dinolil1 wrote:Hey, Guys. Is it okay to cry?
Because sometimes I feel guilty for crying, because I am one of those people that will bottle everything up, until I reach a breaking point, where I am hostile and easily angered, and then I just start weeping. I am not perfect, and I most certainly do have times where I can annoy my friends, but Is it okay to cry without seeming melodramatic? Because I've seen loads of things saying that people who are loud, cry a lot and yell and stuff, are the dumbest, and it stings, badly, Since I am one of those emotional and oversensitive people, who hate hurting anyone and so weep.
Thanks for taking the time to listen to me, If you want a shoulder to cry on, I am here!
why are you asking if it's okay to cry? of course it's okay
to cry. in fact, it is more than okay to cry. it's how our
body deals with certain situations. what really is the
definition of perfect? there isn't one. so stop telling
yourself you aren't, because in someone's eyes you are,
we all have our own definitions of it. it's all a part of
who we are, and a part of human nature. it's fine to cry.
it's fine to be loud. it's fine to not be the smartest skittle
in the packet. but guess what? you're ok. you're going to be
ok. don't be ashamed of crying and don't be ashamed of who
you are, because all of those personality traits make up
who you are. good luck<3
.strawberry wrote:No I am not lying.
No I do not need to see a doctor.
I do not need to find the right person.
I am not trying to be special.
I don't want your pity.
I am not any less of a person then you.
I didn't force myself to be this way.
I am acefluid and perfectly acceptable of myself, so why can't you?
it's great you are able to accept who you are, because
many people struggle with that. and i'm glad you aren't
taking any nonsense for it. educate the person on what
you are, because they may not understand. explain there
are more people who are the same as you. i really hope
that person understands you soon, and they stop nagging
about who you are/aren't! good luck!<3
UltimateKitty wrote:i've let down one of my best friends for the second time
i'm sure you didnt, have they said you have? explain to
them that you never meant to. and, make it a big
apology. because if you've done it before, they may
think you'll do it again. i hope you two become best
friends again, because you are such an amazing per-
son and you really deserve to have a friend to be wi-
th you through thick and thin. if they're your best
friend, then surely they understand. good luck boo!<3
jace; wrote:what I wouldn't give to be able to hug my internet friend rn. My parents are so against internet friends I'll probably never meet them.
isn't the internet wonderful? you get to meet your
soulmate, and i don't necessarily mean a dating kind
of soulmate. i believe in friendship ones. i have two
internet best friends, and they mean a lot to me. it
doesn't matter what your parents say. once you're 18,
you can do whatever you want. hold on for a couple
more years, and you can meet your best friend. i hope
you two meet soon! i wish i could meet mine. good luck!
i hope your parents understand soon!<3
Lavender Lullabies wrote:I feel like all my friends hate me and I'm really starting to believe it b/c none of them are there or seem interested in even holding a short conversation with me :^)
ew, what a bad group of people. why are you friends
with people that don't seem to want to talk to you?
please realise that you deserve better. you deserve
to have conversations with people at 3am or for you
to message them randomly a picture of toast and they'll
understand. find better friends. and if you feel that
way about your friends, tell them. just say "hey, listen,
i feel left out and that you don't seem to like me anymore."
i say this, but i should probably do the same. wow, things
are really easier said than done, aren't they? anyways! please
try to find a better group of friends that understand you,
no friends should ignore you/not want a conversation with
you. good luck boo, i hope you find some real cool people
real soon. <3