♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Light Bringer]

Hi guys, I don't post here often but I really need some advice right now. I recently started dating a boy and things were cool at the start, like, he was really affectionate but I could put up with it despite not really being big on super affectionate stuff but now it's getting kinda out of hand. He tries to kiss me every time we head off to class but I'm not completely comfortable with that. Especially since public signs of affection aren't really my thing either. I don't know what to do. He's really sensitive too, I don't want to hurt his feelings but also I don't want to keep getting smothered with more affection than I can handle.

tell him how you feel and what you want and what he does that you don't like and why you don't like it. it's much worse to keep pretending or smth else because he'll misunderstand and assume and get more hurt. if he's sensitive, chances are he'll be empathetic to your feelings so just tell him honestly with how it makes you feel and he'll (hopefully) understand.

Alright. I'll give that a go. Thank you so much for the advice. Fingers crossed it goes well.

[Winstalgia]

so,, I think my friend likes me, but he hasn't told me and it makes me kind of uncomfortable with the fact he might,,??

I know you can't prevent people from having feelings but it's just uncomfortable for me knowing that he might have a crush on me. I don't really have a question. maAybe, maybe not. Just needed to say this augh

[wilbursoot]

so,, I think my friend likes me, but he hasn't told me and it makes me kind of uncomfortable with the fact he might,,??

I know you can't prevent people from having feelings but it's just uncomfortable for me knowing that he might have a crush on me. I don't really have a question. maAybe, maybe not. Just needed to say this augh

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confront him.

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[Winstalgia]

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confront him.

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ooo but how,,?

I mean,, it sounds very easy but I'm not the type of person who'll just walk up to someone and ask them if they like me, y'know?

Tips, I guess,,? (the following below is just extra)

He's the type of guy I could ask anything really,, but he claims to dislike romance of any sort. Today it became a joke that he proposed to me (I was playing on the xbox with him and his little brother shouted in the mic ('it's .name.! Will you marry me, .my name.?')

He gets so defensive when my friends tease him about it. The good thing is is that they don't think I like him,, so I'm completely fine with this joke. SO defensive he flipped my sister off. (Kinda funny tbh)

[DanYourMan]

I got a question for you guys...

There's this girl that I like a lot, and I told her and she said she likes me back, but we promised to not date until we were 16 (I'm not saying how old I am now). There's one thing though... She seems to have gotten obsessed with me or something. She constantly follows me around like a puppy and taps on my shoulder every other minute just to say hi to me, especially when we're sitting right next to each other in class or when we're working independently on things. She also gets really sad when I tell her stuff like, "Not right now," or, "In a bit, okay?" when I'm trying to work, and I do it nicely, not rudely or anything... I feel like it's to the point where it's unhealthy for both of us... I don't want to say anything because I feel I was the same way as she was in my last relationship and my worst fear is being a hypocrite.... What do I do??

[wilbursoot]

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confront him.

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ooo but how,,?

I mean,, it sounds very easy but I'm not the type of person who'll just walk up to someone and ask them if they like me, y'know?

Tips, I guess,,? (the following below is just extra)

He's the type of guy I could ask anything really,, but he claims to dislike romance of any sort. Today it became a joke that he proposed to me (I was playing on the xbox with him and his little brother shouted in the mic ('it's .name.! Will you marry me, .my name.?')

He gets so defensive when my friends tease him about it. The good thing is is that they don't think I like him,, so I'm completely fine with this joke. SO defensive he flipped my sister off. (Kinda funny tbh)

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If you don't feel like confronting him about it, just be a good friend to him and try not to lead him on (it's very easy to accidentally do this). Wait until he asks you about it.

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[fiirstcrush]

god im--
im literally so lovestruck like... god shes so stunning
but i dont know if shes gay but she also kinda flirts with me back so im assuming???
she lives a bit far away though which is :< but
still
im just gonna keep throwing flirts out there till she makes a move akgkagmsgm

me like 3 days ago: not gonna do anything about this crush
me now: fl,,,flirt,,u hooligan,, FLIRT

[mr.scamander]

OK I'm not sure if this is the right forum but idk where else to post...

So I'm on a forensics team with a few other people. (the team is super super small). Almost everyone is super nice to me, except this one guy. He's not rude, he's just distant. Like he rarely speaks directly to me, and honestly, it bugs me. Like, I congratulated him after last tournament, and he didn't even say anything!
But like I said, everyone else is so so nice to me.

Anyone have any insight to this?

Edit: I also need to mention he talks all the time to the others

[wilbursoot]

OK I'm not sure if this is the right forum but idk where else to post...

So I'm on a forensics team with a few other people. (the team is super super small). Almost everyone is super nice to me, except this one guy. He's not rude, he's just distant. Like he rarely speaks directly to me, and honestly, it bugs me. Like, I congratulated him after last tournament, and he didn't even say anything!
But like I said, everyone else is so so nice to me.

Anyone have any insight to this?

Edit: I also need to mention he talks all the time to the others

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I'd say just keep being nice, maybe try and strike up a conversation?

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[beeqlass]

im confused about something.

im with someone. ive been with them for a while now.
but i dont feel,,,, 'in love' anymore? like. the kind where im anxiously waiting for one of their texts, one of their 'ilys,' where my heart is pounding and i keep zoning out thinking about them and i get too self aware of my own heartbeat and i start freaking out slightly but then everything is okay.

i guess i do still feel in love. but not like that? i care about them, definitely more than a friend, i rlly rlly like him, but maybe not love anymore? i dont know. but it makes me sad because ,, i dont want to fall out of love? bc in a way i really do love this boy but then again i dont. its a confusing mess, and i think it might be a part of me thats blocking out my feelings towards him over and over again because im scared for a repeat of last time.

i hope this makes sense, in a way. i want to stay with this person, but im not sure if thats just me being selfish or if itd be wrong.

i dont know. if you guys have any words for this, feel free to,, you know,,, say something to me.