A car accident. Migraines. Pills. Stress.
I really can't function properly right now, I'm a mess and I don't know how to support my family when I can't even sustain myself.
gizmonic wrote:Been in huge pain for the past three days.. Couldn't breathe or move. I'm finally in the hospital for a fluoroscopy. I'm not scared of hospitals but I just want to get better now. Hug please?




blakebelladonna wrote:am i invisible?? nobody seems to be sending me trades or even talking to me at all this week and i feel like a ghost..





















Lavender Lullabies wrote:Totty wrote:*snip*hey there.
I feel the same way as you do all the time, and it really is a rough fight. I totally get where you're coming from with being sick of being told "oh, but you're so pretty!" because really, it doesn't help.
I think everyone learns self-acceptance in a different way, and it's up to you to find what makes you like yourself. what works for me, personally, is to just do my best not to care. don't bring it up, don't treat it like a big deal, and it slowly seems less and less important as you realize that life still goes on, even if you're not the prettiest poppy in the field. of course, that won't work for everyone. while completely giving my negative thoughts the cold shoulder works for me, for a lot of other people doing things that makes them feel pretty i.e getting a facial or new haircut works better.
it's different for everyone, and it's up to you to figure out what makes you happy. trust me, it really is rough in the beginning, and it doesn't get much easier for a long while. but eventually, you can see the sun on the horizon. it's a long, rough road, but it's very much worth it. me personally, I've been fighting off intense insecurity since I was only seven years old, and I'm not even all the way there yet. far from it. but when I look back at where I was just last month, I can see I've already come a long way from them. I'll get to self acceptance eventually, and so will you. just try not to get down on yourself too much, okay?
you can do it, girl. I'm rooting for ya. (:

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