by Flicka » Mon Apr 18, 2022 12:11 pm
I've had this gut feeling for like the past month and noticing things changing here and there. It came to a head recently with my boyfriend of the past few months. He explained one of the things away, but his reasoning for not labeling me openly to his friends/ extended family was he didn't want people to know his business. He said anything we did was between him and his partner. I let him know i wasn't happy with how i was feeling but I didn't bring it up again. He was supposed to come have easter with me, and instead I find his social media missing. Further investigating I found the social media of his ex who supposedly cheated on him, going back to last month she now has pictures of him with her and her kids as well as saying she's in a relationship. I've looked at a couple pictures and they're definitely in his car. He hasn't responded to me since this morning. I tried to call, and all i get is a ring then voice mail. Last time this happened i didn't hear from him for almost a week and he claimed that his phone and internet got shut off.
I'm spiraling a bit, I know they could be old pictures. But i just have this really strong feeling they aren't and he's been lying to me about her the whole time. Which is devastating because I've already met his family, and he met mine. Spent holiday's together. Talked about a future together. His mom even told me his ex lied about being pregnant. (she can't get pregnant) Why? why would he do this?