♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Cheep]

I feel like my boyfriend is my only friend? He has lots of other priorities and friends though, so I really feel just completely alone? I know I shouldn’t ask him to push things aside for me but I literately just feel like I’m last on his list. I don’t know what to do really. I try making friends but everyone always just has so many other friends already, to the point that I’m never messaged or asked to spend time with. My boyfriend is all I’ve got really, and I just don’t know what to do?

My boyfriend is basically my only friend too :c

Awh man :c it really sucks right? It’s nice to know I’m not the only one with this problem though… :/

[hojicha]

Hi! I'd love some advice please, I'd appreciate it a lot! I am currently in my first relationship with the most amazing girl who I love with all my heart. We've been dating about 8 months but were friends for a little bit before that and I really couldn't ask for a better partner, we have a happy and healthy relationship that I'm so grateful for! However, due to the two of us starting college we will be on opposite ends of the country and we are going to be mutually breaking up right before we leave, the two of us have know this inevitably since the beginning when we started dating. We have about a month and a half left together and I really want to make the most of the time we have and cherish it but the problem is as the breakup date comes closer I'm feeling really sad and I tear up and get kinda down around her sometimes, I don't want this to spoil the rest of our time together. I've talked to her about my feelings and I know it's hard on her too but I'm having trouble since I've never been through a breakup before. We will be staying friends but we are so close it'll be difficult not being in each other's lives at the same level we currently are. Does anyone have any advice how to focus on the present and not stress and mope too much about breaking up? I know sad feelings are natural but they are starting to become too frequent and I feel like I'm getting a little physically clingy since I'm worried about losing her and I'm not usually and don't want to be a clingy person. Thank you!

[CatBoy Brock]

this one isn't necessarily for me

My brother, who's 17, was in a relationship that was almost reaching 13 months and he loved this girl to pieces. They were never apart and their few fights were small, simple things. Her mum told the family, friends and my brother that they were moving to the other side of ____ and after a lot of time and talking My brother and the girl decided it would be best for them to break up when it came time for Cait to move.

The problem is, not long afterwards Cait's mum changed her mind, but the whole ordeal had put a lot of strain on cait and my brother, and they ended up breaking up anyway because despite loving each other to bits they were miserable. They're still good friends now and they still really care for each other, but things have changed.

Cait was always a bit too exploitive of my brother being transgender (cait is bisexual, mind you) and my brother was very dependant on her nevertheless. Now that they don't talk to each other much anymore, the friendship is very awkward and stunted, and Cait is constantly reminding my brother online of how she feels about the relationship. Communication isn't generally a bad thing but I think she's communicating with the wrong person. My brother is a really sensitive guy and does his best to make everybody happy, and he's happy with his situation of not seeing anybody so he can focus on himself -- but it's getting to the point that he's considering getting back together with Cait to make her feel happier.

The break up was 100% mutual, however Cait has definitely been putting a lot of blame on my brother, and it's not exactly helping his mental condition.

He comes to me for help but I've never been in a serious relationship. how can i help him? or at least, what could i say to help him feel better?

keep in mind that our parents had no idea they were dating and brushed off his coming out, so they're no help.

[Chicken lady]

sooooooo my crush is coming over tomorrow and we are like gonna have a movie marathon but im not sure if and hpw i should tell him that i like him, help please? and he is one of my best friends

UPDATE
he came over today and we where talking and stuff then we cooked lunch that we ate in the living room and then he turned on a movie and we where like cuddling and i was like wow and then he said " seems like we are just cuddling, huh?" and we cuddled and then i kissed him and he was like what was that and then kissed me back. after he kissed me he started to apologize and i was like no it is okay and kissed him back. so to sum today up i got my first crush to be my first boyfriend and he gave me my frist kiss, quite a good day

[hollyglow]

A guy who works at the same camp as I do brought his friend in for a week, and in that week, I developed veey intense feelings for the friend. He's adorable and funny and amazing, and when he left (he lives across the country) it felt like something was missing all of a sudden. He occasionally makes comments about me being attractive, but in such a way that I can't tell whether he's joking. I have his phone number, and we've basically been texting nonstop literally since we last saw each other. We're planning to FaceTime tomorrow, and I'm really excited to hear his voice and see his face and everything. I really feel like this might end up becoming something. There are a few problems, though. First of all, I don't know if I could handle a long-distance relationship. I'd absolutely want to try, but the fact that we've only been apart for three days and I'm already trying to come up with excuses to fly across the country to visit him has me a little worried. I don't know how it would go. The second problem is I don't know if my parents would be okay with me being in a long-distance relationship with a guy they've never met. And finally, the really big problem: he doesn't know about my gender identity, and he thinks I'm a girl. I was going to tell him the first day we met (he's a trans guy himself, so he'd be chill with that whole aspect), but I didn't for some reason, and I really don't know what to do. It's really confusing and nerve-wracking.

[An Shiraishi]

So, there is this guy Ive liked for about a year now. Lets call him J. Me and J are really good friends. Ive had a crush on him ever since I met him. He's so cute, and we share like all the same intrests! Hes so funny, and can make anyone smile. I always gert this fizzy feeling whenever im around him, and ive never felt this way about anyone before. Its safe to say, im in love. Problem is, he has a crush on someone. Lets call her E. J has known E for many years, and they are very close. Both have admitted to liking eachother before. I dont know what to do. Something deep in me tells me hes the one, and I know it. But E likes him and is much prettier and better than me. I stand no chance. I want to just tell J how I feel, but I dont want to ruin our friendship. Someone had also asked if I had a crush on him and he was RIGHT. NEXT. TO. ME. This was in december. I was so scared of what J would think so I just said no. And then J said "yeah, we're just friends." I want to strangle that kid so bad. Anyways, i dont know what to do. Next year its a 99% chance that me and J will be in different classes, so this may be my only chance, over the summer. I dont know what to do oh my goddd. Should I tell him? Should i try to push my feelibgs away and just be his friend? Or something completely different? If anyone can help, that would be awesome </3

[cinnamonmilks]

Mine and my boyfriend's one year anniversary is tomorrow and I am sooo excited!
We've known each other for 5 years and hes been my best friend for all five of
those years. Im so lucky to have him by my side ;w;

[vash ♡]

so what makes me really emotional n soft is knowing that im going to visit a place i've wanted to go since i was about 8 years old after seeing a picture of it in a magazine with my bf next month!!! he told me if i'd help him with the 12 hour drive from his house he'd take me when i fly out to visit him for 10 days on the 28th.

[An Shiraishi]

sooooooo my crush is coming over tomorrow and we are like gonna have a movie marathon but im not sure if and hpw i should tell him that i like him, help please? and he is one of my best friends

UPDATE
he came over today and we where talking and stuff then we cooked lunch that we ate in the living room and then he turned on a movie and we where like cuddling and i was like wow and then he said " seems like we are just cuddling, huh?" and we cuddled and then i kissed him and he was like what was that and then kissed me back. after he kissed me he started to apologize and i was like no it is okay and kissed him back. so to sum today up i got my first crush to be my first boyfriend and he gave me my frist kiss, quite a good day

For before the update:
Oh geez thats the exact same thing thats going to happen to me tomorrow, except im going to his gouse to watch a movie marathon. Im so scared on what might happen and he asked if id stay for dinner and ack i want to tell him i like him but hes inviting two other people one of which im 99.9% sure is his crush? so idk if i should keep my mouth shut and enjoy it or tell him oof. Any help is loved! <3

[minimire]

so, this is my first relationship and we've been together for close to three months now. However, i get jealous very easily, when he talks to like his close girl friends who are like touchy with him. and i also get angry very quickly and this has caused us quite a few fights over the months. sometimes it's just the things he do that annoy and irritate me and then i'll kind of ruin the mood.

is there any way i can control my anger better and not get jealous so easily? he said he was willing to help me and that he'll never give up on me but maybe i'm just being paranoid but sometimes i feel like he loves me lesser compared to when we first started out? like the small things that i notice just made me think. and i fear like one day he'll have enough of my anger and just leave.

thank you in advance for the advice