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[Elix]

Hey

I think i got myself in a complicated situation. So i would like some advice. Thank you . So one of my close friends ( iam gonna call her A) has this brother. And she hates him, not just the occasional hate that most siblings have but really can't stand her brother. And i have a huge crush on him. He is so sweet and really smart and he is the only one i can really have a discussion with withou actually getting mad at eachother. I love it. Whenever i hang out with A i see him but she always comes up with an excuse for leaving so we don't have to be in the same room as him. I am so afraid that she will hate me when i tell her i like her brother. And iam afraid that she will do everything to make sure i don't get to talk to him anymore.

Thank you so much for anyone who responds.

[Keletheryl]

Perks of having a boyfriend with good money:
I lost my job and have been having a lot of troubles finding a new one. I'm on Employement Insurance (so I get paid every two weeks by them) but $500 every two weeks isn't really enough.. I just got about $400 from my boyfriend to use for my car insurance and gas <3
(Don't worry, he's getting paid back after I get paid again on Tuesday lol).

But I just find it so wonderful that he's even willing to do that for me... there's a lot of people out there who wouldn't give somebody $400 and wait 4 days to get it back. I'm so thankful.

[global concepts]

anyone have advice for keeping a long distance relationship? my boyfriend left for college yesterday, we're only 1 hour away, but im not going to get to see him that much, and ive been crying ever since. )':

[radiantly]

anyone have advice for keeping a long distance relationship? my boyfriend left for college yesterday, we're only 1 hour away, but im not going to get to see him that much, and ive been crying ever since. )':

you've got to trust him mad he's got to trust you. Keep faith in the relationship and do everything you can to make it work, unless your heart isn't in it any longer. Try to talk as often as you can but also keep his schedule and your life in mind. Make plans whenever you can and just try to cut each other some slack, it's not easy. Good luck! <3

[~Alice]

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Why did he have to hug me? I can't properly explain how it happened but it did. We'd finished at the centre at the same time and when he found out that I was going to be walking home he offered me a lift home. The conversation in the car was slightly awkward and we were quiet most of the way, we usually talk non-stop. J dropping me off at my house was out of the way for him (he lives in another town and doesn't really know his way around where I live) and something he didn't have to do. We got to my house and as I was about to get out of the car he asked me to wait. He looked at me and just said 'hug' so I hugged him. You're probably thinking this is normal but we don't usually touch each other? When I asked why he told me that he likes hugs.

I don’t know. I really really don’t know. I don’t know how I’d feel if he does like me. I don’t know how I’d feel if he asked me out or something. I don’t even know if I like him. All I know is that he’s been one of the few people who’ve unknowingly helped me through the past couple of months. He doesn’t know how much happier he has made me and how I appreciate every single piece of advice he’s given me. We’re not even close but for that half a day I can completely forget about everything that’s been going on. The anxiety. Being diagnosed with autism. Medication. Exams and then the results. The loneliness and isolation.

It's unlikely that I'll see him again after next week so I'm enjoying the time I've got left with him...

[Shiny Sylveon]

Anyone out there who really cares about someone, but can't tell if you have a crush on them? o.o I love my best friend dearly, but I have no idea anymore, my feelings have always been out of whack. -.- Even if they asked me out, I wouldn't know how to respond. Heh, but maybe I'm a weirdo. :p

[bunny fluff]

Anyone out there who really cares about someone, but can't tell if you have a crush on them? o.o I love my best friend dearly, but I have no idea anymore, my feelings have always been out of whack. -.- Even if they asked me out, I wouldn't know how to respond. Heh, but maybe I'm a weirdo. :p


I know just how you feel ^^
I kept going back and forth between liking my best friend and not liking him and for a while I was super confused if I even had feelings for him. i felt exactly the way you're describing. we've recently started dating though so I guess we did like each other xD

Not sure if I'm any help just letting you know that I can relate ;)

[Johnny Stevens]

|| woot woot Junior year been single most of my life and out of the blue one of the new kids that moved here and is like a solid 10/10 wants to have my phone number and go to a concert what is happening? idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ill just go with it though!! if all else I can just become a socially awkward-ish basement emo known as Coroner.

[total solitude]

Hey

I think i got myself in a complicated situation. So i would like some advice. Thank you . So one of my close friends ( iam gonna call her A) has this brother. And she hates him, not just the occasional hate that most siblings have but really can't stand her brother. And i have a huge crush on him. He is so sweet and really smart and he is the only one i can really have a discussion with withou actually getting mad at eachother. I love it. Whenever i hang out with A i see him but she always comes up with an excuse for leaving so we don't have to be in the same room as him. I am so afraid that she will hate me when i tell her i like her brother. And iam afraid that she will do everything to make sure i don't get to talk to him anymore.

Thank you so much for anyone who responds.

hey there!

take my advice with a grain of salt because i don't know how your friend will react, but i think the best way is to tell her. tell her how you feel about her brother. it is better for her to know straight from your mouth than to figure it out by somehow catching you and her brother together more often than not. honesty is the best policy in this situation. if you're too nervous to do it in person, do it over text message. whatever happens, at least you got it off your chest! some people (like me) have difficulty with that kind of brave-ness. i believe in you! ♥

|| woot woot Junior year been single most of my life and out of the blue one of the new kids that moved here and is like a solid 10/10 wants to have my phone number and go to a concert what is happening? idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ill just go with it though!! if all else I can just become a socially awkward-ish basement emo known as Coroner.

congratulations! i would so go with what is going on right now. in my opinion, someone who wants to take you to a concert is such a keeper. music is a really powerful thing, you know? whatever happens with you and this 10/10 kid, i wish you all the best luck! ♥

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Why did he have to hug me? I can't properly explain how it happened but it did. We'd finished at the centre at the same time and when he found out that I was going to be walking home he offered me a lift home. The conversation in the car was slightly awkward and we were quiet most of the way, we usually talk non-stop. J dropping me off at my house was out of the way for him (he lives in another town and doesn't really know his way around where I live) and something he didn't have to do. We got to my house and as I was about to get out of the car he asked me to wait. He looked at me and just said 'hug' so I hugged him. You're probably thinking this is normal but we don't usually touch each other? When I asked why he told me that he likes hugs.

I don’t know. I really really don’t know. I don’t know how I’d feel if he does like me. I don’t know how I’d feel if he asked me out or something. I don’t even know if I like him. All I know is that he’s been one of the few people who’ve unknowingly helped me through the past couple of months. He doesn’t know how much happier he has made me and how I appreciate every single piece of advice he’s given me. We’re not even close but for that half a day I can completely forget about everything that’s been going on. The anxiety. Being diagnosed with autism. Medication. Exams and then the results. The loneliness and isolation.

It's unlikely that I'll see him again after next week so I'm enjoying the time I've got left with him...

before you read this, i want you to do something for me. i want you to take a deep breath and hold it in for a few seconds, and then let it go smoothly.

alright, let's start. j offered you a ride home when you were going to walk. that's awesome! most boys would never ever offer a girl something like that unless they cared about them on a higher level than friendship. don't dwell on the awkwardness, alice. it's okay. conversations in that setting aren't always fit to be super exciting and filled. it''s completely fine. as for the hug, i think that was a real hint for something! if you two don't really touch and he went in for something that requires a huge portion of the body. i think that should be a red, gigantic, blaring horn. j makes you happy, and you deserve that happiness more than anything. i'm sure he might be catching on to that, but slowly. j drove you home in an unknown area way out of his way, and he also gave you a hug. that most definitely means he cares about you, whether it be as an actual person or a friend. maybe even something more. i believe what you should do in this situation and is grateful for him and everything he has done, and allow the thoughts of him to make you happy. like i said earlier, you deserve happiness. don't let anything take that away from you. keep those people, those doubts, and those ugly thoughts out of the picture. i believe in you, alice. i'm sure j does, too. ♥

[ĸιndle]

Soooooooooo....
My friend(N) said they needed to talk to me privately after school next week and i think they might ask me out. That's great news. But, I like this other guy(A). What I'm worried about is if I get into a nice relationship with N, what if A, (who I have liked for about a year), says he likes me?

WHY ME, BOYS???