Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[broker]

I certainly do have a crush to this boy I'm writing to, the thing called letters, that's how I'm writing.
Don't flatter men, big mistake. They don't stop sending you things there working on, activates their good at.. they.. just, don't, stop.
However luckily I'm the type of person that thinks in every way how sweet his being. Ever since I told him I liked jokes he sends jokes in his letters. He keeps asking me what I want for Christmas, birthdays, and most of the time he sends me gifts for no reason.
He lives in another state now, and I doubt either of us have the courage to see each other face to face, I'd either die of embarrassment, or he would first.

Well, the end of my now not so secret "crush"

[arcticwolf]

Calm your pants. You're in grade eight, or in that general age frame. Plenty of chances for love will come, I assure you. At your age "love" is an incredibly fickle thing, and people are fickle enough when they're mature. You honestly probably were a "splatter on his carpet of life", and he'll be that on yours. You can't honestly expect to be staying with your middle school sweetheart, and in my experience these "relationships" never last long at that age.

While I do agree with you on the majority of kids my age, I disagree in a way.
I had never had a boyfriend until last year, grade 7. While most people had started dating back in fourth grade, I didn't. I had crushed on two guys, thought I "loved" them (which I now know I didn't) and they both rejected me harshly. It was then that I made sure not to fall for anyone.
But... my best friend got her first boyfriend. Let's call him Peeps. It was the guy I sat next to in math and said he liked my shirt (which another guy said he liked me, and Peeps didn't say anything back). He was cute, and I knew I liked him though I buried those feelings the best I could.
I didn't want to fall for anyone because at that point I thought nobody would ever love me. I didn't tell anyone how I felt about Peeps, because he couldn't- wouldn't like me back.

And then... they broke up after a month or so of dating. Three days later I was bored. I already had Peeps's number, for some reason I don't remember. I randomly typed into my phone, "Will you go out w/ me? :)" and hit Send. But I didn't want to send it, for obvious reasons, so I hit cancel.
Correction, I err, thought I hit cancel.
...The message sent.

And, now I've had a boyfriend for almost ten months (we're in grade 8 now). :3 Just pointing out that not everyone goes through relationships like they're nothing. 99% of the people in my school do, yes, but me and Peeps are that 1%.

We're taking things slow. We haven't kissed yet. The most we've done is hold hands and hug. Neither of us have had our first kiss, so at least I'm not the only newbie at relationships xD.
We do have our petty fights and arguments. But we always make up.
(Sorry if this post seems bad written or confusing, I'm sick and tired ;-;.)

[broker]

I hate to mini mod but guys, keep in mind giving out your grade is against Privacy and personal information.

[Angry.Jackal]

What do you do if you know the guy you like likes another girl?

same thing happened to me just recently, but then he started actin all flirty with me (recent post from earlier talks about that) and then she broke up with him because she didnt trust him anymore. So... Are you sure the guy even knows you? like, he knows you're there, but he doesn't really talk to you much unless he has to? if that's the case, i would say leave him and move on. if not.... please ask again later :3

[grim.]

Grrr....
Well I'm starting to feel weird. I still like Shay, and I know he likes me. I've been waiting for nearly two months for him to ask me out and he hasn't. I'm starting to think he won't either. Actually I', positive he won't ask me out. I like him because his personality is so... fun. He's this crazy, spazztastic ADHD guy who is just super easy to get along with and just lives to have a good time. I like him, he likes me and I know it.
There's just one issue.
I like Maynard more. Maynard is probably my best friend, even though I've only known him for about four or five months. He's more a bully than Shay. Not a real rank bully, just one of those cheeky guys who is like; "Go, on get outta here." Then he'll laugh, say "Sorry, I'm kidding bro." and then give me a hug. He's real cute, and we share a lot of the same interests and do a lot of the same things. He's even sorta trying to teach me to play guitar. Last Friday me and him went to our friend Blaise's house played some games and drank some stuff. Me and Maynard pretty well fell asleep holding each other. He was super drunk, but it was so funny and kind of cute. He's really nice, and just really... cuddly when he's drunk. We were getting in each other's personal space and I nearly, nearly kissed him. Because he was kind of leaning over me wwith his hair in my face, and lips so close we could have kissed. It was wonderful and terrible at the same time. It was a good night, but he told me about the girl he likes and it just cushed me.
I also think it's kind of creepy because I'm two years older than him... Any advice?

[amanda131]

The boy I hate most in the world, I now like. I stil hate him though. I am telling myself not to like him, but everything in my body is saying I do.

[sgihl74]

okay so i like this one kid in my school and i need advise on what to do he dated my friend two years ago and since then me and that friend went seperate ways but i think she still likes him what should i do?

P.S they didnt really date they only hung out in school

[Cirque]

Yesterday, my crush talked to me non-stop in english class. <3
I've seen him be kind of mean to other people, sometimes in a teasing way, sometimes not, but he's never like that towards me. He compliments me on how smart I am, but I always feel bad when we get tests or projects back with grades on them, since he always asks what I got, and I [usually] get an A/B+, and his grades are usually B-/C and sometimes even D's and lower. D:
He sits right next to me in english class, and he always turns so he's facing me, even if he's not talking to me. My best friend thinks he likes me [there are a few other signs that he might like me], but I'm not so sure.

[Expresso.]

Grrr....
Well I'm starting to feel weird. I still like Shay, and I know he likes me. I've been waiting for nearly two months for him to ask me out and he hasn't. I'm starting to think he won't either. Actually I', positive he won't ask me out. I like him because his personality is so... fun. He's this crazy, spazztastic ADHD guy who is just super easy to get along with and just lives to have a good time. I like him, he likes me and I know it.
There's just one issue.
I like Maynard more. Maynard is probably my best friend, even though I've only known him for about four or five months. He's more a bully than Shay. Not a real rank bully, just one of those cheeky guys who is like; "Go, on get outta here." Then he'll laugh, say "Sorry, I'm kidding bro." and then give me a hug. He's real cute, and we share a lot of the same interests and do a lot of the same things. He's even sorta trying to teach me to play guitar. Last Friday me and him went to our friend Blaise's house played some games and drank some stuff. Me and Maynard pretty well fell asleep holding each other. He was super drunk, but it was so funny and kind of cute. He's really nice, and just really... cuddly when he's drunk. We were getting in each other's personal space and I nearly, nearly kissed him. Because he was kind of leaning over me wwith his hair in my face, and lips so close we could have kissed. It was wonderful and terrible at the same time. It was a good night, but he told me about the girl he likes and it just cushed me.
I also think it's kind of creepy because I'm two years older than him... Any advice?

Off topic, but you edited 666 times?!

Anyway, umm one of my friend (Guy) is trying to ask another one of my friend (Girl) out. she doesn't like him, but dont want to say no to hurt his feelings. I can't help her as I have never had a boyfriend >-<

[blackoutTaxonomist]

Calm your pants. You're in grade eight, or in that general age frame. Plenty of chances for love will come, I assure you. At your age "love" is an incredibly fickle thing, and people are fickle enough when they're mature. You honestly probably were a "splatter on his carpet of life", and he'll be that on yours. You can't honestly expect to be staying with your middle school sweetheart, and in my experience these "relationships" never last long at that age.

Thank you.

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I shall forgo rain today to meet the boyfriend in town.... Normally I prefer to be hydrophobic, but I'll be hydrophilic for him any day ((that sounded better in my head... Gosh darnit, why am I such a nerd? xD Biology FTW)) the only thing wrong with this is that I don't want to spend money and don't want him to spend money on me. I'm a poor student ;A; I need to be able to afford Christmas!