♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[tuesdaysart]

Before we even have dated for a month, the so called guy of my dreams broke up with me because he fell in love with someone else
I guess it was too good to be true to believe that I was even close to being girlfriend material
Update:
After bawling my eyes out and being a Negative Nancy for a few hours, I took care of myself and ultimately decided to love myself instead of relying on a guy to love me
If I find another person, that's great! If not, that's okay because I'll have myself to supply me with validation instead of being overly dependent on someone who may not always be there
It may be hard sometimes and I might relapse into my self destructive behaviour at times, but I must love myself before I love someone else if I'm not going to get hurt again

[.izzy ♡]

aaaa I'm sorry if I'm off topic. I'm just too scared to ask anyone about it because I fear that rumors will come out. anyways, during the first few weeks of school, I made lots of friends. and one of them were named Alice and she's really nice! Then I met her cousin who was a football player who was named Jack and his friend who was named Louis. We got along and joked around a lot and Jack and Louis usually calls me by a funny nickname which of course I don't really mind. And then Louis would sometimes bring up out of nowhere thins like: "The only reason why you knew that is because you like her" whenever he guesses something right about me. And then one time during lunch he was spinning a bottle and then Louis would be like "Are you playing Spin The Bottle?" "Let me help you out here" and then he would purposely point the bottle towards me and Jack. (I honestly don't know why I'm making a big deal out of this). And then one time Louis would tease Jack by saying he has a secret and which person he thought was hot in front of me, Alice, and this other girl I knew when I was talking to them. Anyways I'm not sure if he liked me and I have more details but I don't wanna ruin people's time haha.

[hollyglow]

Ah, I'm so happy. My mom got my crush's phone number from his mom, because they're friends. I gave him a note in a code, telling him I liked him...but he never figured it out. However, apparently for the first two thirds of the summer, he was carrying the note around in his phone case...which I find really unreasonably adorable. So, a couple daye later I texted him asking how his summer had been, we talked for a bit, and then he asked what the note said. I replied, saying it said that I liked him, because he was awesome! And that I knew it sounded silly, but that I thought he was a really amazing person. He replied with, "Don"t forget you are, too, you know." So that was amazing. Then he said he had to go and texted a picture of his grandparent's garden, saying he thought I might like it. Then two days later he texted again and we talked some more. I just am so happy I can contact him, since he goes to a different school now. Oh, and apparently he told my brother (who goes to the same school) that my brother looks just like me but with different hair. Which I found quite sweet. I don't know. He's just...wonderful. And our families might hang out this weekend so I might get to see him.

Excuse my hyperactive rant, I'm just really happy.

[regular;]

so me and this guy have liked each other for 2 years now. It only got serious on the last day of school before summer 2016. He started hugging me and saying cute pick-up lines. For example, he touched my arm and said "Ouch!" and I said "What?" and he said "You're so hot". So that was amazing. After all that, he still doesn't want to date for some reason, which I don't really care about, but now my friend is trying to get us together. She texted me saying "*my crush* is your bf. You're now dating" and she texted him the same thing. Now I'm desperate for him to ask me out, so I've been doing everything I can. I'm trying to make him jealous (which is working because he's admitting he is, but still won't ask me out.) I've even made the "I'm single so technically I can like/date whoever I want" excuse. Multiple. Times. I'm starting to think the reason he won't ask is because he's slowly losing interest or likes someone else. Sigh.

[Karia]

Does this mean anything?

This Wednesday, some people were tasked to give a speech in front of the whole class. And there was one speaker that was so quiet that some of us (including my crush, A, and I) went to sit down right in front of him. He finished and we stayed there to listen to another one, this time a girl that I've actually suspected that he likes. Or either, they're friends.

So, A probably went to the toilet or something and came back when she was speaking. He stood near the table behind me, and I looked back as I sensed something there. I was kinda annoyed at that time because of a rather unpopular (not that I have anything against her) girl doing something. A moment after I looked back at A, he went forward and stood beside the table that was next to me. He was swinging his foot (like, his leg was still and the foot was rotating), making it bump into my left knee. He didn't seem to really care that he was doing that and did it a few time before I nudged his leg with my fist. XD

He then said,"What?"

I don't remember what I said, but it was something like,"Your foot's bumping into me."

He didn't say anything and actually kinda continued it, heh. It wasn't long before he sat down in front (not directly) of me. His hand actually touched my knee or foot accidentally again (I moved to the front a little), but I don't think he said anything.

So... that's it.

Best way to know if it meant a vague something is to ask him.

Touching you a lot would seem to indicate he's interesting in something besides friendship, but none of us can read his mind or speak for him. Maybe he's just physically friendly or maybe he found it amusing.

Thank you for answering

He's also gone to my table before and talked with me. He kinda says weird stuff when he walks near my table too (last Thursday, he said something about Jamaica?). And he complimented my poem, which is probably something rare :I

o it's so weird

[Constellation.]

So my good friend and I were snapchatting and I was bored so I asked for drawing ideas. He sent a snap of himself doing a slightly goofy face and said to draw that. I was like, what the heck, and drew it. I snapped him today asking if he wants a pic or in person and I'll probably get a reply tomorrow since it's late. However, if he says in person, how do I tell him I don't want anyone else to see it? Can I just say that? The reason is I don't want anyone getting the idea I like him (especially because I do), one of my friends already has her suspicions. And I can't tell him the real reason because I don't want to make him think I do/don't like him. Thanks for any advice!

[betelgeuse]

i'd like a pm if that's possible. i've been feeling kind of sad over the past few weeks.

[Apyrisol]

So there's this girl that I've liked for a long time and I know she likes me back but she has a BF... Should I wait to see how their relationship goes or not?

[SilentMelody]

okay, I seriously need some help getting over my ex-boyfriend.

honestly, over the past few weeks, all I've been doing is crying over him and playing it off like I'm okay.

I don't understand why it should be so hard because we broke up about two months ago, but during our relationship (which was 7 months long), he would break up with me often for odd reasons. sometimes, he'd like another girl and break up with me to try to go after them, only coming back to me when he realized that they didn't like me.

our last breakup was the definite end. only, that time I broke up with him. I lied by giving him the excuse that I just wanted a relationship where we saw each other more often (because he was giving me excuses about why we couldn't hang out all the time), but the real reason was that a friend of mine told me he liked someone else so I was scared he liked her more than me.

they started dating the day after we broke up, and it hurt me because he had moved on so quickly, but they only dated for a few days.

I talked with him a little until he blocked me on social media and my number on his phone.

now, he has a new girlfriend, and I'm jealous of them because I want that to be me with him instead of her.

what do I do? I'm so torn.

gosh, I'm such an over emotional wreck...

[~IronRose~]

The thought of her makes me smile...why am I getting attached so quickly?