TheComfortCorner | V.7

[DoomyPanda]

Here is a positive idea for you all that makes me feel better, so maybe it might make some of you feel better as well:

I really like the quote "it's always darkest just before the dawn" because for me, sometimes things need to get really unpleasant for me to realize it's time to make some big positive change. Not all situations are like this, I know, sometimes things just happen out of nowhere. But a lot of the time negative feelings and thoughts are messengers trying to get you to know that something must be changed. Many problems might be a matter of internal conflict, judgement, and confusion, and sometimes those feelings are messages that you need to understand what really matters to you, what you truly love.

Even when something really awful is happening that is outside of your control, there are always little things that you can do to lessen the pain. Sometimes it depends on your outlook. Sometimes it's as simple as turning off your computer for a bit and going outside or reading your favorite book. Separating yourself from the opinions of others will make who you are feel even clearer.

[sea glass.]

ok so i've been researching colleges for 2+ hours tonight, my head is spinning & i feel like crying. i've been researching colleges for about two months now & i just can't seem to narrow my choices down, or when i finally narrow my choices down, i realize that the college doesn't offer the minor i want or doesn't offer masters degrees as well as bachelors, etc. i don't even know what i want to major in to begin with & i keep vacillating all over the place & i feel like i should be applying now, not researching. my sister knows where she wants to go & has a top school choice & major & i just feel like i have no clue what i want. ):

[sea glass.]

ok so i've been researching colleges for 2+ hours tonight, my head is spinning & i feel like crying. i've been researching colleges for about two months now & i just can't seem to narrow my choices down, or when i finally narrow my choices down, i realize that the college doesn't offer the minor i want or doesn't offer masters degrees as well as bachelors, etc. i don't even know what i want to major in to begin with & i keep vacillating all over the place & i feel like i should be applying now, not researching. my sister knows where she wants to go & has a top school choice & major & i just feel like i have no clue what i want. ):

There is no need to feel bad for not knowing what you want yet! Maybe you just need some more time to figure things out!
I honestly don't know what I want to do with my life even tho I'm already in college haha
Don't be too scared of choosing, if you don't like your choice you can always go back! Realising that what you chose isn't the right thing isn't the end of the world or a waste of time, you will learn something new no matter what!
Go with the flow, you will find your way at some point! Apply to as many colleges as you can and try to decide between the ones you get accepted at!

hi, & thanks for the advice !! the thought that i can always change my major is reassuring, but i feel like i have to at least get the college right, you feel me? it's just so scary with all the pressure, because i always feel like i'm going to make the wrong choice. i'd love to apply to a ton of colleges, but college applications can be dang expensive too! they seem to love making things difficult :<

[FooFarny]

I messed up, like really messed up in my life. Now my grandmother isn’t talking to me or anyone in the family really.. why didn’t I think? No I didn’t. I been tempted to move out but that would upset her more.. but .. I don’t know how this will go. I feel like my depression is creeping up on me again.

I just want a hug, a distraction.. like a roleplay or somthing.. advice maybe? I need to sort out how I’m gonna move out.. I can’t even see my therapist because I don’t know how to yet.

I just wished I never invited him over and I never made this complete mess up.

[.Spaceman.]

I'm tired of this dream
my life just keeps spinning in circles
I live for those smiles
those sweet, sweet smiles
they keep me going
the laughter

but there's always someone
smarter and more mature
and talented
I won't be able to do it
because I'm weak
I'm nothing

Just another joke
that you'll forget

are any of you happy
that's all I wanted

Thank you for smiling
because I'm miserable
and none of you know
why don't we keep laughing
and pretending
so that I can smile too


someone help me, please
I've lost it again and I need a hug

[friend.shaped.mono]

One of my best friends was talking to another one of my friends, and said that I could have depression
They told me about the conversation, and told me that she was worried about me
I didn't really know what to think of it
When she mentioned the part about depression, I kind of brushed it off, like how I've been doing for the past few years

Recently, one of my favourite youtubers uploaded a video and listed all the things they felt, and the way they acted when they were depressed, and I could relate to all of the points he made
And I was thinking to myself several days after watching that video
What if she was right? What if I actually did have depression, but I just didn't know it, or I was denying it?

At this point, I'm not even sure
I sometimes feel sad for no reason, I don't know why, I just do. I feel sad, but my life is perfect the way it is - I have a good education, great friends, and a loving family. I don't see any reason as to why I should be feeling so down.

[ThunderCedar]

One of my best friends was talking to another one of my friends, and said that I could have depression
They told me about the conversation, and told me that she was worried about me
I didn't really know what to think of it
When she mentioned the part about depression, I kind of brushed it off, like how I've been doing for the past few years

Recently, one of my favourite youtubers uploaded a video and listed all the things they felt, and the way they acted when they were depressed, and I could relate to all of the points he made
And I was thinking to myself several days after watching that video
What if she was right? What if I actually did have depression, but I just didn't know it, or I was denying it?

At this point, I'm not even sure
I sometimes feel sad for no reason, I don't know why, I just do. I feel sad, but my life is perfect the way it is - I have a good education, great friends, and a loving family. I don't see any reason as to why I should be feeling so down.

Daniel Howell is it?
Yeah quite a relatable video he uploaded the other day.
Either way, whether you do have depression or not, it should not define you - you don't need that label in your life.
You are more than how you feel when you are depressed. You could see a professional for diagnosis, if you were willing to go through therapy or get prescribed medication. Keep in mind though, having clinical depression does not validate your feelings any more than just being generally upset does. Your feelings matter, with or without that label.

[Spearow]

6am and I'm sick I can't even lie down. Q.Q i want to cry i haven't slept yet

[godly]

it was my birthday yesterday
i ate and ate and ate
im still eating cake and junk
i want to ugh
i hate this
i hate me

[cornspurrd.]

I'm done.
Very done