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[Constellation.]

I broke up with my first boyfriend two months and a week ago. We were only together for two months and I broke it off because it just didn't feel right and it was hard to keep up with on top of everything else. I know now why it didn't feel right and it was for a number of reasons so it was good when I did it. I just feel strange seeing him now after everything. We're friends but I'm still healing from everything that's happened in the past couple months.

They're not kidding when they say the first break up is intense.

[Cetrouz]

I started crushing on a girl this year since I got to high school. She is already in a relationship with another girl so my life sucks
She always says I look so shy and I should talk to her more. She says she likes so much my drawings and thinks I'm cute cri. She is very talented too, like, VERY MUCH.
The problem is that everytime I definitely crush someone, is HARD. I only crushed someone like this two times, and the first person I crushed is a internet friend, and I crushed him for two years until I went to high school. The main problem is that, even if he being one of my best friends, he was gay (he always said he was bi, but he always showed to be unsure and it seems he only says that so I don't get sad. Yep he knows I liked him). That was a big problem for me.
So I hope I don't keep crushing on her until I left high school??? Even if her and her girlfriend broke up, she is always surrounded by people and all I wanted at least is to see her happy, even if I am suffering :')

[Inevitablis Orbivium]

Hi guys. It's me again. I've broken up with a guy, gotten with a guy, and had some overall weird things happen to me this summer. School's starting in the last week of August for me, so that's cool. I have one question, and a ton of backstory. Choose to read the backstory if you want, just kinda ranting.

How do I break up with my current boyfriend in the nicest way possible? I only really will be able to see him at school and I don't want to wait a few weeks after school starts to break up.

So I've started this guy we'll call B. We started dating on...May 29? Not completely sure, but since then we've only really had one date at a movie. That was fun, and we hang out at school. After school ended we would text a lot and then we planned a date at a park. I was bringing some food, and I decided to bike since I knew the route and I really liked the route. He told me he got there a little early and I told him I'd meet him there. Well once I got there he was absolutely nowhere to be seen, so I waited for about 30 minutes while I texted my friend V, and this guy's also B's friend. I also tried to get in contact with B. I munched on the food I brought and left while being pretty upset since I'd been pretty hyped up. About halfway home I got a message saying that B had fallen asleep at the park. After a week or so we eventually made up but not before some CRAZY STUFF happened.

While I was not really communicating with B since I was annoyed and awkward, V was really annoyed that I wasn't dealing with the problem. So he told me that B self harms, and had self harmed because of stress I had caused, which was def not a cool move. Afterwards he tried to cover his tracks by saying his information was wrong or something, but there's still the nagging thought in my head that it could be true, and I really don't want to break up in a way that triggers such an event from occurring. Am I crazy for being suspicious of that sort of thing?

Anyways, afterwards me and B have been drifting apart and haven't really been talking a lot. I'm totally cool with that though, especially since I've been wanting to break up for at least a month, if not more. My mental state is that of someone who's already broken up. I just don't want to do it during the summer when he isn't able to have his friends around to create a stable support group. I don't really care how he feels after the fact, but I just want to make sure he doesn't feel so horrible that something bad happens that I'm responsible for. Woot.

Also I'm bi. How in the heckidy hecks am I supposed to come out as bi to my SO's in the future. I'm so new to relationships. ughhh

[theupsidedown]

edit: were good now lol i figured it out

[atychiphobia]

i really liked this guy and i haven't seen his for ages so my crush is fading away
but ive recently started talking with him over social media again and he's called me cute a lot etc and i dont know what to do or thinkkkkk xD

ive got two yes, no, maybe so kinda crushes and im ready to explodeeee
also he's way above my level and im honestly freaking out xD

[pjnk]

i think i have a crush on someone but i'm really not sure if i like them or if i like the thought of them...
sometimes i catch him looking at me but i'm not sure if it's because i was already looking at him, i don't think i look at him first but what if i do and what if he thinks i'm a weirdo?
he tries to make me laugh though and seems like he tries to make physical contact?
we were sitting on a table and we were sitting nearly next to each other but facing a different way and he softly elbowed me and my heart went racing wow
i don't want to fall for someone again

[Kesidi]

so, this is my first relationship and we've been together for close to three months now. However, i get jealous very easily, when he talks to like his close girl friends who are like touchy with him. and i also get angry very quickly and this has caused us quite a few fights over the months. sometimes it's just the things he do that annoy and irritate me and then i'll kind of ruin the mood.

is there any way i can control my anger better and not get jealous so easily? he said he was willing to help me and that he'll never give up on me but maybe i'm just being paranoid but sometimes i feel like he loves me lesser compared to when we first started out? like the small things that i notice just made me think. and i fear like one day he'll have enough of my anger and just leave.

thank you in advance for the advice

I also struggle with jealousy so here are few tips to try (I'm not a counselor or anything so this is just what worked for me.)

1. identify why you're getting jealous (are you just insecure or is there other reason?)
2. get to know his girl friends
-> spend time with them and your boyfriend
(depending on how comfortable your bf is with that kiss him casually or hold his hand when you're all together !but be careful with this!)
-> if they are really really really super touchy talk to them and maybe ask them to reduce it
3. try some trust exercises with your bf

[acura,]

screw emotions.

u seemed like such a nice damn guy.

then I realised

u showed your friends the whole entire conversation we had thinking half of what I was was a jOKE. hahah ok. I’m so tired of liking people. we flirt and all that but ugh I barely know u and it’s just,, I don’t want to talk to u if u keep showing ur friends our chats. Agh, screw it. I can’t stay away from u, I can’t stop thinking about u.

[theupsidedown]

so i think- i think i just asked out my crush?
he actually seemed really interested in it and was asking me where and when and i think it’s going to go good!
it’s not really a date though- were just hanging out together

[metabeans]

So I sort of just asked out my crush a week or two ago, and we're going on a date sort of thing once school starts! ( A few more weeks!)

Me: Blah blah blah blah few sentences

Him: Ok

* me internally freaking out*

Him: That's a lot of words

Me: yeah xd

Him: Why not

Me: Ok * internally dying*

How do I bring up when we're going to have a date?

Do I just ask out of the blue when we're going to have it, hint, or just wait and see what happens?