♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[arabella !!]

i think my crush of two years is losing interest in me and it's honestly killing me inside. I'm more depressed than ever, and even other people are starting to "ship" us with other people, which is so hard for me because everyone's shipped us since forever. Even worse? They're shipping him with my best friend, who happens to like him. A lot. Like honestly almost as much as I do.

he says he still likes me, which is most likely true, but that doesn't mean he doesn't have second feelings for another person.

god help

Honestly you should give him some time, he's probably confused as much as you.

[Lolitaa]

me; "that's fine then" (some more text) ":)"

not really

[mimosal]

Hoo boy. Well, different tone post than usual for you guys today.
So after a whole lot of talking, the decision was made that my boyfriend should follow his dreams. Ever since I've known him, his plan was to join the army, like his father and his grandfather, and his uncle, so on and so forth. For a while, it had changed because of me. However, next August or so, he will be enlisting in the army. I will likely have to be staying here to finish school even when he is stationed thereafter. However, he claims he will propose to me before he enlists and we'd sign marriage documents before he shipped off for basic. We'd have a wedding thereafter. He also pinkie promised (if he breaks it I get to cut off his pinkie, so y'know) both that everything was going to be okay and that he would get me a puppy before he ships off so that I would a. have some company, b. have a protector (as dogs make me feel a million times safer), and c. someone to help me with my anxiety attacks. So within the next year or so, we will be finding a new apartment that I will be able to pay for myself (otherwise I will room with my sister or move back in with my parents for the time being), getting a great Pyrenees puppy, and supposedly getting married. My world has been completely turned upside down but he's going to be okay and we're going to be okay and we'll make it work.
Whew.
I need a nap.

[storm coming.]

so i'm pretty sure me and my crush both like eachother, and to my excitement,
everything is going smoothly with us. we are still practically best friends, but
i don't think he wants to take it up next level. today during lunch, he was talking
with his other guy friends saying how they were going to go stag to homecoming,
which got me pretty bummed out. i really want to go to homecoming with him
and take it up, but sadly i don't think he wants to anytime soon. i mean that's
fine with me, i'm just disappointed. i will wait, i don't mind and i am going with
him and the guys, but not really "together" together. •~•

he might just not be asking you because he doesn't realize you have a crush on him OR he doesn't actually have a crush on you and considers you a friend instead. he could also be the shy type that likes the girls to ask for them. whatever the case may be, at least you still get to go and have fun with him, right? even if it may not be a date. just wait, i'm sure things will turn around soon enough and you'll figure out whether he wants to be friends or more. you don't want to take the chances of ruining your friendship, but you also don't want him to go out with another girl, so you may want to at least ask him if he has his eye on anyone to see what he says?

[avaloafe]

so i'm pretty sure me and my crush both like eachother, and to my excitement,
everything is going smoothly with us. we are still practically best friends, but
i don't think he wants to take it up next level. today during lunch, he was talking
with his other guy friends saying how they were going to go stag to homecoming,
which got me pretty bummed out. i really want to go to homecoming with him
and take it up, but sadly i don't think he wants to anytime soon. i mean that's
fine with me, i'm just disappointed. i will wait, i don't mind and i am going with
him and the guys, but not really "together" together. •~•

he might just not be asking you because he doesn't realize you have a crush on him OR he doesn't actually have a crush on you and considers you a friend instead. he could also be the shy type that likes the girls to ask for them. whatever the case may be, at least you still get to go and have fun with him, right? even if it may not be a date. just wait, i'm sure things will turn around soon enough and you'll figure out whether he wants to be friends or more. you don't want to take the chances of ruining your friendship, but you also don't want him to go out with another girl, so you may want to at least ask him if he has his eye on anyone to see what he says?

unless he changed his mind about me, i'm pretty sure he likes me back, but just
doesn't want to go anywhere else with it and take time since his last girlfriends
ended. i don't wanna say badly but they still ended. i mean we had this weird
conversation last night about if i am okay with him biting me and it kind of got
"weird" but NOT IN THAT KINDA WAY. but him biting me doesn't bother me at all
honestly. i mean it hurts, but i don't mind? i'm not one to ask personal questions
that might involve me. like if he does like me or if he likes anyone else and why
he is gonna go "stag" at hoco. i didn't even tell him, his friend asked him if he
liked me, and he said idk, i could see it working, but it would have to wait until
after graduation. mainly because my parents have the wrong idea of him because
he has two tattoos and his parents have tattoos and a few piercings. my family
isn't that fond of those two things. that is the only issue on my side. but honestly
i'm not sure about anything. like i'm not sure if i can trust him because my last
crush ended very badly and i'm having a hard time believing that anybody would
like me. so yeah...

[⭐stargirl.⭐]

so.. theres a guy i like who is 2 grades ahead of me.. we notice eachother often, looking at eachother and often running into eachother i the hallway.. but he doesnt know i like him.. and i feel he would be creeped out if i told him i did.. idk what to do.. im so confused on what to do when it comes to making moves in relationships or talking to crushes.. i honestly like alot of guys at my school lol.. mainly all of them are 1 to 2 grades ahead of me and some of them are in my grade.. im stressed out.
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[mouse?]

I have had a crush on one of my best friends for a few months. He asked me out 2 days ago, and we started dating. I felt like i always wanted this, but I'm not happy.. I still like him but i don't just don't like the way this feels. I have only been in 2 other "relationships", the first one i was only 8 and my "boyfriend" was 13. He "touched" me and afterwards he moved away. The second one cheated on me after a year of talking. I haven't been in a good relationship ever. My current boyfriend is super sweet, but I'm not happy. I don't know how i feel. Can someone help?

[zenzi]

I have had a crush on one of my best friends for a few months. He asked me out 2 days ago, and we started dating. I felt like i always wanted this, but I'm not happy.. I still like him but i don't just don't like the way this feels. I have only been in 2 other "relationships", the first one i was only 8 and my "boyfriend" was 13. He "touched" me and afterwards he moved away. The second one cheated on me after a year of talking. I haven't been in a good relationship ever. My current boyfriend is super sweet, but I'm not happy. I don't know how i feel. Can someone help?

its very understandable, everyone is always more tentative in relationships when they've had bad experience/s.
you might have something called transference, which basically means that you might of had a bad experience with someone (especially from childhood) may be redirected to someone else unconsciously, by either looks etc.
but if thats not the case, and youre sure that there isn't anything 'wrong' with him, its just a case of waiting. you have just been going out for like much less then a week, so it might be a lil hard getting used to it. don't blame yourself though, its totally reasonable to feel unhappy, you just have to think about the possible positive times y'all will have.

[mouse?]

I have had a crush on one of my best friends for a few months. He asked me out 2 days ago, and we started dating. I felt like i always wanted this, but I'm not happy.. I still like him but i don't just don't like the way this feels. I have only been in 2 other "relationships", the first one i was only 8 and my "boyfriend" was 13. He "touched" me and afterwards he moved away. The second one cheated on me after a year of talking. I haven't been in a good relationship ever. My current boyfriend is super sweet, but I'm not happy. I don't know how i feel. Can someone help?

its very understandable, everyone is always more tentative in relationships when they've had bad experience/s.
you might have something called transference, which basically means that you might of had a bad experience with someone (especially from childhood) may be redirected to someone else subconsciously, by either looks etc.
but if thats not the case, and youre sure that there isn't anything 'wrong' with him, its just a case of waiting. you have just been going out for like much less then a week, so it might be a lil hard getting used to it. don't blame yourself though, its totally reasonable to feel unhappy, you just have to think about the possible positive times y'all will have.

Thank you c:

[Tamriel]

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months now ^^, and he is a senior whos headed off to college. He said that he might go to a college thats kind of far, if not out of the state.. which is where problems kick in. He said he doesn't want to have to go through the stress, and everything else about distant relationships cause he doesn't want to wait every couple of months. Its just... if we do break up.. and if he does end up leaving to go off to college..... what then? How should I deal with the fact of knowing he will go one day and soon we will have to break up..?