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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby idiosyncrasy » Thu Dec 08, 2016 9:55 am

Err... okay.
So I like a lot of fictional characters. {Of course! xD}
But, there's a real guy I like, too.
He just happens to be my best friend.
We're pretty much like siblings, and we've know each other for 5 or 6 years.
It's just really weird and akward to me, and I know he'll feel weird and akward about it if I told him.
I'm not really sure what to do, whenever anybody jokes about us being in a relationship he says;
I'm pretty much his sister and he wouldn't be in a relationship with me.
I'm pretty sure he'll friend-zone me, so I don't want to even try.
But... should I? It might actually be worth a shot.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Shiny Sylveon » Thu Dec 08, 2016 10:15 am

Being in love with my best friend can be a real disaster...he was having a bad day, and I just wanted to let him cry on my shoulder until he felt better. It hurts me to see him sad or mad as his best friend, but as a crush, it just breaks my heart. Then there's the fact that during some times, I get hopeful that he might like me back, but at other times, I feel that I'm not even deserving to be with him as a friend. He's sweet, dorky, and fun to be around, but I'm a total opposite.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby idiosyncrasy » Thu Dec 08, 2016 10:19 am

Shiny Sylveon wrote:Being in love with my best friend can be a real disaster...he was having a bad day, and I just wanted to let him cry on my shoulder until he felt better. It hurts me to see him sad or mad as his best friend, but as a crush, it just breaks my heart. Then there's the fact that during some times, I get hopeful that he might like me back, but at other times, I feel that I'm not even deserving to be with him as a friend. He's sweet, dorky, and fun to be around, but I'm a total opposite.

Yeah, I completely understand.
Whenever I see my friend cry {all the time since his family is made out of drug addicts..} I feel horrible...
Sometimes I feel that I don't deserve him, too.
But I want him to like me back sometimes.
I haven't told him that I like him yet either.
I'm not sure how to tell him though, Not even sure if I should.
Hmm.....
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Maligator » Thu Dec 08, 2016 11:16 am

Okay, so.... I have an issue, and I don't even know if I would consider it an issue, but here it goes anyway...
Ever since I started going to school, I have really liked this one guy, and I'm talking REALLLLYYY Like him. Only thing is, he's a few years (2 and maybe like a half) younger than me, and I feel like that's..... Weird.
So, as a result of that, I decided that to try and cover it up and also keep my mind off of him, I decided that I was going to try and give someone I like in my own classes, and I did.... But it's NOT Working. AT ALL. Recently, me and the boy a really like have been talking and hanging out more, and I can't keep it in anymore, and I'm falling hard...
He is really sweet, to the point he is killing my heart. Like, earlier today, I made a comment about how I wanted to be smaller and skinnier like someone else I knew, and he said, and I quote, "Don't take this weird, but I think your beautiful just as you are". We get along good, and I feel like he might possibly like me too, but I'm not sure..

I'm not really used to doing this, but is there any advice anybody chugged possibly give me? Thank you so much either way... I needed to get it off my chest a bit, because I'm having like, allot of butterflies just thinking about it xD
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Siciatres » Thu Dec 08, 2016 11:42 am

Marilburr wrote:
      Today in fourth period, my crush (let's call him D), our friend (we'll call her M) and I were working on an assignment, and when the teacher was talking, I hear M whisper something to D. I see him nod his head, and M starts to smile. M tells me, "Hey Maril, did you know D likes you?" I freeze, trying to process what she just said. D looked so disappointed in M. I was going to respond, but our teacher has me work with someone else for a project, and I have to move away. I was going to tell him how I feel when the bell rang, but he left pretty quickly. I plan on talking to him about it tomorrow as soon as I can. Any idea how I can bring it up to him, because I'm pretty awkward at starting conversations. Thanks!

      I was going to tell him today, but there wasn't a way to casually bring it up. Instead, I acted normal, and D seemed relieved. M wasn't here, so I was allowed to work with D in 4th period. He needed to finish some work, so he gave me his number so I could help him, which is good that we have a way to communicate now.
      Also, I was playing with his hair since we get distracted easily and I saw him blush. It was the cutest thing ever. ♥
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Lincoln » Thu Dec 08, 2016 11:44 am

Lily wrote:I'm so confused right now, am I the only one that these things happen to?

Okay, anyway, I'll try to make this simple.
Kn= Current Boyfriend Ks= Best friend who has a crush on me T= Kid I would date if I wasn't with Kn J= Previous abusive boyfriend.

Lets get to the point. I met Kn at the beginning of the year, and pretty much fell head over heels. I love the way he talks, the way he looks, the way he thinks, etc. He has a speech impediment, and for some reason, I am drawn to visible "flaws". He was really incredibly nice when I first met him considering that I recently moved and knew nobody at my new school. He sits next to me in 4 classes. I loved how he actually engaged in conversations with me, and eventually told him I had a crush on him. A week later he "asked me out" and I said yes, obviously. But then he didn't talk to me... for 2 weeks...........
WHATTT??? I sit next to him every day in school in 80% of our classes! Is it that hard to talk to me? Anyway, Ks, kept telling me to break up with him, and told me that he isn't right for me and isn't treating me right. I agree, he isn't treating me right, but I think Ks told me to do that because... well... I am 99.9% sure he wants to date me. He's walked me home a couple hundred times, listened to me ranting his ears off, and hooked me up with a free horse back riding lesson with his mom (I had that an hour ago, extremely awkward because he was watching the whole time, but it was the best lesson ever!), and cajoled me into giving him art lessons. He's hinted at him having a crush on me;
"I know at least 2 people who like you"
"Who wouldn't want to date you?"
*after a long, heated discussion about telling if someone likes you with my group of friends, and I said I know a couple people who like me.*
"Who is one of those people?"
And he's really getting to me. He's a gentleman, he's really sweet. he's funny, and loyal. But I just can't... I just can't seem to have feelings for him, and I don't know why. He would make the best boyfriend ever.

ANNNND THEN THERE'S T!
Ohhh holy mother of a llama... where do I start...
He's my senpai*, he's HILARIOUS and.. he seems perfect for me.
But. I have a boyfriend that I can't break up with because he never talks to me at school which is the only time I see him, and I want to be kind and end things in person. And... My feelings are just so jumbled and tangled right now I don't know what to do! Should I go see a school counselor?
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Rinsea » Thu Dec 08, 2016 12:06 pm

Do you think there's something wrong with me?

All my friends and classmates have crushes except me, I can't tell a cute good looking guy from a regular guy. I study in an all girls school, and the only guy in my family is my dad so I don't usually talk to other male humans 030
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby free Jc » Thu Dec 08, 2016 12:36 pm

So about Chase anyway over the past week and a half this girl named Lizzie asked Chase if he wanted to date this girl named Madison but then Chase said "No, i'm already dating Mia." Now this has gotten Madison and I confused very much because earlier in life he forgot we were dating and now he starts to say that we are. I don't know it's his words and now he's starting to talk to me again and we make funny faces at each other and just last week I went up to him in the middle of the soccer field and hugged him because

a) He hates his brother
b) I felt really sorry for him (and his brother and him are twins).

I felt really sorry for him so I went up to him, hugged him and said "i'm sorry". He was more confused than ever and the day after that he didn't talk to me. It was Monday and now he's talking to me very suprising. And when Lizzie asked Chase if he wanted to date Madison the first time he said yes. Maybe he's remembering what happened and how it happened.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby L.V.L » Thu Dec 08, 2016 1:45 pm

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What will you do now?
You told everyone he broke your heart and that you want everyone to fight him. You blamed him for your over thinking of the whole situation and now you've pushed him away. You thought he broke your heart but you're the one who broke his. Now you want to fix everything. You want to tell him that you still love him and you were the one over thinking the whole thing. You want to say that you're sorry and you want to go back to normal. You don't want to miss him anymore and you want that awkward hug again. You want those cute and also stupid smilies he used to give you. You want him back. But do you really?

Apparently I can't actually write what I feel;
but if I put it in a poem type thing, I can.
So just change the "you's" to "I", since its referring to myself.
I don't know what I've done. And I've cried everyday since Saturday,
and I see him everyday in math class.
I miss him so much - and all mine and his friends says he's sad all the time now - it's all my fault!

Dang it!
I started tearing up in class - which I never do in school. Like, I've literally never cried in school before.
And I just couldn't handle it. Seeing him sitting there with the most heartbroken look ever just killed me inside.
And I'm going to finally go up to him tomorrow, or hopefully Friday, because I can't stand to see him like this anymore.
I just need to tell him that it wasn't his fault, for anything.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby appi » Thu Dec 08, 2016 3:20 pm

L.V.L wrote:
Dang it!
I started tearing up in class - which I never do in school. Like, I've literally never cried in school before.
And I just couldn't handle it. Seeing him sitting there with the most heartbroken look ever just killed me inside.
And I'm going to finally go up to him tomorrow, or hopefully Friday, because I can't stand to see him like this anymore.
I just need to tell him that it wasn't his fault, for anything.

    aw i'm so sorry to hear that D: if i were you, i wouldn't be able to stand the guilt of
    making him feel like that, and i believe you're doing the right thing. c: i would probably
    just run up to him, give him a hug, and apologize for everything. i would tell him how much
    i miss him and just how much i love him, and that i want to apologize for everything i put
    him through. if you really want to make things up with him, i think you should just sit down
    with him and talk him through your feelings and just .. well, just talk to him. and listen to
    what he has to say. :)
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