| TheComfortCorner | v.5

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Postby ellie! » Wed Aug 05, 2015 9:31 am

      hay -Cashmere-, i'm here cx
      If you want, I can speak with you through PM
      there are millions of things you can do to cheer up after a bad day. the world is wonderful, and i'm gonna list some things that may help!
      - cuddle with a pet. it's a common thing to do, if you do have a pet. it lessens stress and will reassure you, because you can see the animal's trust in their eyes and you will feel yourself once more.
      - listen to music. there are millions of inspirational songs out there, on youtube or deezer or whatever site you use. from soothing piano tracks to this, (yea i've been recommending this song lately to everybody), it'll help.
      - hugs, kisses, anything. physical or psychological contact always boosts up your mood, in most of the times. how about meeting a friend, or a family member?

      if you want anything else, if you want to vent or receive virtual cuddles, shoot me a PM! the world loves ya!
      i'll pray for you, btw
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Postby Lucifer » Wed Aug 05, 2015 9:35 am

ughhh
ok so i moved schools and this one is apparently much farther behind than the old one so im gonna have to basically repeat the year and its gonna be really boring and im upset. so i told my friend that and then she was like 'duh that school's worse' & stuff like 'ur so dumb didnt u see that coming?' and then blamed it on a migraine. shes such a baby and now shes swearing at me and stuff. lost my friend i guess
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Postby ellie! » Wed Aug 05, 2015 9:56 am

      hey there Lucifer,
      I know what you are going through, I've been through a very similar situation and it hurts like hell.
      you shouldn't pay heed to your 'friend', but respond calmly as if nothing happened. she's being like that because she doesn't want you to go, and she wants you to think that the school is terrible so she tricks herself into thinking you'll stay. she doesn't want to loose you, because she realizes that you are an amazing person! so don't be sad about it, talk it over normally with her, tell her it's making you sad, that you don't actually want to leave.
      if you want anymore help, shoot me a PM!
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Postby undefined realities » Wed Aug 05, 2015 9:59 am

hello everyone.
I was gone for a while, so if you have
anything you want comfort on,
you may PM me.
I'm sorry I was gone.
-falling.
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Thank you for your friendship, and thank you for spending endless hours with me on this website.
I am no longer going to be very active on this account, and will probably delete this account after everything is squared away with it, but those of you who knew me, know how to get in touch with
me outside of this website.
Again, thank you for giving me amazing memories.

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Postby Atomic Samurai » Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:01 am

How do I do this? This isn't easy to do... Isn't she homophobic? Who cares, you're not around her much... What if Mom and Dad hate you... What would Eliza say? What would they all say... Why can't I be near Jacob, he knows what I am, and he accepts me... All of this is so hard, why can't I just say it? It's legal now, I'll be fine... I hope... Why can't I just be born like them? They don't have to worry about being judged for who you like, it's not fair...
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Postby undefined realities » Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:04 am

Takeda Takahashi wrote:How do I do this? This isn't easy to do... Isn't she homophobic? Who cares, you're not around her much... What if Mom and Dad hate you... What would Eliza say? What would they all say... Why can't I be near Jacob, he knows what I am, and he accepts me... All of this is so hard, why can't I just say it? It's legal now, I'll be fine... I hope... Why can't I just be born like them? They don't have to worry about being judged for who you like, it's not fair...

Just tell him.
There's nothing else to do.
Don't hide it.
Embrace it!
You are wonderful
just the way you are.
Don't be afraid of who you are.
I love you for you <3
Tell him.
Tell him that if it doesn't work
out, you still hope to be friends.
There's nothing else much to do.
*hugs*
My PM box is always open if you need it<3
-falling.
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To those of you who i was close to:
Thank you for your friendship, and thank you for spending endless hours with me on this website.
I am no longer going to be very active on this account, and will probably delete this account after everything is squared away with it, but those of you who knew me, know how to get in touch with
me outside of this website.
Again, thank you for giving me amazing memories.

- McKenna
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby chooch » Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:09 am

I just want to remind everyone that you are all beautiful and wonderful human beings that deserve too be loved. (wait a sec I said you are all wonderful human beings and that informs that I am not human MWAHAH. just kidding) anyway, whatever you are feeling down about I am here for you. We are all here for you. You are all kind, smart, beautiful, generous people.
God put you on earth because he knows you can make it here. He wants you to keep pushing to the end whatever it is that is bringing you down like depression, anxiety.
you are beautiful, and you are worth it..<3
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Postby leg » Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:20 am

i'm going to therapy for depression as the main thing right now, but my next appointment (first was last week) is on thursday, but my dad wants to go out as he has the week off. he said if we were going somewhere, he'd cancel my appointment. this is so so important to me, and he can't seem to get it into his mind depression is not something you can magic away. he keeps making my depression and anxiety about him, and i just feel so upset and it's making me sink further when i just got out of feeling crappy today. i just feel so angry and upset but i have no idea what to do, but i'm tired of hearing "he's your parent and you live under his roof so do what he says" i just can't deal with anything, my emotions and not him either. everything feels really fuzzy and i keep having to say i love you or i'm sorry. i like hugging but i can't feel anything

i'd like a hug maybe some advice, thanks.
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Postby undefined realities » Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:24 am

watchdog wrote:i'm going to therapy for depression as the main thing right now, but my next appointment (first was last week) is on thursday, but my dad wants to go out as he has the week off. he said if we were going somewhere, he'd cancel my appointment. this is so so important to me, and he can't seem to get it into his mind depression is not something you can magic away. he keeps making my depression and anxiety about him, and i just feel so upset and it's making me sink further when i just got out of feeling crappy today. i just feel so angry and upset but i have no idea what to do, but i'm tired of hearing "he's your parent and you live under his roof so do what he says" i just can't deal with anything, my emotions and not him either. everything feels really fuzzy and i keep having to say i love you or i'm sorry. i like hugging but i can't feel anything

i'd like a hug maybe some advice, thanks.

*giant hug*
What you need to do,
or an idea
is to tell him.
Explain to him how important
this appointment is to you.
Explain that depression and anxiety
don't just magically disappear.
If you explain this to
him, maybe he'll understand.
<3
My PM box is always open if you need it.
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Thank you for your friendship, and thank you for spending endless hours with me on this website.
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me outside of this website.
Again, thank you for giving me amazing memories.

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby chooch » Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:27 am

watchdog wrote:i'm going to therapy for depression as the main thing right now, but my next appointment (first was last week) is on thursday, but my dad wants to go out as he has the week off. he said if we were going somewhere, he'd cancel my appointment. this is so so important to me, and he can't seem to get it into his mind depression is not something you can magic away. he keeps making my depression and anxiety about him, and i just feel so upset and it's making me sink further when i just got out of feeling crappy today. i just feel so angry and upset but i have no idea what to do, but i'm tired of hearing "he's your parent and you live under his roof so do what he says" i just can't deal with anything, my emotions and not him either. everything feels really fuzzy and i keep having to say i love you or i'm sorry. i like hugging but i can't feel anything

i'd like a hug maybe some advice, thanks.

*hug* You are worth something, try explaining to him how much this means to you and tell him how you feel about it. You are worth something.
You are smart and a beautiful person.
you can get through depression, you can beat it.
heres some tips on how to try to calm down.
think happy thoughts. Think of some of your best memories like some times with your friends.
try deep breathing
also try doing some yoga and watching a movie.
I wish you the best of luck (:
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