Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[Erythro]

Well, I honestly need some advice. I am in the 8th grade, almost high school and I am the girl that nobody likes, but most recently I dated a guy, but I ended up dumping him. Now, I like one of my best friends, Cary, yes his name is Cary, and I think he knows but, I don't know how to confront him about it. But, there is another obstacle, David. David is the guy you could say I am in love with, but last year he liked me but didn't have the guts to tell me. About 2 months ago we had a huge argument where we just stopped interacting altogether. I miss him, a lot, but not like a sister misses her brother, but I miss him as my best friend, the one I could tell secrets to and never have to worry. I loved him, but we don't talk anymore. This past Tuesday was his birthday, but I had forgotten. I had texted him asking why he left early and he told me his friends picked him up because it was his birthday. That started a whole huge argument as well, but now I feel like a jerk for forgetting. But, although I love him, I like Cary and I have a chance with Cary because we are really good friends, and he's turning into another David, someone I can tell my secrets to and not have to worry, because I'm learning things about him that nobody else knows. So, my real question, is: "What should I do?" Not tell Cary I like him, try to repair my relationship with David, see if Cary feels the same way about me as I feel about him? I just need help.

[Davy + Aero]

Well, I honestly need some advice. I am in the 8th grade, almost high school and I am the girl that nobody likes, but most recently I dated a guy, but I ended up dumping him. Now, I like one of my best friends, Cary, yes his name is Cary, and I think he knows but, I don't know how to confront him about it. But, there is another obstacle, David. David is the guy you could say I am in love with, but last year he liked me but didn't have the guts to tell me. About 2 months ago we had a huge argument where we just stopped interacting altogether. I miss him, a lot, but not like a sister misses her brother, but I miss him as my best friend, the one I could tell secrets to and never have to worry. I loved him, but we don't talk anymore. This past Tuesday was his birthday, but I had forgotten. I had texted him asking why he left early and he told me his friends picked him up because it was his birthday. That started a whole huge argument as well, but now I feel like a jerk for forgetting. But, although I love him, I like Cary and I have a chance with Cary because we are really good friends, and he's turning into another David, someone I can tell my secrets to and not have to worry, because I'm learning things about him that nobody else knows. So, my real question, is: "What should I do?" Not tell Cary I like him, try to repair my relationship with David, see if Cary feels the same way about me as I feel about him? I just need help.

I'd say sit tight with Cary, and see where it goes Trying to get back together with David might not work, and if Cary likes you but won't tell you, and thought you liked him back, it might make him upset.

And i've never liked a guy before, let alone a guy in the grade above me :I I really didn't think a guy in 8th grade would like a girl who is both shorter and in the grade below, but, hey, what can I say, looks like brains over brawn wins again [/endofegotasticalphrase]

[greysilence]

Well, I like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me. I've known him since kindergarden. He's just the right height, not too short not too tall, tan all the time(I envy him for that I think I'm part freaking albino without the red eyes or something) has big brown eyes. Short brown hair. Sits next to me in geography and near me in science. The thing is, we don't talk much to each other because I'm too shy. Plus, he's one of those "popular" guys and I'm one of those "middle" girls. The "popular" girls always glare at me whenever I go in the "popular" section. What should I do?

I still have no idea if he likes me, and it's driving me insane. UUUUUGH!

Mercedes, I think that the popular girls glare at you and don't let you in their clique because you're competition to them. All of the people who wear 10 inches of make-up are in those bad-movie cliques. If you go around confidently like you don't give a rats ass about what they think they will hate you but don't change.
Tell me what he does and I might be able to tell you if he likes you or not

Well, he doesn't really do muh of anything. Every now and then he teases me, like in third grade he threw up on me, so every now and then he'll tease me about that. I'm not really sure. We don't really talk to each other much or anything. So it's kind of hard. Also, sorry for any mispelled words. I'm on my iPod touch, so it's a bit difficult to type. =p

[whisperwholf]

Okay--help my here people, this guy, my best guy friend/worst enemy/who knows what he is to me is driving me crazy.

It went like this:

Met him, he pissed me off.
Oh, he's actually a little sweet.
Woah, does he like me? That's so cute, considering he's SO ugly.
What? He likes a hot girl? And he tells me of all people?
Man, he's pissing me off.
Oh, he's actually a little sweet...and over again.

Only sometimes he pisses me off more than anything else. This school year he's been really getting on my nerves, but today on the bus we were talking and I swear, it was like he was the only person who honestly WANTED to talk to me. He was so nice, it was like we understood each other. And it was so weird because I SWEAR I don't like him and nor does he like me, so what's the deal???

[hunter172]

Well.
Am I sad? Heff yes.

More pissed than anything.

My Boyfriend, Nick, just broke up with me.Why?
Well, my dog that I have had since I was 2(im 17), died today.
I was a wreck. My hair was a nest, makeup running down my face, tears, sweats, and a tee shirt.
Ya know what he says?
"If this is what you look like normally, I think we need to break up."

I did indeed freak out at him.Why can't I find a decent guy?!!?
The last guy [Trey] broke up with me because I spent too much time with my horses. Horses are something I have loved and been around my entire life. AND, I spent more time with Trey than my horses!

Then I had a few previous flings with stupid and immature boys.

It just makes me feel.. vulnerable? Yeah. AND, you know what Nick said after that?
"I don't think we should be friends either. Just erase everything we ever had."

HOW?!?!?! That was the best 2 months of my life! I sound childish saying that, but I am serious. I was truly happy with him! He made me tingle and sent socks through my body.
Trey was my best friend for 8 years, and boyfriend for 3, and I never felt that way. AND me and Trey don't talk anymore.

I just really hope this time around, I find someone decent.
I really want to take things a little slower.


I'll keep you updated.

But a serious blow to my mood and time of need!

[Dangitbobby]

Well.
Am I sad? Heff yes.

More pissed than anything.

My Boyfriend, Nick, just broke up with me.Why?
Well, my dog that I have had since I was 2(im 17), died today.
I was a wreck. My hair was a nest, makeup running down my face, tears, sweats, and a tee shirt.
Ya know what he says?
"If this is what you look like normally, I think we need to break up."

I did indeed freak out at him.Why can't I find a decent guy?!!?
The last guy [Trey] broke up with me because I spent too much time with my horses. Horses are something I have loved and been around my entire life. AND, I spent more time with Trey than my horses!

Then I had a few previous flings with stupid and immature boys.

It just makes me feel.. vulnerable? Yeah. AND, you know what Nick said after that?
"I don't think we should be friends either. Just erase everything we ever had."

HOW?!?!?! That was the best 2 months of my life! I sound childish saying that, but I am serious. I was truly happy with him! He made me tingle and sent socks through my body.
Trey was my best friend for 8 years, and boyfriend for 3, and I never felt that way. AND me and Trey don't talk anymore.

I just really hope this time around, I find someone decent.
I really want to take things a little slower.


I'll keep you updated.

But a serious blow to my mood and time of need!

Im sorry for what they did to you, a guy should be there on your worse day and your best day, A guy that breaks up with you because you've been having a terrible day (I'm so sorry for your lose) he should be there telling you your the most beautiful girl for him, You deserve a guy better then them for breaking up with you over stupid reasons.

[dozy]

Well.
Am I sad? Heff yes.

More pissed than anything.

My Boyfriend, Nick, just broke up with me.Why?
Well, my dog that I have had since I was 2(im 17), died today.
I was a wreck. My hair was a nest, makeup running down my face, tears, sweats, and a tee shirt.
Ya know what he says?
"If this is what you look like normally, I think we need to break up."

I did indeed freak out at him.Why can't I find a decent guy?!!?
The last guy [Trey] broke up with me because I spent too much time with my horses. Horses are something I have loved and been around my entire life. AND, I spent more time with Trey than my horses!

Then I had a few previous flings with stupid and immature boys.

It just makes me feel.. vulnerable? Yeah. AND, you know what Nick said after that?
"I don't think we should be friends either. Just erase everything we ever had."

HOW?!?!?! That was the best 2 months of my life! I sound childish saying that, but I am serious. I was truly happy with him! He made me tingle and sent socks through my body.
Trey was my best friend for 8 years, and boyfriend for 3, and I never felt that way. AND me and Trey don't talk anymore.

I just really hope this time around, I find someone decent.
I really want to take things a little slower.


I'll keep you updated. ;)

But a serious blow to my mood and time of need!

That's just being an ass, that's uncalled for. It's obvious if someone is crying and not in a good state, that something is completely wrong. Luckily you have a better temper than me, I would of made that guy look ugly.
I'm in a sort of the same situation, just not as harsh.

On Thursday, I rang him up, near tears with a problem. He didn't really do much, he sounded more pissed at me, and was just telling me to calm down and kinda yelled down the phone going 'I don't care about her, I'm in a relationship with you!' and then he changed the subject asking if I was busy on Saturday.(I was, sadly :c)

On Friday, my (ex)boyfriend broke up with me. Half an hour before Judo, we were talking to each other on the phone, happy as can be.
I fall asleep and forget about judo, I wake up at 10:30pm.
I find a text on my phone from him. I flip it open and find
'sorry this isn't working out I hope we can be mates hope to see you soon'

Oh yes, because dumping me by a text is a really great decision! Did you know that's actually the most coldest way of dumping? Oh, no you didn't, so I guess it's okay then, even though there is a 100% chance that she's gonna take it badly and would take it better if you actually bothered to see her face-to face! Oh well, not a big deal./sarcasm
But I think something influenced him. Either one of my friends actually pulled her virginity joke and that scared him(she threatened to tell him that I wanted to lose my virginity to him, although I don't) or she told him/showed him the notes about me being pissed off at him and calling him clingy.
Either that or the other girl who hated us going out persuaded him to break up with me.
Or he got another girlfriend, though OSH--, I'm going out with her still, flipped open his phone, and did a quick text before snogging his brand-new girlfriend.

What happened to "you are lovely, you are pretty and you make things fun"?
6 days, longest relationship in two years. Fuuuun

Oh well, at least I get to eat the chocolate I got him
-eats-

/pissed

[Wolfin]

My last bf was ....well, for the sake of younger viewers, I can't say what he is. I had to start making up words to shout at him.
We'd been going out for three years then "I like someone else," over text from him. If I ever see him again I'll punch him in the face -.-

[dallas12345]

Well.
Am I sad? Heff yes.

More pissed than anything.

My Boyfriend, Nick, just broke up with me.Why?
Well, my dog that I have had since I was 2(im 17), died today.
I was a wreck. My hair was a nest, makeup running down my face, tears, sweats, and a tee shirt.
Ya know what he says?
"If this is what you look like normally, I think we need to break up."

I did indeed freak out at him.Why can't I find a decent guy?!!?
The last guy [Trey] broke up with me because I spent too much time with my horses. Horses are something I have loved and been around my entire life. AND, I spent more time with Trey than my horses!

Then I had a few previous flings with stupid and immature boys.

It just makes me feel.. vulnerable? Yeah. AND, you know what Nick said after that?
"I don't think we should be friends either. Just erase everything we ever had."

HOW?!?!?! That was the best 2 months of my life! I sound childish saying that, but I am serious. I was truly happy with him! He made me tingle and sent socks through my body.
Trey was my best friend for 8 years, and boyfriend for 3, and I never felt that way. AND me and Trey don't talk anymore.

I just really hope this time around, I find someone decent.
I really want to take things a little slower.


I'll keep you updated.

But a serious blow to my mood and time of need!

That's just being an ass, that's uncalled for. It's obvious if someone is crying and not in a good state, that something is completely wrong. Luckily you have a better temper than me, I would of made that guy look ugly.
I'm in a sort of the same situation, just not as harsh.

On Thursday, I rang him up, near tears with a problem. He didn't really do much, he sounded more pissed at me, and was just telling me to calm down and kinda yelled down the phone going 'I don't care about her, I'm in a relationship with you!' and then he changed the subject asking if I was busy on Saturday.(I was, sadly :c)

On Friday, my (ex)boyfriend broke up with me. Half an hour before Judo, we were talking to each other on the phone, happy as can be.
I fall asleep and forget about judo, I wake up at 10:30pm.
I find a text on my phone from him. I flip it open and find
'sorry this isn't working out I hope we can be mates hope to see you soon'

Oh yes, because dumping me by a text is a really great decision! Did you know that's actually the most coldest way of dumping? Oh, no you didn't, so I guess it's okay then, even though there is a 100% chance that she's gonna take it badly and would take it better if you actually bothered to see her face-to face! Oh well, not a big deal./sarcasm
But I think something influenced him. Either one of my friends actually pulled her virginity joke and that scared him(she threatened to tell him that I wanted to lose my virginity to him, although I don't) or she told him/showed him the notes about me being pissed off at him and calling him clingy.
Either that or the other girl who hated us going out persuaded him to break up with me.
Or he got another girlfriend, though OSH--, I'm going out with her still, flipped open his phone, and did a quick text before snogging his brand-new girlfriend.

What happened to "you are lovely, you are pretty and you make things fun"?
6 days, longest relationship in two years. Fuuuun

Oh well, at least I get to eat the chocolate I got him
-eats-

/pissed

oooo i would be sooo pissed at him!!! >:( wel, at least you got the chocolate

[hunter172]

Well.
Am I sad? Heff yes.

More pissed than anything.

My Boyfriend, Nick, just broke up with me.Why?
Well, my dog that I have had since I was 2(im 17), died today.
I was a wreck. My hair was a nest, makeup running down my face, tears, sweats, and a tee shirt.
Ya know what he says?
"If this is what you look like normally, I think we need to break up."

I did indeed freak out at him.Why can't I find a decent guy?!!?
The last guy [Trey] broke up with me because I spent too much time with my horses. Horses are something I have loved and been around my entire life. AND, I spent more time with Trey than my horses!

Then I had a few previous flings with stupid and immature boys.

It just makes me feel.. vulnerable? Yeah. AND, you know what Nick said after that?
"I don't think we should be friends either. Just erase everything we ever had."

HOW?!?!?! That was the best 2 months of my life! I sound childish saying that, but I am serious. I was truly happy with him! He made me tingle and sent socks through my body.
Trey was my best friend for 8 years, and boyfriend for 3, and I never felt that way. AND me and Trey don't talk anymore.

I just really hope this time around, I find someone decent.
I really want to take things a little slower.


I'll keep you updated.

But a serious blow to my mood and time of need!

That's just being an ass, that's uncalled for. It's obvious if someone is crying and not in a good state, that something is completely wrong. Luckily you have a better temper than me, I would of made that guy look ugly.
I'm in a sort of the same situation, just not as harsh.

On Thursday, I rang him up, near tears with a problem. He didn't really do much, he sounded more pissed at me, and was just telling me to calm down and kinda yelled down the phone going 'I don't care about her, I'm in a relationship with you!' and then he changed the subject asking if I was busy on Saturday.(I was, sadly :c)

On Friday, my (ex)boyfriend broke up with me. Half an hour before Judo, we were talking to each other on the phone, happy as can be.
I fall asleep and forget about judo, I wake up at 10:30pm.
I find a text on my phone from him. I flip it open and find
'sorry this isn't working out I hope we can be mates hope to see you soon'

Oh yes, because dumping me by a text is a really great decision! Did you know that's actually the most coldest way of dumping? Oh, no you didn't, so I guess it's okay then, even though there is a 100% chance that she's gonna take it badly and would take it better if you actually bothered to see her face-to face! Oh well, not a big deal./sarcasm
But I think something influenced him. Either one of my friends actually pulled her virginity joke and that scared him(she threatened to tell him that I wanted to lose my virginity to him, although I don't) or she told him/showed him the notes about me being pissed off at him and calling him clingy.
Either that or the other girl who hated us going out persuaded him to break up with me.
Or he got another girlfriend, though OSH--, I'm going out with her still, flipped open his phone, and did a quick text before snogging his brand-new girlfriend.

What happened to "you are lovely, you are pretty and you make things fun"?
6 days, longest relationship in two years. Fuuuun

Oh well, at least I get to eat the chocolate I got him
-eats-

/pissed

Thank you.
And guys, they just don't understand! They think its like a game or something.
ITS NOT!
We are not supposed to be played. We're supposed to be loved and cared for.
Good thing you got the chocolate