TheComfortCorner | v.6

[bowiee]

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[funkybug]

so my boyfriend is now my fiance apparently
i'm really happy but also super scared
i love him to death and i have for years but i can't help but be nervous

ooooooh, congratulations!! i'm so happy for you both!
it's okay to be nervous, but you're going through this
together. he's probably nervous too. but what's a bet-
ter way than marrying your best friend? you'll be okay!
it also helps you love him aha. it seems like you two are
a good pair. good luck with the wedding!<3

thank you so much! it's just a little terrifying to take the next step. i really appreciate the response. thanks again!!

[Captain Chomp]

I'm just....It's happening again that returning feeling of emptiness where everything I do makes me upset, because I can't get it right, I can't get it perfect and just feel so alone. My dad isn't one to talk to about any of this, my friends are never there or I just care about them too much to bother them and it's not like the one person I really could rely on is there, he's gone his girlfriend turned him into a horrible person that doesn't treat me like a person anymore.

I finally have the courage to ask my crush out, but nope I can't get a hold of them to talk to them. Just it hurts a lot because I'm alone

[twisti]

I'm just....It's happening again that returning feeling of emptiness where everything I do makes me upset, because I can't get it right, I can't get it perfect and just feel so alone. My dad isn't one to talk to about any of this, my friends are never there or I just care about them too much to bother them and it's not like the one person I really could rely on is there, he's gone his girlfriend turned him into a horrible person that doesn't treat me like a person anymore.

I finally have the courage to ask my crush out, but nope I can't get a hold of them to talk to them. Just it hurts a lot because I'm alone

Don't worry everything gets better! If your friends aren't willing to help you then maybe they aren't right for you. You should talk to your dad and tell him this is very important to you and you feel alone. Everything gets better.

[witchypuppy]

I just saw a really good explanation of what depression is like and its going to make me cry thinking about how my best friend had severe depression and I had absolutely no clue until she was in the HOSPITAL because of it.

shes better now but I feel like an awful friend

[twisti]

I just saw a really good explanation of what depression is like and its going to make me cry thinking about how my best friend had severe depression and I had absolutely no clue until she was in the HOSPITAL because of it.

shes better now but I feel like an awful friend

Don't worry. You aren't a bad friend! Most people might have not noticed until she was in the hospital too. If you knew I'm sure you would have done anything to help her.

Not everyone notices these kinds of things. You are not the only one and are a good friend.

[witchypuppy]

I just saw a really good explanation of what depression is like and its going to make me cry thinking about how my best friend had severe depression and I had absolutely no clue until she was in the HOSPITAL because of it.

shes better now but I feel like an awful friend

Don't worry. You aren't a bad friend! Most people might have not noticed until she was in the hospital too. If you knew I'm sure you would have done anything to help her.

Not everyone notices these kinds of things. You are not the only one and are a good friend.

okay, thank you.
im just so thankful shes better now

[catdoqq]

could i please get a pm..? i just really need to vent..

[[deleted user 39490]]

I just learned that my Aunt isn't very font of homosexuality. I've known that she's a devote Christian for a while, not that there is anything wrong with that, but I didn't think she'd be against homosexuality. I mean, my mother is really supportive of that kind of stuff and my father doesn't really care what way a person swings. She's one of the sweetest people I know and is even letting me spend the night at her house so that I don't have to face my mother quite yet and, since she lives 5 minutes away, has offered me a place to stay if things get too rough. I mean, she doesn't know that I'm biromantic, but I just feel rejected. She's been really open in general, so I just didn't think she'd believe that.

It only came up because we were watching The Office and they brought up the gay guys and she said to skip it. I thought she was just saying that because she thought something bad was going to happen. Then they started talking and were really awkward, so I said, "Aww!" and she said, "You think it's cute? I think it's wrong." and that was it. I mean, she wasn't mean about it, but it hurts anyway, even though she doesn't know that I'm not straight.

I know that many others have this problem every day and that most of the time it's worse because it's their own parents or they are rejected because of their sexual/romantic orientation or even gender. I'm sorry that I'm complaining about something so petty, but it just hurts to know that there is someone who may not accept me for me.

I'm sorry I come here so often, I just have no one to talk to and this is the only place I can vent without being judged. Thank you for putting up with me.

[twisti]

I just learned that my Aunt isn't very font of homosexuality. I've known that she's a devote Christian for a while, not that there is anything wrong with that, but I didn't think she'd be against homosexuality. I mean, my mother is really supportive of that kind of stuff and my father doesn't really care what way a person swings. She's one of the sweetest people I know and is even letting me spend the night at her house so that I don't have to face my mother quite yet and, since she lives 5 minutes away, has offered me a place to stay if things get too rough. I mean, she doesn't know that I'm biromantic, but I just feel rejected. She's been really open in general, so I just didn't think she'd believe that.

It only came up because we were watching The Office and they brought up the gay guys and she said to skip it. I thought she was just saying that because she thought something bad was going to happen. Then they started talking and were really awkward, so I said, "Aww!" and she said, "You think it's cute? I think it's wrong." and that was it. I mean, she wasn't mean about it, but it hurts anyway, even though she doesn't know that I'm not straight.

I know that many others have this problem every day and that most of the time it's worse because it's their own parents or they are rejected because of their sexual/romantic orientation or even gender. I'm sorry that I'm complaining about something so petty, but it just hurts to know that there is someone who may not accept me for me.

I'm sorry I come here so often, I just have no one to talk to and this is the only place I can vent without being judged. Thank you for putting up with me.

I'm straight and I'm pretty sure everyone I know supports LGBTQ+, so I can't really relate. But I truly believe that you should talk to your aunt about this. The conversation might not go well, but this is something about you personally and you won't be able to hide it forever. Your aunt seems nice and caring and maybe she'll learn to accept homosexuality because you do. If your aunt starts to not like you and accept your love interests then tell her that it is affecting you and how.