Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Jessica :3]

I was walking by my crush today, and he sees me and hides his face in his locker and smiles! I'm still too nervous to talk to him though >.< I need some advice please lol

[broken*]

Just found out by my (Pretty much) first boyfriend ever, that he turned bi while with me... I've never felt this sh*tty before...I'm literally sobbing right now. I cant help it. I loved him with all my friggin heart. He was my first boyfriend, the first guy who made me feel special. And he just told me he's Bi.. I dont even know what "we" are anymore..

Help? :''(

[Ebby20]

I was walking by my crush today, and he sees me and hides his face in his locker and smiles! I'm still too nervous to talk to him though >.< I need some advice please lol

you might want to show him suttle hints that you like him, like maybe saying hi with a cute little wink. that's i got my boyfriend. :3

[kimmy1479]

Just found out by my (Pretty much) first boyfriend ever, that he turned bi while with me... I've never felt this sh*tty before...I'm literally sobbing right now. I cant help it. I loved him with all my friggin heart. He was my first boyfriend, the first guy who made me feel special. And he just told me he's Bi.. I dont even know what "we" are anymore..

Help? :''(

Well thats really hard. I guess the first thing to do is just accept it. Its who he is and it can't be changed. But you are who you are too, so don't let yourself get too down. I know he was special to you, but (And yes, I DO realise this is cliche' and cheesy) there will be other guys. Another guy will make you feel special. Someon be else will be there. Just be patient, he will arrive.

[Jessica :3]

I was walking by my crush today, and he sees me and hides his face in his locker and smiles! I'm still too nervous to talk to him though >.< I need some advice please lol

you might want to show him suttle hints that you like him, like maybe saying hi with a cute little wink. that's i got my boyfriend. :3

Thank you very much for the advice! I'll try tomorrow! :3

[blackoutTaxonomist]

Any advice on how? I want to, but I don't know what to do or say. I don't want to be rude, but "Go up and talk to the person that you have never talked directly too in your life, and whom you have a crush on." isn't helpful. Mostly because I don't have the guts. XD But nevertheless, if you could give some advce on how please?

Eh, well, if you can't go direct approach.. Then you'll have to be patient and hope an opportunity arises. Like maybe you'll end up sitting together in class or get lumped into a group project together... Maybe you'll need to know the time, need to borrow a pencil, forget the date, or something, so you can at least talk to them briefly. It's better than nothing.

Just found out by my (Pretty much) first boyfriend ever, that he turned bi while with me... I've never felt this (ah, bad word) before...I'm literally sobbing right now. I cant help it. I loved him with all my friggin heart. He was my first boyfriend, the first guy who made me feel special. And he just told me he's Bi.. I dont even know what "we" are anymore..

Help? :''(

Don't cry. What's the big deal that your boyfriend is Bi? So he's attracted to men... No big deal. I have a boyfriend who I love very much and I'm Bi. It doesn't mean I don't love him... I just like women, too.

[broken*]

Thats not it, I dont mind the Bi part exactly, but he pretty much said he's more attracted to men, and that we'll talk more tomorrow. I'm going to lose him, he's pracically already told me that.

[kimmy1479]

Yeah, I think Kale's point was that they where breaking up because he wasn't interested in women anymore. He might still love her, but I assume not in the same way. At least thats what I got out of it.

And we don't go to the same school. Just Church, Youthgroup, and Church activitys (Fall Festival, Charity Car Wash, ect) So the only time I would even have a chance to talk to him is afer/before service, after Youthgroup sermon (Because we don't have the same small groups), and the odd activity. I suppose I should be glad that I sometimes get to kinda hang out with him. Kinda. Sometimes when I'm playing Ping Pong he will jump into the game, or we will play 2 on 2. Too bad I stink at ping pong.

[Ebby20]

I was walking by my crush today, and he sees me and hides his face in his locker and smiles! I'm still too nervous to talk to him though >.< I need some advice please lol

you might want to show him suttle hints that you like him, like maybe saying hi with a cute little wink. that's i got my boyfriend. :3

Thank you very much for the advice! I'll try tomorrow! :3

your welcome. :3 from what you said though, it seems as though he likes you back, so i wouldnt worry about your result. and if that doesnt work (but im pretty sure it will! :3) you could be friends with him for a while. friendship is pefect fuel to start up a romance. lol X3

[blackoutTaxonomist]

Thats not it, I dont mind the Bi part exactly, but he pretty much said he's more attracted to men, and that we'll talk more tomorrow. I'm going to lose him, he's pracically already told me that.

Not necessarily true... I'll admit to having a stronger physical attraction to women. But it's not all about physical attraction, you know? Just keep your head up and let him sort himself out. If he breaks up with you, it will be because he thinks it's best... Do your best to take it in stride. I know it's not the best sounding advice... But there isn't much you can really do about this.

Yeah, I think Kale's point was that they where breaking up because he wasn't interested in women anymore. He might still love her, but I assume not in the same way. At least thats what I got out of it.

...But if he wasn't interested in women, he wouldn't be considered Bi.