.: fae :. wrote:UnworthyElevator wrote:I really don't want a relationship but I feel pressured to look for one. I always get the "when you get a boyfriend" type of thing from my mom, according to her she was "boy crazy" at my age..
i honestly wouldn’t worry about the top part of this. As a species we seem to get interested in the people close to us finding relationships. This is just your mums way of showing she’s interested in your life, even if this is really annoying for you. If it’s something that’s really bothering you though, communicate with her about it and explain how much it’s upsetting you or on your mind. In terms of the second part, I can’t advise without more context about your family. If your parents are accepting/not homophobic (which I hope they are but not everyone has that luxury) then maybe you could discuss with your mum about this as well? But if they aren’t, I would advise waiting to tell them this until you’re financially independent/not at risk if they choose to reject you.
It’s not abnormal to not want to date at any stage. You should never rush anything before you’re ready, and if you never feel ready that’s ok too! We’re all different :3 and that’s no bad thing
middle child wrote:
ok, i don't need help (for now), just asking advice for my younger brother. let's call
him V.
have a nice life wrote:Uh please help...a while back I got a crush on someone based solely on their looks and the fact that they acknowledged my existence, you know how crushes work. Anyway I found out that they had some political views that were questionable, to say the least, obviously I’m not going to go into detail about politics on cs but I would say that most people would agree that some things this person believes are quite dangerous.
Ancient Frost wrote:_Spinach_ wrote:(It's big so I tried to highlight some part to form a summary, in case you don't have the time/patience to read everything)
Hi!
My best friend introduced me to a girl (we can call her Fox if it's simpler, since she loves foxes) about +2 months ago, since we have a lot of things in common: we both love art (she wants to major in costume design, I want to major in animation), are in the LGBT+ community (she's pan, I'm gay/lesbian) and have similar personalities.
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If you aren't comfortable with a relationship then don't be in one. don't feel guilty about it. Being a friend is important and perfectly acceptable. I have a crush on my friend who is definitely not interested but we are still friends and I am ok with that. I hope this is helpful, it feels kind of scrambled.
have a nice life wrote:Uh please help...a while back I got a crush on someone based solely on their looks and the fact that they acknowledged my existence, you know how crushes work. Anyway I found out that they had some political views that were questionable, to say the least, obviously I’m not going to go into detail about politics on cs but I would say that most people would agree that some things this person believes are quite dangerous. And they are not afraid to say their strong opinions out loud either, so I feel like me and them together (I have strong political opinions on the opposite side to them) would be more like a small-scale war than a relationship.
Lord Katsuki wrote:So I've only been in long distance relationships. This is my third relationship. I'm in a poly relationship w/ two guys. I honestly suck atg making relationships last so can someone help me?
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