♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[skunkiii]

I want to love somebody and have somebody love me. I want to hug and watch films and eat junk food with somebody I love but I haven't got anybody. I'm weird and no guys like me. I'm too desperate, I should value my time being single but I've never had a relationship and it's lonely...

Shhh. I feel the same way. lonely... I want to enjoy being single but I also want to fall in love and have the things other people in relationships do. But you're not weird, you're unique and a boy should see you and love you for who you are. I have to keep telling myself that, because I'm a bookworm and I game sometimes, and no boys seem to like female bookworms and gamers these days, all they care about are those 'perfect' girls (not perfect to us, but perfect to them). No boys seem to have liked me since fifth grade (at least to my knowledge, which is limited) so you're not alone there, but the right person will come. Also, I have really liked a boy for nearly two years now. I think he felt the same way, as he asked me to watch some movies with him, but he got a girlfriend so I was rejected. either way, he's not my type, but i still like him, even when i see him with his girlfriend. I know we will both find the right person one day. It'll be fine <3

I feel you guys too. I'm here like, look at my username. it says it all.. i want someone who is close and someone I can connect with easily, but it just doesn't work out for me..

[knifekind]

liking boys is so stressful why can't i just,,, Eject my feelings yikes

[Firedancer77]

liking boys is so stressful why can't i just,,, Eject my feelings yikes

man can I sympathize. I would love to have an eject button feelings.

[GONEXX]

I met a girl at thhe pool and every week we saw eachother there -,- so I told her I had a crush on her and she said im pretty cute But After Awhile we started dating and I realised she was a cheater idk what to do with my self? Did I do somethig wrong..?

[SilentMelody]

I met a girl at thhe pool and every week we saw eachother there -,- so I told her I had a crush on her and she said im pretty cute But After Awhile we started dating and I realised she was a cheater idk what to do with my self? Did I do somethig wrong..?

it may just be one of her tendencies...it probably has nothing to do with you, and she just likes many people at a time. it happens a lot, which is why people cheat.

[Kazin]

Over the summer, I had a co-worker whom I worked with, obviously, and I thought we had an almost thing going on, but I really don't know what was happening/is happening My big problem right now is I have no way to contact him; he's never on Facebook, has no cell phone, and has no other form of social media. And towards the end of my job I thought he may have liked a different person and he kind of stopped hanging out with me.

Anyway, so here's how this all went down. We didn't actually hang out a lot until one weekend near the end of our working summer. I don't remember which day went first, but on one of the occasions, he took me and two of our other friends to a waterfall near where we worked (it was probably a 20 minute or so drive). Nothing extraordinary happened, except he realllllly wanted me to go. I was content just waiting at camp and taking a nap after a tiring week, but he convinced me to go eventually.

At the falls, also nothing extraordinary happened. Basically I just got to hang out with him for the first time, really. Got to know him better. He's a super outgoing, friendly, kind of goofy guy who everyone thinks is gay but he isn't. (at least as far as he's told anyone).

So then jump to later that day... A collective group of us went out to an ice cream place. Had ice cream, hung out a while, all fine and dandy. So on the way back, he puts his hand over mine for like 5 seconds, and then removes it like nothing happened. He did it again a few minutes later, but again only for a few seconds.
When we got back, we all went to watch a movie. I went to the top bunk, where he was also sitting on an adjacent mattress. (there are basically two bunks perpendicular to each other, nearly touching mattresses). We laid down, watched the movie, and somewhere in the middle he grabbed the tips of my fingers with his own, and yet again this only lasted 5 seconds or so.

During the course of the next week, he was always around me, and I around him. We didn't do anything except hug, because we work with kids and PDA isn't allowed. (and I wouldn't have shown PDA anyway, since it's not like we were actually dating). But I felt like he liked me a lot, and had developed feelings for him as well.

Jump ahead to a week later, a group of us went to the mall to do an adventure thing. He really didn't say much to me the whole trip and I tried to talk to him. I didn't know what to think. I still don't know what to think. I might have come on too clingy for him, or maybe I don't talk enough for his liking (I'm super quiet in a one on one situation. He did take me to the falls one more time but I never really worked up the courage to ask him what I wanted to. It was supposed to be with other people anyway).

But yeah, that's off my chest now I still like him, whether or not I see him again before Christmas might make things complicated. But I guess that is my summer crush story!

[bunny fluff]

I need some advice.
okay so.. I've known this one guy for about 3 years. I used to have the biggest crush on him for the longest time, and he used to like me at some point. I no longer do and he's told me that he didn't like me either. We're still best friends and we're super close. He basically considers me his little sister but we're the same age.

Latley though he's been saying stuff like I'm beautiful and he called me cute. I don't know how to react to this..

It sounds like he's developed a crush. But boys are boys and say things to mess with your head sometimes I say watch your back. Give it a little time. I feel like this doesn't help at all but it's my opinion

I very much disagree with this. 'boys are boys' is no real answer at all and a terrible excuse.

Honestly, he may not exactly know how he feels. Maybe he lost interest. Maybe you are just familiar to him and he feels really comfortable and even affectionate with you. Maybe he is starting to 'like' you again. There is really no way for us to know.

I've talked to him and he said it seems we both like each other but won't admit it. I guess that's true, but I don't ever see us together. I don't really know how I feel about him I guess..

[the trickster]

So, I have this girlfriend who I've been dating for a while now, were almost at our year anniversary. But now, her best friend, who is also a guy, has asked her out and she's mad at me for falling asleep during a movie we were watching. I'm sort of scared to lose her. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't really know what to do now, since she's mad at me and she has a chance to be with someone else. Should I even worry about it?

[WastedSpace]

So, I have this girlfriend who I've been dating for a while now, were almost at our year anniversary. But now, her best friend, who is also a guy, has asked her out and she's mad at me for falling asleep during a movie we were watching. I'm sort of scared to lose her. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't really know what to do now, since she's mad at me and she has a chance to be with someone else. Should I even worry about it?

If she leaves you because she got mad at you once, it doesn't sound like a very stable relationship.

Has she said she wants to leave you? Did she hide the fact that this friend asked her out? Did she tell this friend yes or maybe or even that she'd think about it? Is she using you - she just wants to be in a relationship no matter with who? Tbh, I'm not sure why this is something you're worried about.

[the trickster]

So, I have this girlfriend who I've been dating for a while now, were almost at our year anniversary. But now, her best friend, who is also a guy, has asked her out and she's mad at me for falling asleep during a movie we were watching. I'm sort of scared to lose her. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't really know what to do now, since she's mad at me and she has a chance to be with someone else. Should I even worry about it?

If she leaves you because she got mad at you once, it doesn't sound like a very stable relationship.

Has she said she wants to leave you? Did she hide the fact that this friend asked her out? Did she tell this friend yes or maybe or even that she'd think about it? Is she using you - she just wants to be in a relationship no matter with who? Tbh, I'm not sure why this is something you're worried about.

I'm worried because they are extremely close. My girlfriend is basically all I've got, since I lost my ex girlfriend a year ago. She dumped me for a guy, which broke my heart, so I'm scared to lose her, too. She said he asked her out, and when I asked her if she was going to, she looked at the ground and didn't say anything. When I tried to question her, she brought more things up, which made me mad. Finally, she convinced me to watch the movie and I fell asleep because I had barely slept the previous night. So that's the story behind that, and why I'm worried about it.