| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[rena.]

i wish my parents didnt want to snoop around on my private stuff. i dont want them telling me what im doing wrong and what i shouldnt do. if i do something bad, its my fault. it was my decision to make a mistake to do bad things. im at the age where i can make my own decisions, i dont want my parents looking at what i mightve done bad and tell me not to do it or i dont want them to take control. i want them to leave my stuff alone and leave me alone about it. why so nosy? i hate it. i get so stressed out and i cry because im scared that they will dissaprove of who im friends with online and what i do. (i dont do REALLY bad things but still) i want my own privacy and i want to control my life and i dont want them to be the judge of what i do.

[slowtown]

my ex texted my friend saying a bunch of stuff like "i miss them and i forgot their number....i just hope everything is going well for them because they deserve the best."

lmao. no. you're just trying to get her now. just stop, focus on urself hunty. also it's not highschool anymore so stop texting my best friend about me bye.

[undefined realities]

i wish my parents didnt want to snoop around on my private stuff. i dont want them telling me what im doing wrong and what i shouldnt do. if i do something bad, its my fault. it was my decision to make a mistake to do bad things. im at the age where i can make my own decisions, i dont want my parents looking at what i mightve done bad and tell me not to do it or i dont want them to take control. i want them to leave my stuff alone and leave me alone about it. why so nosy? i hate it. i get so stressed out and i cry because im scared that they will dissaprove of who im friends with online and what i do. (i dont do REALLY bad things but still) i want my own privacy and i want to control my life and i dont want them to be the judge of what i do.

I think it may be a good idea to politely confront them, though I'm sure you have. Possibly say something along the lines of," Hey, I've noticed you've been snooping in my stuff a lot lately, and I've found that an invasion of my privacy. And though I understand you're my parents, their are just some things I'd like to keep to myself, so I'd appreciate it if you'd not snoop around." And of course if that doesn't work you could find a place that they don't know about to put things you'd really like to keep to yourself. Onto the note of judging. I know the feeling of being judged by your parents over past actions, or current actions. Parents tend to believe they can always help with something, but sometimes you need to figure it out on your own, and you could tell them that, as well as that you are at the age you should be allowed to make your own decisions.
Hope I helped!
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[River Blossom]

So today I put a rock in for my frog to climb on if he wants and I saw him on it before I went to play practice and when I got home he was dead under it. He somehow got crushed. I know he was in top of it before and I picked up the rock to see if he was hidding and while I was holding it I saw him squashed. He was my favorite..... I only had him two days and he died like every other pet I get. I'm surprised my cat has lasted since February. I feel like it is my fault for adding that rock I shouldn't have picked such a big one...... If I hadn't been stupid he would still be swimming in his pool or jumping around.

[Guest]

I think I screwed up my friendships all the time. Just one little thing done or said can effect something else.

Geez. This girl has so many medical and mental problems it bugs me. She got so defensive over a joke I made about her ex... which happens to be my best guy friend. Like she thinks he loves her so much and that they actually got back together. He's pretty sure their not and he isn't even sure that he loves her.

The only reason I care is because yes. I used to like him well I always have. To be honest.

[undefined realities]

I think I screwed up my friendships all the time. Just one little thing done or said can effect something else.

Geez. This girl has so many medical and mental problems it bugs me. She got so defensive over a joke I made about her ex... which happens to be my best guy friend. Like she thinks he loves her so much and that they actually got back together. He's pretty sure their not and he isn't even sure that he loves her.

The only reason I care is because yes. I used to like him well I always have. To be honest.

If you think you'd still like to be her friend, say it was simply a joke, and if she still isn't okay with it, then I suppose that's her problem.

If you like him, tell him. It may make things awkward, and I'm sure that not something you'd like, but you never know. He may feel the same and is just to scared to tell you. I've have multiple experiences with this myself. It can end well, or poorly. It just really depends, and all you can do is hope for the best.

[Fireblast59]

Been having some troubles with the boyfriend recently. Sometimes he says stuff that really upsets me. He'll insult me about the way I am and he's always harsh about it. Luckily he never swears at me to be mean and he's never hit me. But sometimes I really want to say something back and make him hurt the way he hurts me. But I just can't find it in myself to do that to him. I know he cares about me though because when he's not being like that he's always looking out for me, trying to surprise me and make me happy. I've tried talking to him about not being mean and he'll always get upset and feel bad when I tell him how sad it makes me. But then he just ends up doing it again.

[fruitbat]

I've been having problems sleeping.
its been really hard for me to get out of bed, and it just ruins my mornings. I feel miserable, tired and just
very unmotivated to do anything. the worse is I am scared that i'll loose my friends due to the fact I wont
be exciting enough for them.

I have tried to go to bed earlier (around 10-10:30) but I just wake up at around 3am, and I wont be able to
go back to sleep. so then a few nights ago I went to bed around 11, and I just woke up as groggy as I would
if I went to bed at 12. my normal time to go to bed is around 12, which allows me to get 5-6 hours of sleep,
depending on when I wake up.

im really not happy with myself at the moment because whenever im in this crappy mood. would it be best
if I speak to someone about this or just try to go to bed earlier?

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

i wish my parents didnt want to snoop around on my private stuff. i dont want them telling me what im doing wrong and what i shouldnt do. if i do something bad, its my fault. it was my decision to make a mistake to do bad things. im at the age where i can make my own decisions, i dont want my parents looking at what i mightve done bad and tell me not to do it or i dont want them to take control. i want them to leave my stuff alone and leave me alone about it. why so nosy? i hate it. i get so stressed out and i cry because im scared that they will dissaprove of who im friends with online and what i do. (i dont do REALLY bad things but still) i want my own privacy and i want to control my life and i dont want them to be the judge of what i do.

I understand how you feel and I know this can be annoying however it may be because they care about you and want to make sure nothing happens to you however I understand the fact that they could seem over protective however try not to let them get to you and keep making your own decisions because this is your life and nothing can ever change that and you can do what you like with your life however try to remember that they love you and care about you and if your unsure about what decisions to make you could always go to them because they do care about you no matter what happens and you could always pm me if you would like I hope that things get better between you all

So today I put a rock in for my frog to climb on if he wants and I saw him on it before I went to play practice and when I got home he was dead under it. He somehow got crushed. I know he was in top of it before and I picked up the rock to see if he was hidding and while I was holding it I saw him squashed. He was my favorite..... I only had him two days and he died like every other pet I get. I'm surprised my cat has lasted since February. I feel like it is my fault for adding that rock I shouldn't have picked such a big one...... If I hadn't been stupid he would still be swimming in his pool or jumping around.

Don't blame yourself it wasn't your fault and we all make mistakes and you never intended for any of this to happen and you just wanted to make his life more interesting and fun and he respects that you cared about him and his life and he is grateful to have such a caring owner who always loved and cared for him however he would never want to see you like this he would always want to see you being that wonderful and amazing invidual that he adores and he wouldn't want you to be upset because of him or guilty and he still loves you no matter what and nothing can ever change that so try to keep smiling and not feel guilty because it wasn't your fault and he still loves you no matter what and you could always pm me if you would like

Been having some troubles with the boyfriend recently. Sometimes he says stuff that really upsets me. He'll insult me about the way I am and he's always harsh about it. Luckily he never swears at me to be mean and he's never hit me. But sometimes I really want to say something back and make him hurt the way he hurts me. But I just can't find it in myself to do that to him. I know he cares about me though because when he's not being like that he's always looking out for me, trying to surprise me and make me happy. I've tried talking to him about not being mean and he'll always get upset and feel bad when I tell him how sad it makes me. But then he just ends up doing it again.

I understand how you feel however perhaps he says these things because he's under stress or sometimes people can't help saying these things however when he does try to leave him alone and have some time to yourself and don't talk to him until he Realises what he has done and has time to reflect upon his actions I know it can hard but perhaps ask him if everything is going okay and see if anything is troubling him or making him stressed I think your a wonderful and amazing individual to have stayed by his side and I'm sure he's trying his best to improve it might take a while but he does care about you and so do I so try not to let him get to you I'm sure he doesn't mean those things he says and he still loves you

I've been having problems sleeping.
its been really hard for me to get out of bed, and it just ruins my mornings. I feel miserable, tired and just
very unmotivated to do anything. the worse is I am scared that i'll loose my friends due to the fact I wont
be exciting enough for them.

I have tried to go to bed earlier (around 10-10:30) but I just wake up at around 3am, and I wont be able to
go back to sleep. so then a few nights ago I went to bed around 11, and I just woke up as groggy as I would
if I went to bed at 12. my normal time to go to bed is around 12, which allows me to get 5-6 hours of sleep,
depending on when I wake up.

im really not happy with myself at the moment because whenever im in this crappy mood. would it be best
if I speak to someone about this or just try to go to bed earlier?

Perhaps try something to help you sleep such as camomile tea as it helps you relax a little and get a good night sleep and there is also other tea's designed to help you sleep and perhaps you could listen to a audio book as it helps you relax and slowly let's you into the story while you sleep also in the morning perhaps listen to some upbeat music to help you get more motivated however you won't loose your friends no matter what happens they are your friends because they love you an nothing can ever change that and I think it might be a good idea if you told someone about this

[Chemicello]

I will be going away for a week tomorrow, I am so sorry I won't be here for you guys, I will be back soon, my inbox is always open so feel free to pm me in my absence, stay strong everyone, your in good hands with the other helpers here. I may have WiFi but I will be too busy to spend much time here x