♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[bugroot]

I have an girlfriend and i love her lots but i feel like we're drifting apart...we dont talk much anymore and she hangs out with her friends (We all know each other and V and H hate me) and talks to them more...what should i do?

Well if this isn’t too personal to ask, is this relationship long distance or are you guys relatively close? Long distance can put a strain on trust between you two. Is there any reason why you assume that her friends dislike you? Is she the one saying these things to you? Is better to know for sure if they say these things directly to you instead of assuming. But I don’t know the whole story. I really hope your situation gets better. The best thing you can do is ask her. Only she knows how she feels.

[bugroot]

So I guess I would call my situation pretty tame, but it's like a forbidden love kind of thing.

So this guy likes, and he's explained why and over the few weeks we've been talking he confessed he thinks he's more in love.

Noke of this is the issue, as I'm starting to like him back. He likes me for all the right reasons in my opinion and I can see myself falling pretty hard if things keep going the way they have.

The issue is my parents. They really hold high goals for me and hate guys. They always say "you can do whatever you want when you're 18 or move out", but I feel like they won't keep to that. I have 7 months to wait till I'm 18 and me and this guy are sooo ready for my birthday to get here. I don't know how I'm going to break it to my parents because I feel like they'd be super disappointed in me and try to prevent it. He wants to take me on a date for my birthday so I should probably talk to them about it before but I also just kind of want to let it happen and see how they react.

Any tips?

Hey! I read through your situation and I feel like even you should wait even after you turn 18 a bit. Because why be with someone that what’s to rush things? It seems like you may only want to date him since is a bit of a taboo. Think of this, would you still want to date him even if you were 18 now? He should get to know you more before considering to take you on a date right when you turn 18. I hope all goes well! You just want someone who is willing to wait for you longer!

Hope it helped!

[Stormii01]

So I guess I would call my situation pretty tame, but it's like a forbidden love kind of thing.

So this guy likes, and he's explained why and over the few weeks we've been talking he confessed he thinks he's more in love.

Noke of this is the issue, as I'm starting to like him back. He likes me for all the right reasons in my opinion and I can see myself falling pretty hard if things keep going the way they have.

The issue is my parents. They really hold high goals for me and hate guys. They always say "you can do whatever you want when you're 18 or move out", but I feel like they won't keep to that. I have 7 months to wait till I'm 18 and me and this guy are sooo ready for my birthday to get here. I don't know how I'm going to break it to my parents because I feel like they'd be super disappointed in me and try to prevent it. He wants to take me on a date for my birthday so I should probably talk to them about it before but I also just kind of want to let it happen and see how they react.

Any tips?

Hey! I read through your situation and I feel like even you should wait even after you turn 18 a bit. Because why be with someone that what’s to rush things? It seems like you may only want to date him since is a bit of a taboo. Think of this, would you still want to date him even if you were 18 now? He should get to know you more before considering to take you on a date right when you turn 18. I hope all goes well! You just want someone who is willing to wait for you longer!

Hope it helped!

I really do like him, as we've talked and gotten to know each other, because I didn't like him at first. He wanted to ask me out now, but I told him the rule and he said he'd wait as long as he needed to. As for the rushing, I do think my emotions are going too fast, because we joke about the future but man, he feels different you know?

[bugroot]

So I guess I would call my situation pretty tame, but it's like a forbidden love kind of thing.

So this guy likes, and he's explained why and over the few weeks we've been talking he confessed he thinks he's more in love.

Noke of this is the issue, as I'm starting to like him back. He likes me for all the right reasons in my opinion and I can see myself falling pretty hard if things keep going the way they have.

The issue is my parents. They really hold high goals for me and hate guys. They always say "you can do whatever you want when you're 18 or move out", but I feel like they won't keep to that. I have 7 months to wait till I'm 18 and me and this guy are sooo ready for my birthday to get here. I don't know how I'm going to break it to my parents because I feel like they'd be super disappointed in me and try to prevent it. He wants to take me on a date for my birthday so I should probably talk to them about it before but I also just kind of want to let it happen and see how they react.

Any tips?

Hey! I read through your situation and I feel like even you should wait even after you turn 18 a bit. Because why be with someone that what’s to rush things? It seems like you may only want to date him since is a bit of a taboo. Think of this, would you still want to date him even if you were 18 now? He should get to know you more before considering to take you on a date right when you turn 18. I hope all goes well! You just want someone who is willing to wait for you longer!

Hope it helped!

I really do like him, as we've talked and gotten to know each other, because I didn't like him at first. He wanted to ask me out now, but I told him the rule and he said he'd wait as long as he needed to. As for the rushing, I do think my emotions are going too fast, because we joke about the future but man, he feels different you know?

I’m very glad to know he’ll wait for you! I think you need to have a talk with him and let him know that even though you’re talking about the future now, it’s my set in stone. You should tell him you want to persue a future with him, but you need more time to get to know the real him! Since you’ve only been talking for a few weeks, you will still feel that pull towards him because you’re curious and don’t know everything about him. Even within a year of knowing someone, you will still learn new things about them!!

[Constellation.]

mark
Hello my fellow hopeless romantics

Oh hello XD

I'm silently smashing my head thinking about this
My teacher and my class had an akward conversation about
Relationships
Saying not to fall in love, but also that we fall hard

I know that
I've felt that way
And once I rejected someone
And I still feel guilty
Because they were depressed
And I'd liked their best friend

Aghhhhhhhhhhh

Here's my personal guilt trip.
Two of my best friends told me they liked this guy.
One was in January, one in late February.
I talked them up to him because he's really good friends with my cousin, so we were friends too.
Half our grade went on a trip to a foreign country (about 30 kids) in early march including the guy, so I resolve to talk them both up on the trip.
2 days in find out he has a huge crush on me.

Talk about feeling awful.
This was a year ago now hehe.

[Chicken~Strips]

mark
Hello my fellow hopeless romantics

Oh hello XD

I'm silently smashing my head thinking about this
My teacher and my class had an akward conversation about
Relationships
Saying not to fall in love, but also that we fall hard

I know that
I've felt that way
And once I rejected someone
And I still feel guilty
Because they were depressed
And I'd liked their best friend

Aghhhhhhhhhhh

Here's my personal guilt trip.
Two of my best friends told me they liked this guy.
One was in January, one in late February.
I talked them up to him because he's really good friends with my cousin, so we were friends too.
Half our grade went on a trip to a foreign country (about 30 kids) in early march including the guy, so I resolve to talk them both up on the trip.
2 days in find out he has a huge crush on me.

Talk about feeling awful.
This was a year ago now hehe.

Oof. This happened last October when one of my best friends moved here.
They were really good friends who both like/liked me. My new friend got really akward for a moment when I said they had asked me out. Oof.
Then I rejected the new friend.
Twice.
Only cause I can't/don't want to date.

[Pinesong]

I am in need of assistance aha

So some of my close friends keep coming up with suspicions and stuff about my relationship and the person that I'm with and it's making me feel awful and kinda scared that they might be right?? (I do overthink a lot though) :c
I know they probably just want the best for me/are protective of me but I don't know what to think of the things they've said.

[FireWolf52]

Ugh guys why does this happen to so many people?! I was best friends with this one girl, we'll name her Sara (not her real name) and she liked this guy fake-named Dave but I didn’t know, and “Dave” asked me out and I said yes and she refused to ever talk to me again! Fun times!

[Light Bringer]

Hi guys, I don't post here often but I really need some advice right now. I recently started dating a boy and things were cool at the start, like, he was really affectionate but I could put up with it despite not really being big on super affectionate stuff but now it's getring kinda out of hand. He tries to kiss me every time we head off to class but I'm not completely comfortable with that. Especially since public signs of affection aren't really my thing either. I don't know what to do. He's really sensitive too, I don't want to hurt his feelings but also I don't want to keep getting smothered with more affection than I can handle.

[appi]

Hi guys, I don't post here often but I really need some advice right now. I recently started dating a boy and things were cool at the start, like, he was really affectionate but I could put up with it despite not really being big on super affectionate stuff but now it's getring kinda out of hand. He tries to kiss me every time we head off to class but I'm not completely comfortable with that. Especially since public signs of affection aren't really my thing either. I don't know what to do. He's really sensitive too, I don't want to hurt his feelings but also I don't want to keep getting smothered with more affection than I can handle.

tell him how you feel and what you want and what he does that you don't like and why you don't like it. it's much worse to keep pretending or smth else because he'll misunderstand and assume and get more hurt. if he's sensitive, chances are he'll be empathetic to your feelings so just tell him honestly with how it makes you feel and he'll (hopefully) understand.