stuck
i mean... this guy is......... oh its more than a crush, its bloody (sorry if thats cussing) magic!
ive done so much... to know about him.... (next post ill say just how far ive gone)

On Facebook
I 'stalked' his
Wall
- He likes reptiles!
- And he's so awesome

Photos
- Hes standing infront of the collisium of Rome! weird, one year ago i did some 'cocoa reading' (like reading tea leaves, but with milo) and, there came up, the collisium of Rome! (If that's not a sign Idk what it!)
- He went to my school, and theres a pic of him, standing there, where my friends hang out (And every time I pass it I'm like OMG!)

Info
- Looking at all his likes (just casually), and liking, like half of them. (And four of them are... Lets just say not that manly -.-)
- The last like says 'facebook stalking... admit it, you do it' I jumped a meter back when I saw that.

Friends
- I saw i was mutual friends with someone, and when they finally put as their status 'mail me a question and a number, and I'll reply honestly' that was my chance, so I asked her how she knew him, and apparently they're family friends .
- I saw he had that one mutual friend (^that one up there^), I added him. He declined T.T. Then a few weeks later he added some girl (his age) from ATC. Then 18 days ago (ehh calender's right behind me) our squadron went bowling, then that night I check his Fb again >.> and he had one more mutual friend =O so I waited ... until the end of school next day, and he had another mutual friend, so I added him... 5 odd hours later, he had another mutual friend (that's 5 so far..) but didn't accept me (yet didn't decline). Two weeks later he still hasn't accepted my friend request (and still hasn't declined), but added someone else... And I'm sitting at home, on my laptop, arranging my privacy settings so he can see my photos, and posts... And whatnot.


I'm finally ironing my ATC (air training cadets) uniform, and 8 simple rules is on.
bridget likes a guy (like she usually does), but she says its more than a crush, its different
when i heard that... I felt the same way (about UFO)
then she (btw, hes her tennis coach) says his name is S**** (im not going to say -.-) and I'm like
then she says his name is S**** **-something-or-rather and I'm like *backing away from the tv*
it. was. scary!


Then I look in the white pages (peoples addresses/numbers) and look him up, (don't judge please)
and ... I didn't know quite where it was (his house...), so I searched it up on google maps
turns out i pass his house 4 times a week o.O
and recently I've found out the WAY to his house... (he like lives in the middle of this triangle thing)


I calculated our age difference
4years-9months-4weeks apart
57months-4weeks
1762 days all together
I still need to figure out the weeks-days
I also figured out that (for example:) when i was 1 year old, he WAS year one (that's like 4/5 years older)
and I turned 13 last year, and he was year 13 last year (making it his last year of school, he's in uni now)


You know that song in Sleeping Beauty? It goes:

I know you
I've walked with you once upon a dream
I know you
The gleam in your eyes is so familiar a gleam
Yes I know it's true
And visions are seldom all they seem
But if I know you
I know what you'll do
You'll love me at once
The way you did once upon a dream...

Yeah... For me that's our song (and he doesn't even know it! T.T)


And I was watching the Little Mermaid (I was having a Disney Princess marathon) and then I started to draw a picture... I was like a cross between a harpy and a siren (like 90% harpy) next to it says 'The Little Mermaid has taken its toll on me.' And under YTG wrote 'Shot'


I've just found out so much, done so much, looked into it and all... I've put it onto a piece of paper, and it's the most precious thing to me at the moment, more precious that my laptop! Even more than my Harry Potter books.....

So tell me, what do I do?

no offence whatso ever but thats really stalking him, yet again if i were that much in love with him i would do the exact same thing! i think you need to let this play out most likly he will eventually friend you i hope...

[Firefly_Dreamer]

Sorry i meant, she doesn't like me. She doesn't like him, because he's a bit overprotective.

He likes her, though, even though she doesn't like him anymore.

My bff thinks he likes me, but i'm nnot sure if he does. i am a little afraid to ask, because i don't want my heart broken, again, like in sixth grade.

i had my heart broken in second grade...puppy love never lasts....You need to let this play itself out...i don't know what to tell you

ik, that is why him and the girl that hates him and me, broke up with him. Thanka anyway.

[loonyloolaluna]

no offence whatso ever but thats really stalking him, yet again if i were that much in love with him i would do the exact same thing! i think you need to let this play out most likly he will eventually friend you i hope...

None taken, I've been called it many times before...
AWESOME! XD
And I do want to be friends... And that really it...
I just to be friends... But yet more? Idk if that make sense... Apart from bring friends, what else should I do?

[mekaiser]

no offence whatso ever but thats really stalking him, yet again if i were that much in love with him i would do the exact same thing! i think you need to let this play out most likly he will eventually friend you i hope...

None taken, I've been called it many times before...
AWESOME! XD
And I do want to be friends... And that really it...
I just to be friends... But yet more? Idk if that make sense... Apart from bring friends, what else should I do?

well you could try to talk to him more and sit with him at lunch or something...where ever you guys meet spend the most time with him you can. Relationships start with Friendships. just gradually talk to him and eventually it will work out.