TheComfortCorner | V.7

[grayce!]

my (ex) boyfriend and i just officially broke up....

i really loved him...

[Lyren]

Okay, I need help. Usually I don't go here but I need help.

I don't want to date. I don't want kids. But my parents keep joking about it, pressuring me to. I just told my mom I'll talk to her about this in 30 minutes. How do you tell your parents this?

[dakotapaws]

this is stupid

i took a quiz for one of my online courses
i couldnt find the reading material and my stupid self completely forgot about the live recordings to watch
so i took the quiz and now my grade in that class is a 77%
i hate myself for it and im crying over it and its ridiculous

to top it off i have to download like twelve programs like photoshop

the kicker is its a big file and needs tons of wifi

i share a house with five people and its been on 7% for HOURS i might as well give up now

i didnt want to do this this is why i cant do this please make it stop

[Carnations]

My friend keeps pressuring me into dating a guy who likes me I don't know how to make her stop.
She refers to him as my "boyfriend", she sometimes says we're dating despite that not being the case, and asks me why we aren't dating and that I should date him, and it makes me beyond uncomfortable.

We aren't even compatible too.
-he's impatient and I have trouble hearing
-he has some anger issues
-i don't have much respect for him
-i don't even like him + i'm not ready to date
-he's not my type
-he doesn't like one of my friends who's very important to me and gets into fights with her a lot {as we're in a lab group together}

what makes it even worse is that he sits next to me in science and that friend is in that class as well {and doesn't sit too far away from us}
I just want her to stop.

[frozone]

i come here so much
i cant even trust anyone irl
so i come to the internet
but here i am
i literally asked to watch a show that starts at 9pm, which isn't that late right?? and my mom says "no and dont ask again and stop arguing" so i said "why can't i watch it?" and now she literally says i didn't finish my HW, which is true. but we literally get a BOATLOAD of homework (no joke. it's all busy work) every day. and i tell her, and she just says "well stop messing around then." but seriously. i have HW in every subject and have an extra math class as well as honors english. it gets to be too much sometimes. and im just starting to cry and she says "you spend four hours wasting your time and complain about not getting HW done." i literally "waste" a half hour to an hour a day, and usually it's literally doodling a bit or something trying to destress myself from the stupid HW. she doesn't get it and it's just uGH she thinks im stupid and irresponsible, i know it.


oh and also happy meh 1000th post to meee

[theradiantfern]

I've hated this entire month. I've cried so many times at this point.
I feel like a burden, a failure, an unlovable mess.
I never want to go back to school. I never want to develop feelings again.
I wish my father were still alive.
I wish I didn't have felt this way for at least a decade...

[jisung]

Okay, I need help. Usually I don't go here but I need help.

I don't want to date. I don't want kids. But my parents keep joking about it, pressuring me to. I just told my mom I'll talk to her about this in 30 minutes. How do you tell your parents this?

the most important thing is to be respectful
people are much more likely to respect you and your opinions if you yourself are calm & do the same in return.
In my opinion, it would be best to simply state that, as of right now, you are not interested in seeking romance with anyone, let alone having a child. Stating that this could change in the future and leaving room for their own desires/opinions is generally a good option and helps reduce friction even if it is unlikely that you will ever change your mind
I hope this exchange with your parents goes well
Your love life is entirely up to you c:

[ωolfie]

asdfghjkl this is really stupid, but i'm extremely upset i missed the LOLO event it's like my favorite event on CS but i somehow totally forgot all about it when i was taking my break. guess i have to wait another year

[Charizard !]

Do I don't normally get help here but I feel really sick and everything
I would appreciate a PM but I don't care

So I had started my period a few days ago and it's usually really light, but it just suddenly started going on really heavy and I'm scared
I just finished having a meltdown in the bathroom for an hour before deciding to get it over with
This is even worse because I have the tendency to faint when blood is seen/mentioned so it just scared me even worse

I feel like I might throw up
Ive heard me friend constantly tell her how bad hers is, her cramps are so bad she throws up and I'm sick of hearing it
I just want some comforting words maybe

Ive also been losing my friend over the past couple days
Im sick of it
I love her to death but she's hurt me so much
If I bring it up she just makes it about her and says how much I supposively "hurt" her
Im just sad
I need a hug

[ghostlyhamlet]

Is it bad that I feel like I don't deserve to eat? I just, I weight too much, like 146 lbs. and I need to weigh less for theater and to be attractive.
I rarely eat during the day and during my everyday, tiring musical rehearsals and I always feel like I need to eat a lot when I'm with my parents for some reason.
Last Friday I actually almost passed out while my mother was helping me get ready for a party; reason was because I barely ate anything all day and it was 6:30pm.