TheComfortCorner | v.6

[fika.]

I cant do anything right

yes you can!
you're doing everything right.
you say you can't do anything right?
well, you're breathing right.
you're looking after yourself right.
you yourself are alright.
you're going to be okay.
is someone telling you all you're doing is screwing up?
tell them they're screwing up so much more thinking they can
bring you down like that. it's not cool.
don't stop being yourself, you're doing everything right.
good luck <3

[vicasterology]

my dad said he would get rid of my dog if she peed in the house again.

he said we would have to leave her outside when we leave the house, and he didn't care if she was struck by lightning or blew away in a storm.

i love her so much, i can't lose her. she doesn't know any better. i'm crying so hard while i write this, i don't know what to do, i need help.

[fika.]

my dad said he would get rid of my dog if she peed in the house again.

he said we would have to leave her outside when we leave the house, and he didn't care if she was struck by lightning or blew away in a storm.

i love her so much, i can't lose her. she doesn't know any better. i'm crying so hard while i write this, i don't know what to do, i need help.

get it through his thick skull that she may not be able to handle it.
he managed to look after you when you were young and out of nappies, some people or things aren't good
at holding wee in than others.
if you leave the house, could you give her to a neighbour to look after?
if she wees in the house, scold her and put her outside immediately, and when she goes
to the toilet outside praise her and give her a treat.
i hope your dad is fair and lets you keep her <3

[talkshow boy]

obviously i don't fit in anywhere
so why so i try
no matter what i'm ignored by basically everyone
it feels like i'm always judged, looked down on
i'm always messing up
and everyone says the same basic things
don't worry about what they think
have more confidence
ffs it's not that easy

[fika.]

obviously i don't fit in anywhere
so why so i try
no matter what i'm ignored by basically everyone
it feels like i'm always judged, looked down on
i'm always messing up
and everyone says the same basic answers

don't worry about what they think
have more confidence
ffs it's not that easy

i understand it's not easy,
i really do. but take life a step at a time, yeah?
think of it like doing house work. break things down.
what makes you think you don't fit in?
why give up trying when you still have years of life?
are you being ignored by everyone?
why do you feel judged?
do you really think the people you are surrounded by are looking down on you?
why do you always mess up?
babe, life is tough. totally get it, i do.
i feel the same about everything, and once i answer those
questions i realise that i am loved, surrounded by amazing people,
and the ones who i think are judging are all only human
and most likely feel the same.
you aren't alone in this feeling okay?
if you ever need to vent or cry, i'm here okay?
just shoot me a pm. i'm here for you.

[Slightlybetter]

obviously i don't fit in anywhere
so why so i try
no matter what i'm ignored by basically everyone
it feels like i'm always judged, looked down on
i'm always messing up
and everyone says the same basic things
don't worry about what they think
have more confidence
ffs it's not that easy

You fit in when you don't try. Just be you and you'll find your people. You're not ignored by everyone, heck, I'm paying you attention. If you ever need someone to talk to, you can PM me. You always are judged and looked down on, that's just the way people are. You have to work to show them you're better, keep your head high. You do mess up some, but that's just human. They say those things because they are effective... But if you want some different advice, here it is; be different. Surprise those who assault with words by being kind in return. Don't let it show they bother you. Yes, words really do hurt, but you can be strong. It takes a lot of effort and time, but you'll make it.

[ĸιndle]

I'm going through a bad breakup. The stuff that happened I wrote in this forum. viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2582995&start=5370

[fika.]

I'm going through a bad breakup. The stuff that happened I wrote in this forum. viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2582995&start=5370

woooow, i just read all that!
as bad as i feel for you, you should think in his perspective.
i move around a lot, and i remember keeping it from friends.
he just didn't want to hurt you, and he was obviously going through
a really tough time.
but anyway, this is about you you you!
eat all the icecream you want, chocolate, just knock yourself out.
and hey, for that new person?
that rocks! i hope they look after and take care of you properly <3
you got this, keep your head held high babe.
good luck<3

[Lacuna]

I get it, I am a pathetic daughter. I am so much dumber than my sister. I know she could name all the countries in the world when she was six, and I can't even though I am older than that. She is an honors student at a university who is going to become a doctor. I am a sad kid who doesn't know what an enzyme is. You don't have to embarrass me like this. Just hit me or punch me already, it will hurt less than the words you say to me. You are always comparing me to her, always saying how she is so much better. How I suck at school. How you rant at how dumb I am for hours so I have to complete my homework late at night when I can hardly stay awake. How when I do have free time you just lecture me on how dumb. I bite the inside of my cheeks when you talk to me because I feel like I need to punish myself because you won't. I can hear you when you talk about how dumb I am behind my back, I stay up all night listening to you. How you say I am barely literate. I can read, I just have a hard time pronouncing big words. I can write, I am just not very good at spelling or grammar. I wrote a paper without your help to prove how good I was, and you just pointed out the flaws, not saying anything positive. Please, just punch me or hit me next time, it hurts less than all the words you say to me.

[.zoë]

I'm on the verge of crying. My mom is making me go to a chiropractor tomorrow because of my knee issues, but she doesn't understand. I hate going to the chiropractors. I'd rather have knee issues for the rest of my life than go to one. It makes me extremely anxious, and I always hated going, and now she's making me go again.