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[ghostie✞]

Alright so I need some new advice :c

currently, I don't have any classes or lunches with my crush. so i can't talk to them, right? well they ride my bus (both afternoon and morning so far) and i want to approach them and talk. They sit all alone up in the front, and I feel like they're lonely, but I don't know how to ask them to sit in the back with my friends and i ,because I'm a nervous, awkward, wreck tbh. how should I talk to them? (I'm also not the best conversation starter)

[Rising]

I found out that my crush likes me back a few months ago, but I'm absolutely TERRIFIED of asking him out. What should I do to solve this problem?

While I've never asked someone out, when I'm faced with something terrifying I usually motivate myself by thinking about how much I'll regret not doing it. I imagine how I'll feel going home that day having missed my chance, then how I'll feel in the more long-term future if I was to never get another chance. If the regret will be more painful than the action itself, that's usually enough to propell me into doing it. Have you tried this approach?
Good luck! You can do this!

[mikami]

Alright so I need some new advice :c

currently, I don't have any classes or lunches with my crush. so i can't talk to them, right? well they ride my bus (both afternoon and morning so far) and i want to approach them and talk. They sit all alone up in the front, and I feel like they're lonely, but I don't know how to ask them to sit in the back with my friends and i ,because I'm a nervous, awkward, wreck tbh. how should I talk to them? (I'm also not the best conversation starter)

i would just say smth like "hey, do u wanna sit with us?" and see where it goes

if they say yeah then just be urself!! if ur friends know u like them u can ask beforehand if they
avoid bringing it up (the topic of crushes)

or u could sit w/ them one day and tell ur friends beforehand!
i hope this helped a little bit ;v;

[MyGoldfish]

I'm a freshmen and there's this really cute guy in my foods class
and it seems like he really draws attention to himself when I'm there
like today when i walked in he shouted "there she is!" and then came up and said hi :')
but it seems like the girls in the class hate me because he talks to me. They try so hard to get his attention but they get too caught up in it and get annoying you know?
I'm really new to there area so I'm not familiar with him or who he hangs around but any suggestions on how to become friends with him?

Well, when he says hi to you, make small talk and strike up a conversation. Find likes, dislikes, music preferences, etc. And it is SO obvious that the girls are jealous of you, so don't mind ten! Be the better person and don't talk to them or listing to any of their insults, if any. Good luck!

[WastedSpace]

Soooo... Theres this guy. I get the butterflies when I see him. Ughhhh he is so sweet and perfect! I don't know what to do about it. He is a skater and he is really funny and nice but I don't talk to him. I am friends with all his friends but not him. All his friends tell me to get to know him and he might like me but everytime I want to talk to him I chicken out.. We both have 1st lunch (Thank god) And he sat by me a few days ago but i didn't say anything to him, in fact i stopped eating because i didn't want him to see me eating. But here is where it turns bad. He got a girlfriend! I don't know her but she goes to a different school far away. I don't know how long they will last and i think he knows i like him. Guys any help? ( Oh to imagine what he looks like.....) He is tall with black hair and pretty green and blue eyes, Always wears a jacket and smells really good!

Well, for now you've lost your chance to date him. So now might be a good time to figure out how to actually talk with him. If you do get another chance with him, you're going to need to be able to talk to him. Maybe try some breathing exercises to calm yourself so you can actually speak to him and be his friend.

Also, please don't starve yourself for any reason, but especially not a guy. You're human. You're alive. You eat. If he can't deal with that, then he's a jerk. So eat. You need food. So eat.

Alright so I need some new advice :c

currently, I don't have any classes or lunches with my crush. so i can't talk to them, right? well they ride my bus (both afternoon and morning so far) and i want to approach them and talk. They sit all alone up in the front, and I feel like they're lonely, but I don't know how to ask them to sit in the back with my friends and i ,because I'm a nervous, awkward, wreck tbh. how should I talk to them? (I'm also not the best conversation starter)

A good start would be to sit with them for a ride. Before they/you get off, you can mention they're welcome to join you and the rest of your friends in the back. Then the next few times, sit with your friends and see if they join you.

[Youngalita]

So this guy told me that he liked me. Then I told him that I liked him back. The problem is that we have nothing in common and it's a bit hard to make conversation with him.

[spirit • daydream]

So this guy told me that he liked me. Then I told him that I liked him back. The problem is that we have nothing in common and it's a bit hard to make conversation with him.

How about you guys try to do things together and then you might find at least one thing you both have interest in? It worked for a friend of mine and they are able to talk about a lot of things now...

Sorry I'm not much help

[Karia]

Back from school!

Some minor stuff happened between A, my crush, and I. Firstly, I was arranging some products for our class stall when he stood next to me after the teacher told him something and said something like,"Don't spoil my volcanoessss." It wasn't reprimanding in any way, and his right arm was next to mine I could feel it haha and he doesn't move at all.

and o we had 2 seconds of eye contact yesterday

Oh, and other more minor things happened to, but I'm too lazy to type them out right now.

Edit;; idk why, but I think he's makes more inappropriate jokes around me :P

[Rising]

So this guy told me that he liked me. Then I told him that I liked him back. The problem is that we have nothing in common and it's a bit hard to make conversation with him.

If you have nothing in common why were you attracted to each other in the first place?
It sounds like you haven't spent much time talking to him yet, so I'd be very surprised if you have literally nothing in common. Have you gone through taste in film, music, literature, art etc? Discussed each other's views on world issues? (Debating could be a great way to get to know each other even if you completely disagree.) Talked about each other's views on shared experiences, like if you go to the same school you could talk about some upcoming event there?
Then you could try some activities together that neither of you have done before so that you're going on a journey together.

[witchypuppy]

sometimes i wonder if my ex likes me again
i'm probably just taking things for more than they are
i don't like them anymore so it would be awkward...