♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[An Shiraishi]

So, there is this guy Ive liked for about a year now. Lets call him J. Me and J are really good friends. Ive had a crush on him ever since I met him. He's so cute, and we share like all the same intrests! Hes so funny, and can make anyone smile. I always gert this fizzy feeling whenever im around him, and ive never felt this way about anyone before. Its safe to say, im in love. Problem is, he has a crush on someone. Lets call her E. J has known E for many years, and they are very close. Both have admitted to liking eachother before. I dont know what to do. Something deep in me tells me hes the one, and I know it. But E likes him and is much prettier and better than me. I stand no chance. I want to just tell J how I feel, but I dont want to ruin our friendship. Someone had also asked if I had a crush on him and he was RIGHT. NEXT. TO. ME. This was in december. I was so scared of what J would think so I just said no. And then J said "yeah, we're just friends." I want to strangle that kid so bad. Anyways, i dont know what to do. Next year its a 99% chance that me and J will be in different classes, so this may be my only chance, over the summer. I dont know what to do oh my goddd. Should I tell him? Should i try to push my feelibgs away and just be his friend? Or something completely different? If anyone can help, that would be awesome </3

[gamorasass]

is it weird to already like someone after you just got out of a relationship? Like I just recently got out of a relationship but I already like someone else now?

Half the time it's cause you are craving attention and the relationship aspect in your life.

[galaxygenet]

this is the only thing I use this site for now rip
but uh yeah. so, basically there is this person I found on YouTube that I developed a crush on. recently I found out that they have a discord server and joined it. before now I didn't have any real way to contact them, which is why that's important. the problem is I don't know much about them, most importantly age and where they live. it's just not posted anywhere. (based on the content they post I think we would at least get along well based on similar interests and such.) I know people don't want to put personal information like that on the internet and I understand why, but it's important for this purpose. so I guess my question is, would it be appropriate to message them kind of explaining that I'd like to get to know them? not necessarily revealing my feelings immediately... like I wouldn't just be like "hey how OLD are you and also where do you live haha". but I kind of lack tact when it comes to this sort of thing. which is why I'd appreciate some advice. ;;

edit: I want to clarify that I'm not going to just ask them out immediately lol. I'd be interested in being friends with them even if the relationship thing doesn't work. so my plan would be to actually get to know them and then ask em out if it still makes sense to do so.

[atychiphobia]

so i have recently worked out that i have a new crush

we've hung out at school and he's really nice and we have the same sorta past, we even listen to similar music. but he's also friends with my twin brother. we've talked at school and our class together ended so now we talk over social media, but now whenever i find myself sitting next to him in class my brain fogs up completely and we dont end up talking
well isn't this fun

[An Shiraishi]

So, there is this guy Ive liked for about a year now. Lets call him J. Me and J are really good friends. Ive had a crush on him ever since I met him. He's so cute, and we share like all the same intrests! Hes so funny, and can make anyone smile. I always gert this fizzy feeling whenever im around him, and ive never felt this way about anyone before. Its safe to say, im in love. Problem is, he has a crush on someone. Lets call her E. J has known E for many years, and they are very close. Both have admitted to liking eachother before. I dont know what to do. Something deep in me tells me hes the one, and I know it. But E likes him and is much prettier and better than me. I stand no chance. I want to just tell J how I feel, but I dont want to ruin our friendship. Someone had also asked if I had a crush on him and he was RIGHT. NEXT. TO. ME. This was in december. I was so scared of what J would think so I just said no. And then J said "yeah, we're just friends." I want to strangle that kid so bad. Anyways, i dont know what to do. Next year its a 99% chance that me and J will be in different classes, so this may be my only chance, over the summer. I dont know what to do oh my goddd. Should I tell him? Should i try to push my feelibgs away and just be his friend? Or something completely different? If anyone can help, that would be awesome </3

[Spacesheep]

I swear my boyfriend always knows what to get me as gifts, like he gets me the perfect gifts every time <3 for my birthday he got me this pokeball cloud pillow that's super soft and comfy, I was literally thinking I wanted soemthing like this one stuff panda I saw at the store that felt just like this pillow, but I never mentioned it to him because I don't like to ask for things and I'd be happy with anything he gave me (legit he could give me a used Popsicle stick and I'd treasure it forever XD) but like he got me exactly what I wanted, it's even better than the panda since it's a pokeBall! And for Valentine's Day I was really hoping for a stuffed animal and guess what he got me? An eevee plushie, like he just KNOWS. How does he know what to get me so well?! Lol he's only gotten me 4 gifts in our relationship so far (because we've been dating for a year and it's been my birthday, Christmas, Valentine's, and my birthday again) yet he's already mastered the skill of picking presents for me omgggg like I love everything he's gotten me. He's amazing I just wanted to brag about him lol <3 also he's given me Pokemon on ultra sun and moon basically just because I wanted those Pokemon, I didn't ask for them, but he easily gave them to me because he's the sweetest! Lol Pokemon isn't the only thing we like even though it probably sounds like it from this XD he says the sweetest things too and he makes me really happy, I'm so glad he exists ^.^

[Isotherapy]

So I really like this girl, and I've known her for about 9 years now, and I really like her, and I would tell her, but I really don't want this friendship to die out as she is a wonderful person. I don't know I haven't ever confessed feelings for anyone and I have had this crush for as long as I can remember but me holding it back just makes it worse.

[Cheep]

I feel like my boyfriend is my only friend? He has lots of other priorities and friends though, so I really feel just completely alone? I know I shouldn’t ask him to push things aside for me but I literately just feel like I’m last on his list. I don’t know what to do really. I try making friends but everyone always just has so many other friends already, to the point that I’m never messaged or asked to spend time with. My boyfriend is all I’ve got really, and I just don’t know what to do?

[galaxygenet]

this is the only thing I use this site for now rip
but uh yeah. so, basically there is this person I found on YouTube that I developed a crush on. recently I found out that they have a discord server and joined it. before now I didn't have any real way to contact them, which is why that's important. the problem is I don't know much about them, most importantly age and where they live. it's just not posted anywhere. (based on the content they post I think we would at least get along well based on similar interests and such.) I know people don't want to put personal information like that on the internet and I understand why, but it's important for this purpose. so I guess my question is, would it be appropriate to message them kind of explaining that I'd like to get to know them? not necessarily revealing my feelings immediately... like I wouldn't just be like "hey how OLD are you and also where do you live haha". but I kind of lack tact when it comes to this sort of thing. which is why I'd appreciate some advice. ;;

edit: I want to clarify that I'm not going to just ask them out immediately lol. I'd be interested in being friends with them even if the relationship thing doesn't work. so my plan would be to actually get to know them and then ask em out if it still makes sense to do so.

update: they sent me a friend request on discord,, accepted it obviously but idk if they do that with everyone or it was just me aa

[Wolfypoof]

I feel like my boyfriend is my only friend? He has lots of other priorities and friends though, so I really feel just completely alone? I know I shouldn’t ask him to push things aside for me but I literately just feel like I’m last on his list. I don’t know what to do really. I try making friends but everyone always just has so many other friends already, to the point that I’m never messaged or asked to spend time with. My boyfriend is all I’ve got really, and I just don’t know what to do?

My boyfriend is basically my only friend too :c