by Flicka » Mon Jul 27, 2015 3:29 pm
I mainly feel conflicted, sad and angry. My grandmother died recently, leaving behind the aftermath of our estranged family to deal with how things were going to be sold and my aunt. The farm was supposed to be sold, and the profits divided between all six of grandfather's children (it was grandpa's farm) my uncle took advantage of everyone and paid for the farm at a cheaper amount until he was brought to court and the shares went back to everyone. He can no longer buy it. Which is good, he can't fix it up and make it into a farm again like grandfather would've wanted. His sons aren't mentally fit to work around dangerous animals like bulls, cows and horses. IF THEY wanted to that is. They're the typical spoiled brats, who enjoy having everything handed to them. They literally value nothing, and also are the reason our couch is busted and the board in the couch was busted.
But the main issue is the aunt that has been living with grandma, and my mentally impaired uncle. Is the reason grandmother passed away from gang-green, she put off getting her help because of her hoarding. The house, two sheds and even the barn she started on filling up with crap she'll never use. She abused grandma and now she doesn't want to move. She wants to stay in the house, and keep the property which isn't up to her. Grandma wanted it to be sold and divided its why she never made a will. She says its her property now, and it's not right. It's her fault she's gone, it's her fault she got that bad after falling so many times while "she" was supposedly taking care of her. She doesn't deserve to live there. I DONT CARE, that she's hardly worked a day in her life. I don't care she has all this crap around the property. SHE NEEDS TO GO. She obviously has a mental disorder she needs to get treated to treat her own mother like that. She's sick, and I am furious with anyone falling for her crying pity party that she's using as a ploy to try and swing people so she can stay in that house and hoard more!
If she keeps hoarding like she has been eventually that old farm house will go up in smoke.