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[Candycornnn]

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[Toy Dragon]

I just...uh have a question...

So I have a couple of guys which sort of 'stare/glance' or 'look' at me...my crush gives me a confused/shocked/happy look, looking for 3 secs when he thinks I'm not looking. Most of the time, he seems to give a nice look and i am doing nothing in particular...he also seems to just talk to me randomly, as if trying to start a conversation..but i kinda just give him a short answer and get back to what i was doing before. (Porbably because I get sorta shy when he actually does talk to me.)The other guys keep...sort of...uh...look at me and aren't really showing any expression at all...and we kind if lock eyes for 2 secs and then he looks away. I sort of take a bit to process what happened...and then get back to what I was doing.
Sometimes, guys tease me since when I get mad or annoyed, my face gets all hot and red...and that also happens sometimes when I get shy...but it practically always happens when I get pissed. So guys tease me because they think I like a guy which I dislike...

So do I do anything and are they signs of having a crush one me or liking me? Or are they staring at me because I am a complete weirdo?

This is impossible to read, just so you know.

I don't think eye contact is as reliable an indicator of romantic interest as everyone seems to think it is. Why not start some conversations? If you have a crush on a guy, outright ask him how he feels about you so you can stop wondering about it and reading into little signals that may or may not actually be

Oh! Sorry for the size...

But thanks for the help! Well, I have talked to him before and he kinda I guess...'enjoys' it and when it's over, he just gets sortaqueut...when my friends and I play a ball game or something, he always trys to take it and interrupt but I think that that's just because he wants to have a bit of fun...but I don't really want to ask how he feels about me because I think I am quite young, and I am way too chicken to ask...
I just wanted to ask, vut my friend wrote a note to my crush to ask if he likes me, and he wrote no in big bold letters with an exclaimation mark...and according to my firend, it means he might like me. But I don't think that's true, because why depend on someones writing?
So...yeah...
(Can anyone maybe tell me the indicators for a dude liking you? : / )

[Casistrophic]

The indicators for a dude liking you are you asking if he likes you and him saying yes. Honestly, at your age you can't really read signals because what will be one guy's "I like you" signals will be another guy's "I don't like you" signals.

Its like ripping off a bandaid. The anticipation sucks, but it ends up being so much more painless than the slow peel.

[Toy Dragon]

The indicators for a dude liking you are you asking if he likes you and him saying yes. Honestly, at your age you can't really read signals because what will be one guy's "I like you" signals will be another guy's "I don't like you" signals.

Its like ripping off a bandaid. The anticipation sucks, but it ends up being so much more painless than the slow peel.

Oh, ok! Thank you Casistriphic! I think I get it now...but I think I might wait until I'm older and pour out my feelings on a peice if paoer, just to throw it away...ah well...I guess I am a chicken... (*Chicken sounds*)

[Casistrophic]

The indicators for a dude liking you are you asking if he likes you and him saying yes. Honestly, at your age you can't really read signals because what will be one guy's "I like you" signals will be another guy's "I don't like you" signals.

Its like ripping off a bandaid. The anticipation sucks, but it ends up being so much more painless than the slow peel.

Oh, ok! Thank you Casistriphic! I think I get it now...but I think I might wait until I'm older and pour out my feelings on a peice if paoer, just to throw it away...ah well...I guess I am a chicken... (*Chicken sounds*)

Honestly it's so much better to just be straightforward. You have to be able to communicate to be in a relationship, anyway. If my boyfriend had never explicitly told me he was interested in me, I might never have considered him.

[angst]

Hi, I posted on here a while ago and got some advice, but some new things have occurred that I need help on. Okay so a summary. C (for crush) is my very best guy friend. We truly argue like an old married couple and act like best friends. Everyone says or asks us if we are dating. It has gotten to the point where we have started to mark down a tally whenever we are asked if we are dating. (I am glad he is having fun with this. It makes my heart stop when someone asks if we are together because I want us to be together.) Anyways we are really good friends. I just pop up at his house to hang out whenever. On the weekends we spend almost both Saturday and Sunday together (like all day). We watch movies, talk, or play games. Both of our parents trust us completely and don't really care how late we are with one another. He has had dinner with my family at least five times now and I've eaten at his house who knows how many times. Even my parents ask me if are dating yet. It has gotten to the point where even teachers at my school think were are dating and ask wither one of openly if we are. Its a little weird but at the same time it makes me wonder what we are doing for teachers to think we are dating. Anyways so my best girl friend is like our greatest shipper. She just can't wait for the day that we get together (even if that day may not happen). So she's friends with C and asks him questions about who he likes. He told her if I was curious about who he likes I should just ask him and being the cool friend I am I asked him and he became very flustered. He acted like he thought I wasn't going to ask him, but I did... So because we are so close I kept pressing him until he said he did in fact like someone. So I became excited and asked more questions to see if I could figure it out. He never told me but he did say that he won't tell me because of "reasons", "Certain reasons." When I asked what he meant by that he said it was complicated and then started to avoid the questions. He started to grow uncomfortable so I stopped asking him question about who he liked. My girl friend said that he likes me just based on his response. Well I wasn't sure so I asked some of my other girl friends and they said the same thing. However I am still not quite sure.... Some help would be nice. Thank you.

Does he have 'dating experience' or anything like that? Has he been with girls/guys before, in any kind of way? Is he usually flirty and forward with them?

If so, he might not like you and there are actually 'complicated' reasons. If you told your close friends that you like him, he might already know and not want to tell you in fear of hurting your feelings (he may even call it 'complicated' because he likes one of your mutual friends, who knows.) If he's been around the block, most likely he wouldn't hide something so simple as a crush from you, and if he liked you he'd tell you - but then again, you know the guy really well and not I, an internet stranger.

...Buuut if he doesn't have that much of a track record with girls and/or dating, hey! Maybe he likes you! He could've been nervous, shy, or just trying to be dramatic about it. Has he told your friends what he thinks? It might be a good idea to snoop around and see what he says to people other than you about his 'crush.'

Or, if you're feeling daring, why not just ask him casually? While playing video games or whatever, you could just slip in a 'Hey, you know how everyone always thinks were dating?' and open up a conversation about your feelings from there. Or a 'Do you like me, and that's why it's complicated? You don't have to tell me if you don't want too.' but say it in a way that'd make him want to tell you. Y'feel me?

Sometimes boys are so, so hard to read. But if you're as close as you say you are, you should be able to ask him that kinda stuff. Go for it! But try not to get your hopes up. If it turns out he does like someone else, be supportive as best as you can. And icecream and binge-watching Netflix will be there to support you. c;

[Beebs]

Heeheehee I've been throwing him in circles trying to figure out when I might be visiting, but little does he know it's this weekend! c: Ah, I love teasing him.
Perhaps I could make him some brownies after my family thing, because I know he likes them a lot.

[Me?Sarcastic?]

Ok so I have an issue (Obviously). There's this guy I know and I really, REALLY hate him. He is soooo annoying! Example, if you put ever single annoying person you know into one, that's how annoying he is to me. Unfortunatly, he goes to my school, he's in 3 of my 6 classes. Worst of all, some friends of mine who know him a bit better then me say he likes me a LOT. I'm in high school and I don't know what to do. He annoying the heck outa me but they say he really does like me, HELP!

[~Sunburst~]

Couple things...

1- What age do you think is appropriate age to start dating? I've got one year till high school, and younger cousin recently started middle school. We are very close, but ever since she got a new 'boyfriend', that's all she talks about. She will constantly text me updating me where he is or what he's doing. I really can't care less, to be honest. She is turning out to be like a her older sisters. They left our side of the family, one got pregnant in mid high school, and I really don't want her to turn out like that. She is the last one out of three. I really don't want her to turn out like that.

2-As I said before, I am almost in high school. I am more of the 'emo' type , and there are no guys in my school I am remotely interested in that are like. I am worried that there won't be any guys my 'type' in high school when I start. I really would like to date someone in the future, but I don't wanna be a single pringle all through out high school, lol.

[Casistrophic]

Couple things...

1- What age do you think is appropriate age to start dating? I've got one year till high school, and younger cousin recently started middle school. We are very close, but ever since she got a new 'boyfriend', that's all she talks about. She will constantly text me updating me where he is or what he's doing. I really can't care less, to be honest. She is turning out to be like a her older sisters. They left our side of the family, one got pregnant in mid high school, and I really don't want her to turn out like that. She is the last one out of three. I really don't want her to turn out like that.

2-As I said before, I am almost in high school. I am more of the 'emo' type , and there are no guys in my school I am remotely interested in that are like. I am worried that there won't be any guys my 'type' in high school when I start. I really would like to date someone in the future, but I don't wanna be a single pringle all through out high school, lol.

1. I mean, it probably won't kill you to date before middle school, it certainly isn't a one-way road towards teen pregnancy. But, it's middle school. It's not like you will look back on it as a real relationship once you're older. I dated a guy for over a year when I was 14-15 and I barely consider it an actual relationship now that I am an adult.

2. Don't date just for the sake of dating. It's not fair to the guy if he thinks you really like him when really you are just doing it to check off a checklist item in your head. "Don't be single throughout high school, got it." That would be dating for all the wrong reasons.

Realistically speaking, you're not going to be emo forever. Maybe by the time you reach high school, your interests will have shifted and you find someone you're compatible with. Or you might not be, and that's fine. You don't have to date in high school, it really is not a big deal at all and it will seem like a silly thing to have worried so much about in hindsight. Just enjoy the last few years of your childhood and be yourself.