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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:40 am

Jude Carew wrote:Ugh, someone help me please, I'm being bullied at school and I think I'm terrible at trading. Maybe I'm too old for this or no one likes me or my pets, I just don't understand. I'm so confused by everything, my best friend who I've been friends with for over 13 years decided to ditch me today with my 'other friends' and they always make fun of me. I just wanna fall asleep forever in a dream ;-;

If your being bullied at school you should tell a teacher and don't let them get to you often bullies thrive on reactions so don't give them one then they will see its a waste of time and eventually realise how pathetic they have been towards you however no matter what you do don't drop to there level your so much better than them and always will be no matter what and if they can't see how wonderful and amazing you are then that is there loss not yours same goes to the friend who left you if they left you then that is there loss not yours because they lost a brilliant and fantastic friend that can never be replaced no matter what happens but don't let them bring you down you could always make another friend and I know it can be hard but you can do this so don't give up because I'm not giving up on you and we all have different trading styles some might not like it but there will always be others who does its just a matter of finding those people :)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ♥kittyfaith2210♥ » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:42 am

kittygirl2210 wrote:I cant do it anymore, i just cant ok guys? I know you hate me, you just don't say it. I wanna leave but I dont want to leave some people behind. I just get back on today get bombarded with so much I can't take anything anymore, i GIVE UP OK!!! I GIVE UP

Thanks for the support guys, but i still am depressed...... i am done :( im just bullied too much, maybe because I'm ugly? Not popular enough? I'm fat? I don't know but im just so sad
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ProudHufflepuff » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:46 am

What am I doing with my life....I move out in a couple years and all I do all day every day is sit on my butt watching supernatural, scroll through tumblr and text my bf. there are things that I want to do but then I don't....I feel like I've gotten to be a better artist and I want to draw and when I actually get my stuff out I don't know what to do and then put it away again...or when I do start drawing it turns out awful and I give up. Same thing happens with other things....I wanna write a story or something, write a sentence and can't continue it.....wanna try to do my make up differently and fail once and give up....gotta write those letters to the supernatural people, take it out, don't know what to do
I avoid going places cause I'm afraid I'll see a "friend" and have to act like everything's great and I wanna talk to them even though they had treated me like garbage all year and I don't wanna be around them.
I'd go to my grandparents during the day and actually do stuff but one of the worst "friends" I have lives in that neighborhood. She's so judgy and rude and annoying but she told me before school ended she would ride her bike around the neighborhood and come see if I'm at my grandparents EVERY DAY. If she comes and asks me to hang out I can't say no....I don't want my family getting involved in my problems but if the think somethings going on they will get involved so I'm stuck with her if she finds me. She is the only reason I never go over there
I'm not even pretty....or talented...there is nothing about me that is special or worth mentioning....everyone at school except my awful friends, ignore me....I'm always invisible....unless it's when I actually wanna be invisible
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ~ V ~ » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:47 am

kittygirl2210 wrote:
kittygirl2210 wrote:I cant do it anymore, i just cant ok guys? I know you hate me, you just don't say it. I wanna leave but I dont want to leave some people behind. I just get back on today get bombarded with so much I can't take anything anymore, i GIVE UP OK!!! I GIVE UP

Thanks for the support guys, but i still am depressed...... i am done :( im just bullied too much, maybe because I'm ugly? Not popular enough? I'm fat? I don't know but im just so sad


Kitty. This is sad. I mean I feel you! I'm not popular at all. I have no friends and nobody to look up too. This site helped me a lot. I probably wouldn't be who I am. I want you too know that people do care. I care Kitty. I would stay by you no matter what. Who cares if you aren't popular! I like you! Your fun! Please don't quit, it's not fair.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby gravestones » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:47 am

kittygirl2210 wrote:
kittygirl2210 wrote:I cant do it anymore, i just cant ok guys? I know you hate me, you just don't say it. I wanna leave but I dont want to leave some people behind. I just get back on today get bombarded with so much I can't take anything anymore, i GIVE UP OK!!! I GIVE UP

Thanks for the support guys, but i still am depressed...... i am done :( im just bullied too much, maybe because I'm ugly? Not popular enough? I'm fat? I don't know but im just so sad


    Depression is a constant struggle. You'll always need support. Some days will be harder than others but you can get through it. And I know it's hard but try not to internalize why bullies do what they do to you. It is literally their hang up... they're projecting their problems onto you because they can't deal with them themselves. I should know; I used to be a bully. I had a "if I'm being a bully, no one can hurt me" attitude. It's a horrible attitude to have and I became that way because I was bullied and hurt.

    They're not bullying you because of your body, your status or what you do... they're only trying to use those against you because you're insecure about them. They are exploiting your insecurity. There is nothing wrong with you. I'm sure you're a great person and I hope you get through this and feel better.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby serik » Fri Jul 10, 2015 8:58 am

Jude Carew wrote:Ugh, someone help me please, I'm being bullied at school and I think I'm terrible at trading. Maybe I'm too old for this or no one likes me or my pets, I just don't understand. I'm so confused by everything, my best friend who I've been friends with for over 13 years decided to ditch me today with my 'other friends' and they always make fun of me. I just wanna fall asleep forever in a dream ;-;

Thanks guys for the support, it makes me feel better, it really does. You know even if teachers and adults tell you the internet is horrible, it really isn't. This makes me feel a billion times better and so much more confident, even if I get called fat, ugly, manly, an evil giant and get laughed at, I'll just leave it to float around my personal bubble. Thanks guys for everything, I probably won't talk to my friends after this, it's been happening for a couple of weeks now. They've been ditching me and talking about me behind their backs anyway I just wanted to say, the comments made me tear up, it's nice to know amazing people who I've never met irl can be so lovely on the internet. Thank you guys so much for everything ^^
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Postby The Furry Fandom » Fri Jul 10, 2015 9:29 am

The old evil mother of the boyfriend / mother-in-law who thinks no girl is ever good enough for her precious baby.
God I hate those, you have those women in any relationship. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Honestly it doesn't surprise me at all that he believes his mom over you, especially since he sounds like the class A "mama's boy", and is very close to her. I don't think there is any hope to try to get her to stop being a tyrant, so what you need to work on his him. Honestly I don't think texts are very good proof, you'd need something more solid to show him her two faced personality.
Is there anyway to talk to his brother about telling him what happened with him and his ex-girl? Maybe listening to his own sibling would be a good start.

Something else too would be to sit and be completely open and have a heart to heart talk with him about this without his mother's influence. Try to explain the situation without actually making him think you're attacking his mom so he doesn't get threatening. Make him see that the relationship was fine before she intervened, and after she did it went downhill because she is talking behind both your backs. He loves his mom, and there isn't any shame in that so don't make her out to seem like a devil woman because in her mind she's protecting her little boys from being hurt like a dad would be over protective of his daughter. It's a parent thing, just some take it to extremes like what she's doing.

And, even though you love him, if he doesn't budge on any of this and continues to be a jerk because he believes his mom over anything else.. Then as much as I hate to say it you might need to let him go. It is never a good plan to give "It is me or your mom", because usually the person will choose family first especially if they believe the lying. It'll only end up hurting you worse off.

And if at all possible if you've the time and money I'd suggest couples counseling / therapy. You don't need to be engaged or married to do it at some places.

Good luck to you dear, I really hope things work out for the best.

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Starfalling » Fri Jul 10, 2015 9:46 am

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I'm so nervous. I don't know whether to ask her while she's online and cause myself a panic attack asking her or to do the chicken thing and ask while she's online and have a panic attack waiting for an answer. yucuerggvyhcjrbugvhdskjbgyvde. Opinions? Talking to her in peron is out of thte question. 0.0 O.O

(I'm referring to talking to my best friend about whether or not we'll still be able to keep in touch when she graduates.)

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Lately I've been feeling sad and unmotivated. I don't want this to happen again. I remember how bad it was a few months ago when this happened. I didn't want to do anything or talk to anyone. What should I do?? I feel so helpless. I can't prevent it because I don't know what's causing it.

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Also my ear ache came back.-.- Any time but this week would have been fine but not now. I have wayy too much going on with my cousins while they're visiting that I can't enjoy if I have and earache. (e.g. Going to a water park.)

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I'm sorry for posting this so much. I just feel really helpless right now.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby WHEN'DHEGO?!?! » Fri Jul 10, 2015 9:56 am

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby The Legacy » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:04 am

I just got braces.
They hurt SO bad, and they're only going to get worse, I know that because I only got my top braces on today, because I already have bottom braces.
My bottom braces have hurt so bad, that there are literally 4 sores on my lip, and my tops are even worse because my lip is more sensitive.
I'm also completely paranoid that I'm going to break one.
I can't eat anything except for extremely soft food, like soup and Mac n' cheese.
I can't even eat bread if it has a hard crust.

AAARRGGGH. I'm so stressed out right now!
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