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[master of spaz]

This has been going on for a while, but I'm just now starting to really get frustrated with this.
So I have this friend who comes over to spend the night at my house almost every week. And she usually stays for more than one night. The problem is, I like having a lot of alone time, and when she's over, I don't get to be by myself nearly as much as I'd like. She occasionally lets me have thirty minutes to myself while she hangs out with my sister, but she's always saying it's not fair. I understand she wants to hang out with me, but is it really so hard to understand I already see her nearly everyday? Does she really have to spend so much time at my house? I really want to spend time with her, but not for days on end. She doesn't understand why I like being alone, and I keep explaining to her that she spends too much time over here, and of course, she does it anyway. When I do get to be alone while she's here, it's always for thirty minutes at a time. Never more. I can't feel comfortable with just thirty minutes, and she knows that. She even tells me to ask my sister to see if it's okay for me to be alone. It shouldn't be another person's decision whether I should be alone or not, should it? I'm being controlled by my friend and my sister to spend time with them, and it's making me more and more uncomfortable each time. I don't like it one bit, and I don't know what to do about it at this point.

That sounds awful ;-;

It's a good idea to find the root of the situation before you proceed to say or ignore a situation. Why is she staying at your house so much? Does she have any siblings? Is she getting abused at home.

I think, before you ignore the problem, and especially before you begin to tell her how you feel, you should sit her down and ask her if she's feeling alright, say that you've noticed her spending time here a lot. If she didn't realize she was, then tell her you want some alone time. Even if it doesn't seem so, it's good to question if she thinks this is perfectly natural, if she just thinks it's what friends do, set her straight.

But is there a possibly something at home is upsetting her or even potentially pointing her in danger?

Just make sure to be gentle as lamb c:

Good luck!

[snowflake ;;]

i really need / want to talk to someone, can i have a pm or hug please? ;n;

[marmoris]

i dont really have many friends, and usually they are "BUSY" or something.. Or just downright ignore me :\ just not happy at the moment..

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

i really need / want to talk to someone, can i have a pm or hug please? ;n;

Pming *hugs*

i dont really have many friends, and usually they are "BUSY" or something.. Or just downright ignore me :\ just not happy at the moment..

I understand how you feel however don't let them get to you because you don't have to go through this alone and you could always pm me if you would like to talk however don't get upset because of them if they don't want to spend time with such a fantastic and brilliant person then that is their loss not yours so don't let them get to you because your so much better than that and you deserve so much more respect and treatment and you always have

[Princeton]

Omg, im in tears.. literally balling i just lost my mouse, melody seconds ago she passed away in my hands... i need some help..

I'm so sorry... I really wish I could make things better for you, but I can't
bring back the dead. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss.

I know I've been here a lot about the same stupid, cruel, shallow, idiotic, mean, dreamy, horrible, heart-thief, but...

I'm still crying.
I'm still hurting.
I'm still thinking about him.

My god, I'm holding every breath for him.

I know it must be hard for your heart to be broken and that it came from
someone you truly cared about, and I know just 'forgetting' him is like trying to walk through a wall and saying, "Hey! Maybe if I pretend the wall doesn't exist I can walk through it!" So all I can suggest is to get some ice cream and a Taylor Swift Album. Jk.

But even if forgetting him seems impossible, you can slowly move on... There is plenty of fish in the sea... And
I know you're strong enough to do that. And you're beautiful enough as well. Ignore him if he claims you're
anything less then that. I'm sorry I can't do more and I suck at this... Hugs. I can't say it'll get better, but I know
you'll try and make it better.

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I feel like I'm being replaced by another girl...
My long time best friend, every since kindergarten, went to a summer
camp. She told me about a lot of things but one thing, or should I say
person, she told me about was coming up a lot. She would tell me about
her in stories and in messages, she also sent me a photo of one of their
conversations on Google Hangouts which mainly we use to communicate.

I feel like she's slowly getting a new best friend...
And I feel selfish... Because I want her to like me the best...

I've always wanted her to like me the best since I first started getting
'competition' in grade four.

My best friend was always the best and the funniest out of the two of
us. She was always the smartest and the funniest, the funniest and the cutest.
She was always the strongest emotionally and she always got her way because
of how cunning yet caring she is. She was the perfect material for the best friend...
Said everyone including me.

Now that we've gone to a new school with more people, more people have started
to fawn after my best friend, BOYS INCLUDED.

I know I talk about her like an object... But I'm not sure whether I'm jealous of the
attention she gets or the fact people want her to be their best friend...

I'm always the second choice.
The backup plan.
The cry-baby.
The least liked.
The ugliest.

"Who do you think is the biggest crybaby in the class?"
*Crush shifts eyes over to angelpal*

I completely understand you. I was going through the same thing. I once was extremely popular in my old group of "friends." Then, I was replaced. I tried talking to my friend about it but she kept making me feel as if everything was my fault. I slowly became the outcast of the group, and everyone acted as if they did not notice. I soon realized they were talking about me behind my back; and decided they weren't proper friends for me. I decided to move back with an old group of friends, who had always stood by me. I had the greatest time with them and decided I didn't want to ignore the group who would always talk about me badly because I stood up for myself. I kindly told them that I would not be friends with them anymore, and they began insulting me with words such as; "I never cared about the past." And, "They may have done good for you in the past, but that doesn't mean they'll do you any good now." Or, "How could you do this to us? Leaving the group that considered you family?" The way I resolved my problem: brushing it off with time. I know it may seem like you are a terrible person for being "jealous" and for the longest time, like you, I felt second best. If you feel that way, and especially if they start insulting you, then that "friend" is no friend. If you know of others who truly care and respect you, then those are the people you should spend your time with. Don't spend time chasing after people who will never feel the same way as you do about them. I've learned that over time. I apologize for making this so long, but I felt sharing my own experience would help. You can always send me a PM!
-Captain Bear

[catdoqq]

I can't do this anymore. I just can't. I have no friends, since my parents don't know how I feel about this, they still nag that I don't have friends and should get some more.. It hurts me. I've never known what a true friend who doesn't stab me in the back feels like. When those friends stab me in the back? I chase after them. I don't know why. I also can't stop thinking about what she said.. What she said hurt.. I won't mention who "her" is.. I won't.. I sit patiently for someone to come and look at me and say: you're not okay, I know you aren't. You never are. What can I do? But I hide my true pain with a smile. I don't know why. I'm sad everyday. I lie about being happy, I fake it so my only online friends don't worry. I am never happy anymore. I just don't want them to worry about me. But at the same time I do.. I forgive people so often it hurts when they come back and hurt me again. The bullying is getting worse. It's actually effecting me. My counsellors? No help. Make me feel unwanted.
I'll stop crying,
Bloom

[undefined realities]

I can't do this anymore. I just can't. I have no friends, since my parents don't know how I feel about this, they still nag that I don't have friends and should get some more.. It hurts me. I've never known what a true friend who doesn't stab me in the back feels like. When those friends stab me in the back? I chase after them. I don't know why. I also can't stop thinking about what she said.. What she said hurt.. I won't mention who "her" is.. I won't.. I sit patiently for someone to come and look at me and say: you're not okay, I know you aren't. You never are. What can I do? But I hide my true pain with a smile. I don't know why. I'm sad everyday. I lie about being happy, I fake it so my only online friends don't worry. I am never happy anymore. I just don't want them to worry about me. But at the same time I do.. I forgive people so often it hurts when they come back and hurt me again. The bullying is getting worse. It's actually effecting me. My counsellors? No help. Make me feel unwanted.
I'll stop crying,
Bloom

I'll be your friend.
I won't stab you in the back.
I know what it feels like, and it sucks.
I'm going through my own depression,
unwanted feels, and insane thoughts.
I have issues with over thinking things,
or dwelling on the past.
Honestly;
I think you should try to look
through what "she" said.
Try to put it past you.
If you dwell, or think about something to
long it'll send you into serious depression.
I don't want to see you depressed.
I breaks my heart.
Tell your parents. That's really all you can do.
If they don't know, they'll keep nagging.
If they know, maybe they'll help.
I hope stuff gets better♥️
My PM box is always open if you want to PM
me about anything else.
-falling♥️

[♥kittyfaith2210♥]

I'm sorry
I have no more friends
My sister hates me
She won't let me talk to my best friend
I'm alone
I've been broken
Hurt
Inside not out
But now I'm just alone
I'm sorry

[Shwimp]

I don't know how to deal with death.

My grandma only has a few months left and it's killing me.
She got sick today thanks to my cousin. (God, I think I'm starting to hate him. How he mooches and doesn't do anything but smoke pot..)
Now she's in the hospital.
She doesn't have an immune system since she's been going through chemotherapy.
I just.
IDK.
I was accepted into LA Film School, and I don't want to leave and have her die while I'm not here.
Plus, my boyfriend doesn't want me going... for sort of a selfish reason.
Not really looking for a reply, just a place to rant, since I literally can't on any other site without getting a snarky remark.

[♥ Konata ♥]

I'm sorry
I have no more friends
My sister hates me
She won't let me talk to my best friend
I'm alone
I've been broken
Hurt
Inside not out
But now I'm just alone
I'm sorry

I know it hurts when you have no more friends,
I know the feeling of when a sister hurts you
But you can't let her ruin your life.
She knows better than that, if she's older
She still loves you in the inside.
Sisters are by chance, friends are by choice.
She's probably trying to do one of those sister messing with you.
If it gets out of hand, tell someone. Your parents. Teacher. Principle.
You need to tell someone, so you know your never alone.
There's always someone who will love you forever.
Who will never betray you.
You just need to find that person.
Your mom, dad, it could be anyone!
Just know that we're always here for you