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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby fiirstcrush » Wed Sep 28, 2016 8:10 am

//sigh
time for this stuff to happen AGAIN :')

Ok, So I am happily dating a boy, Lets call him A. And We have been dating for 3 months going on 4 soon <3 But, I feel like something is wrong. He is shy, I am shy. Now I understand the explaination I have been getting ex: "Oh darling you're just more mature than him <3"
etc. but no matter how much I hear this, I still feel like something is wrong

We have hugged many times, but if I hug him, its a full hug from me, a half hug from him, We have never kissed (I don't plan to anyway lol.) and we never held hands, Just thought I should mention that + the whole half hug thing

Ok, To the real problem.

I feel like he doesn't really like me, If that makes sense, I feel like he only said yes to me asking him out because he felt pressured to, which I didn't want, But when I am around him, he seems tense, like im about to grab a pan and smack him, and he rarely responds to my texts, Is something wrong? or is he just shy

Im sorry for me overreacting and writing this whole paragraph xD
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby WastedSpace » Wed Sep 28, 2016 10:15 am

Wildflower Rain wrote://sigh
time for this stuff to happen AGAIN :')

Ok, So I am happily dating a boy, Lets call him A. And We have been dating for 3 months going on 4 soon <3 But, I feel like something is wrong. He is shy, I am shy. Now I understand the explaination I have been getting ex: "Oh darling you're just more mature than him <3"
etc. but no matter how much I hear this, I still feel like something is wrong

We have hugged many times, but if I hug him, its a full hug from me, a half hug from him, We have never kissed (I don't plan to anyway lol.) and we never held hands, Just thought I should mention that + the whole half hug thing

Ok, To the real problem.

I feel like he doesn't really like me, If that makes sense, I feel like he only said yes to me asking him out because he felt pressured to, which I didn't want, But when I am around him, he seems tense, like im about to grab a pan and smack him, and he rarely responds to my texts, Is something wrong? or is he just shy

Im sorry for me overreacting and writing this whole paragraph xD


Have you actually talked to him about this? No relationship can work without open and honest communication; this means you guys need to talk to each other rather than going around to everyone else trying to figure each other out. ;3
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby koumei » Wed Sep 28, 2016 10:57 am


I actually don't have any person of interest now.
I think I just screw up everything lol;;
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby fiirstcrush » Wed Sep 28, 2016 1:19 pm

WastedSpace wrote:-snip-


Have you actually talked to him about this? No relationship can work without open and honest communication; this means you guys need to talk to each other rather than going around to everyone else trying to figure each other out. ;3[/quote]
Yep, I tried two times


1; face-to-face he just shrugged it off
2; on text, never responded
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby ⭐stargirl.⭐ » Wed Sep 28, 2016 1:35 pm

so.. theres a guy i like who is 2 grades ahead of me.. we notice eachother often, looking at eachother and often running into eachother i the hallway.. but he doesnt know i like him.. and i feel he would be creeped out if i told him i did.. idk what to do.. im so confused on what to do when it comes to making moves in relationships or talking to crushes.. i honestly like alot of guys at my school lol.. mainly all of them are 1 to 2 grades ahead of me and some of them are in my grade.. im stressed out.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby regular; » Wed Sep 28, 2016 2:00 pm

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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby avaloafe » Wed Sep 28, 2016 2:07 pm

      so i'm pretty sure me and my crush both like eachother, and to my excitement,
      everything is going smoothly with us. we are still practically best friends, but
      i don't think he wants to take it up next level. today during lunch, he was talking
      with his other guy friends saying how they were going to go stag to homecoming,
      which got me pretty bummed out. i really want to go to homecoming with him
      and take it up, but sadly i don't think he wants to anytime soon. i mean that's
      fine with me, i'm just disappointed. i will wait, i don't mind and i am going with
      him and the guys, but not really "together" together. •~•
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby kittykore » Thu Sep 29, 2016 4:18 am

How do you know if you have a crush on someone of the same gender I don't want to give any info until I'm sure if I do.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby caf. » Thu Sep 29, 2016 5:05 am

MimiBitz wrote:How do you know if you have a crush on someone of the same gender I don't want to give any info until I'm sure if I do.

it's a tough thing, but you've kinda gotta consider everything you're feeling. how do you feel when you think about, say, kissing, holding hands with, going on dates with, etc. this person? does it make you happy? excited? if you've already experienced attraction to another gender, compare; it might be different, but often a lot of the sensations are very similar. consider whether you'd be okay marrying someone of your gender; does that mean a happy ending for you?
ultimately, it's up to you to decide what your feelings are, but often examining your fantasies and thoughts can be a great help in deciding your attractions.
if i were to describe my attraction, i'd say that i spend much more time thinking about that person than i do anyone else. i fabtasize about them like man, and those fantasies are very pleasing and i quite enjoy them. i often find myself thinking about what my life would be like if i spent it with them. as well being touched in any manner by them brings me great joy. perhaps i don't get as nervous around them, perhaps, but that's namely because i'm very prone to falling for close friends. around them i feel happier and more affectionate, and just generally appreciate their company.
attraction is different for everyone, and can even vary within a person. if you'd like to pm me, feel free to do so! best of luck <3
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby regular; » Thu Sep 29, 2016 12:15 pm

i think my crush of two years is losing interest in me and it's honestly killing me inside. I'm more depressed than ever, and even other people are starting to "ship" us with other people, which is so hard for me because everyone's shipped us since forever. Even worse? They're shipping him with my best friend, who happens to like him. A lot. Like honestly almost as much as I do.

he says he still likes me, which is most likely true, but that doesn't mean he doesn't have second feelings for another person.

god help :cry:
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