Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[woofers.]

Okay, so I want to get closer to my crush and many of your suggested talking to him. But how? He isn't really interested in me. Like, he isn't really searching for a Girl friend.

[Desayah]

who cares if he isnt searching for one. it doesnt mean he cant have one. so just start by talking to him. make little jokes you both can alugh at.

[kimmy1479]

Try just being freinds first. Hanging out, going places in a group, ect. Then, when you start to get closer, you can take the next step.

[-Firesong-]

Maybe he'll come around. I mean, just because he might not be searching for a girlfriend at this moment doesn't mean that you can't try to be his friend. You can still flirt with him and talk to him.

I have a problem. Anyways, there's my boyfriend of about 5 months, Buggy. So Buggy and I were friends for a while before we dated and we've known each other for about three years. The relationship...has been kind of troubled the entire time. We started dating in April, broke up for a week in May. We almost broke up many, many, many times over the summer, and finally did about two weeks into August. And we got back together again--again!--at the very end of August. Well, it's the end of September now. The relationship was great for the past month or so. Until this week, it's kind of gone downhill fast. Buggy essentially ignores me. We don't really talk at all, we never text anymore, and we used to all the time. We have the same lunch, and I'll sit next to him and he'll just talk to his friends the entire time. The only time he ever pays any attention to me is at the end of the day, when we'll kiss and stuff..and he's just being an all-around jerk. Should I break up with him? I mean, I like him, and I don't want to make a mistake by ending things, but I really am getting sick of all of this. Sorry for the novel.

[Official-Enjolras]

So mmy friends ex is making her feel horrible. its just kills her to be around him so much...she's cutting herself. I don't know what to do D8

[OrangeNeon]

HOw do I know if my crush likes me? My friends say they've seen him staring at me several times for long periods of time. And when I see him in the hallway and notices me looking at him he looks at the floor right away. Help?

[blackoutTaxonomist]

So mmy friends ex is making her feel horrible. its just kills her to be around him so much...she's cutting herself. I don't know what to do D8

You need to tell someone... like her mom guys aren't worth self-mutilation... Well, actually, nothing is worth self-mutilation. Tell her that she doesn't need to do that. As long as she keeps it up, she's going to feel worse--what's more, when she gets older she's going to have to look at those scars every day of her life and remember either 1) how she felt or 2) how low she sank for what -now- feels like no reason. Self-harm is really hard to deal with, I know, because you feel so helpless. You really need to find her some help if she won't listen to you... Or you could just tell her ex to back off? Is he bugging her or is she just taking the break up really bad? :C Self harm is never the answer, either way. There is always another option... </3

[F e a r l e s s.]

So the guy that I like- N- has been... Well totally ignoring me the past couple days. Like we usually at least say hey and talk to eachother a little bit, we usually make eye contact like 5 or 6 times during class, but today... Nothing! I'm worried that maybe he's moved on? Or is it just... What? Lol so yeah, any advice on why he may be avoiding me?

[grim.]

Yesterday Shay and I were putting stickers all over each other in math class. I'm not even sure if he likes me anymore. I think he does because Isaiah keeps dropping hints, and stuff, but Shay doesn't really talk to me outside of class, though I'm hoping that once snowboarding season starts up that'll change because he told me that I'm teaching him to snowboard.
Can anyone help me out with whats going on? I mean... I'm tempted to ask him out, but I'm too shy, plus I'm too scared he'll reject me. DX

[Vivid]

Is it odd that me and my crush's longest conversation was about our dog's farts? xD

Anyways, how do I know what my crush likes me? My friends say he likes me back.
Symptoms -
He likes to talk. He talks to everyone, he teases everyone, but he never ocne talks to me on his own.
He avoids me at all cost. I'll try and talk to him, but he looks away distractedly.
My friends like to tease him about me. They'll go, "Ooh, look, you're sitting close to her!"

Help?