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[chaeminqq]

I wish I could make this short, but I cant.

It all started in 7th grade. First day of school, super excited to meet new people. I walked into my English class, and the people I was assigned to sit next to were pretty cool people- of course I didn't know that at the time since it was the first day. But right when I walked in, since I was a little late finding the classroom, everyone.. etc

I feel like with K if he's ignoring you with the populars he shouldn't be considered a friend. Drift yourself away from him, he's not worth it if he isn't trying to hang out with you. I feel like you shouldn't date anybody until you're in high school as it will start soon, as it's fun but you will always end up heartbroken. This is the time to kick back, do well in school, stay happy and like whoever you want.. just keep it lowkey. 👌 I'm not an adult or anything and seems like I'm in your grade but I hope I helped a bit. Let people make the effort to like you, and if you like someone don't make it obvious. If someone is really trying to go out with you and you want to too, go ahead. Just don't get too hung up on them or attached

[regular;]

i have a small dilemma.
so, in options i'm in musical theatre, and there's this one guy in a grade older than me that teases me and makes me laugh - you know, normal boyish friend things. well, today we had to set up for the musical and miss an entire day of school. him and i are both in props, meaning we basically had to work together. one of my friends, "k", told me something that got me really upset. yes, it was about another boy, but that's out of the picture since i'm telling everyone i'm over him. anyway, this guy - G - saw me upset and asked why. i said it was nothing, but he insisted he knew something was up even after i tried to laugh. he wouldn't stop until he got an answer, which to this very moment he still hasn't. he started threatening to hurt himself if i didn't tell, so at that point i was trying to snatch everything he was using. i thought it was just a joke. i was wrong. he used a boxcutter we were using and actually pushed it against his skin. i immediately tried to get it away from him. we "hate" each other, so at first i thought he wouldn't care. but he did. he kept saying it was stressing him out and at that point i was like "oh my god." my friends had always told me he liked me; i never believed them. but today, i saw something different in him. not the "makes jokes and laughs a lot" but the "i'm serious. i actually care". i mean, yes, he's attractive, nice, funny. and yes, i knew i kind of liked him. now it's on a whole other level. he cared so much. even his friends say he likes me. problem? i don't want to know if he likes me. i'm so self-concious and i think if i confessed my feelings people would laugh and tease me. he's a grade older after all. i'm so confused right now. i guess i'll update the situation tomorrow since we're doing the same thing.

[redhorizon]

How have I not seen this thread yet?

Well, I'm not going to go on a HUGE rant about my girlfriend yet, but I do want to just say that she is wonderful... Beautiful, strong, smart, she's everything I've ever wished to be. She can make me smile when nobody else can, she can light up my day... She's so perfect but she thinks so little of herself... I see the most amazing person to ever live when I see her, and she sees nothing... I just love her so much, I worry about her. The girl is just so wonderful <3

(P.S. Sorry, super off topic, am I the only one who uses they/them pronouns but NOBODY ever gets it right?)

[SilentMelody]

okayokay there's this girl I really like and she's gay too and I wanna tell her that I like her and sometimes she lowkey flirts with me so idk?? ahhhh

racing thoughts and ongoing sentences oops

[L.V.L]

What will you do now?
You told everyone he broke your heart and that you want everyone to fight him. You blamed him for your over thinking of the whole situation and now you've pushed him away. You thought he broke your heart but you're the one who broke his. Now you want to fix everything. You want to tell him that you still love him and you were the one over thinking the whole thing. You want to say that you're sorry and you want to go back to normal. You don't want to miss him anymore and you want that awkward hug again. You want those cute and also stupid smilies he used to give you. You want him back. But do you really?

Apparently I can't actually write what I feel;
but if I put it in a poem type thing, I can.
So just change the "you's" to "I", since its referring to myself.
I don't know what I've done. And I've cried everyday since Saturday,
and I see him everyday in math class.
I miss him so much - and all mine and his friends says he's sad all the time now - it's all my fault!

Dang it!
I started tearing up in class - which I never do in school. Like, I've literally never cried in school before.
And I just couldn't handle it. Seeing him sitting there with the most heartbroken look ever just killed me inside.
And I'm going to finally go up to him tomorrow, or hopefully Friday, because I can't stand to see him like this anymore.
I just need to tell him that it wasn't his fault, for anything.

Well... it didn't go so well.
I barely saw him today like I usually do - all I saw him was the beginning of math and then he left to go to another classroom.
I just don't know what I'm doing anymore.
Should I just try and move on? I don't think that could ever happen though, it's just something about him that makes me want to be there and makes my whole day better, even with all of this going on.
And the winter break coming up soon, that's not helping at all!
I have tomorrow and then all of next week to talk to him, to try and fix this.
Update:
I decided to message him over Facebook, this is what I said:
"Hey sweet.
I just want to let you know that I don't know what happened, but I still love you. I don't know if you're dealing with things right now and that's why you're being distance, but whatever it is I really do hope that you're okay. Seeing you everyday and that sorta sad look on your face just tears me apart and I don't know what to do about it.
I'm so sorry if I did something to cause this silence.
I love you *name*.
And I hope you're alright <3"
And now I'm super nervous for tomorrow and if he doesn't read it tonight then I won't be able to know if he's seen it until tomorrow after school … and … ugh! What have I done?!?

[redhorizon]

okayokay there's this girl I really like and she's gay too and I wanna tell her that I like her and sometimes she lowkey flirts with me so idk?? ahhhh

racing thoughts and ongoing sentences oops

I'd just go for it! That's what I did with my girlfriend and it turns out she'd liked me for 2 months and had been too scared to ask (Those two months of liking me can never beat my three years of liking her xD). I'd just go up to her and just ask her how she feels about it

[Firedancer77]

Ahhhh maybe I'm getting all my hopes up, but the guy I like has been exhibiting more signs that he might like me back ahhh. Can anyone tell me if these are generally good signs?

Sometimes I'll catch him glancing at me during our study hall or when we sit near each other in class. I sometimes won't do anything, but sometimes I'll look back and/or make a face at him. He shows up at my first period class before school starts all the time, and sometimes acts offended if I don't say hi to him. We talk about a YouTube channel we both watch, and he'll casually slip compliments into conversations we're having. I always find myself laughing/smiling around him. He's such a dork and is pretty much a low key fanboy about some things. He claims he's going to read a book series I love and was lending me some of his books when I needed them, and at lunch sometimes he'll wait by my locker and walk with me. He'll steal my stuff (so I'll steal his back) and he teases me sometimes, but never in a mean way. He'll ask me for help on stuff sometimes, and is always super willing to help me (even though my problems can be really pathetic).

The biggest thing is something his older sister said. We're friends, and we are in an activity period together. While we were playing a game, she said that she always seemed funnier around me. I said I did generally just find people funny, She then said, "That must be why (brother's name) likes," and she awkwardly paused before finishing, "being your friend." She then added after an awkward pause, "Because you laugh at his stupid jokes."

Ahhhh I just I don't know if I'm over analyzing things. He's one of my best friends and I've liked him since last year, so I'm scared I am misinterpreting thing. Am I?

[arabella !!]

okayokay there's this girl I really like and she's gay too and I wanna tell her that I like her and sometimes she lowkey flirts with me so idk?? ahhhh

racing thoughts and ongoing sentences oops

Tell her, there's a likely chance that she'll like you back. c:

[L.V.L]

okayokay there's this girl I really like and she's gay too and I wanna tell her that I like her and sometimes she lowkey flirts with me so idk?? ahhhh
racing thoughts and ongoing sentences oops

I agree with the others - go after her. You would rather know what happened if you told her then if you didn't tell her. Maybe you'll both go out or maybe you'll make a new best friend that could possibly later develop. Just do it and have fun and good luck! <3

[Shiny Sylveon]

Being in love with my best friend can be a real disaster...he was having a bad day, and I just wanted to let him cry on my shoulder until he felt better. It hurts me to see him sad or mad as his best friend, but as a crush, it just breaks my heart. Then there's the fact that during some times, I get hopeful that he might like me back, but at other times, I feel that I'm not even deserving to be with him as a friend. He's sweet, dorky, and fun to be around, but I'm a total opposite.

Today was his birthday...he seemed so happy, so it really made my day. Too bad I didn't get to talk to him for long.

I so know where you are coming from, I guess you could say I fell in love with my best friend. Luckily none of my friends (and some of his) aren't idiots and they realized something:
I liked him and he liked me.
Sometimes, you have to wait to see the signs, sometimes, your friends will say "I caught him looking at you during .... today" and your heat will give a little leap.
Trust your instinct. The mind is better at reading people than you think. Watch his body language, how he speaks to people. It can hint a lot.

I'm sorry if this doesn't help, but it is what I did to get into a relationship with my best friend.

Thanks, but my best friend and I have 2 classes together, and only one mutual friend in one of those classes, who always does his own thing. It's not like I mind just being his best friend, but sometimes it hurts more than others. I swear, there are times I'm almost positive he likes me, but at other moment, I feel like a complete stranger.

"I swear, there are times I'm almost positive he likes me, but at other moment, I feel like a complete stranger. " That's my life in a nutshell. XD