♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[equine.]

Yeah, I don't exactly want to be friends with him anyways after he said that. It's frustrating because today he wore contacts and just stared at me this entire math class but I felt pretty uncomfortable knowing how he seems to only enjoy using people to participate in his twisted thinking. It'd be a good idea to keep away from him right?

Yes, I feel that the best thing you can do is hang around with your close friends and keep away from him as much as possible. You can also tell your good friends about this guy and maybe they can help you confront him XD If he stares at you, just ignore and and pretend he is not there. Or, you can just confront him (probably better over message) about why is he doing this? Like why does he want to hurt you and all that. I'm not saying you should forgive and be friends with him if he tells you the reason, but knowing his intentions are better than not knowing it.

[elizae]

I hate being female sometimes.

So, the kid (We shall call him Bob for the sake of simpleness) is - WAS in all of my classes. In most of them, Bob sat next to me, and I was thrilled. Then the worst thing happened. He told me (and like 5 other people <3) that he was going to a different school, and today was his last day. At the beginning of the school year, I told myself that I would not fall for a guy. Period. Well, look where I am now! Anyways, at about the second week, I wanted to be friends with him. By week 3 we were somewhat friends. That's when the female hormones kicked in. I laughed at all of his jokes, made stupid remarks, and teased Bob, while he did the same. Then, when that dreaded day came, which was about week 5/6, I had a mental break down. Bob told me in second period that he was moving. I was sad, but I didn't let him see. Then came fourth period, where his crush, which was my best friend and she knows, finds out about the leaving. During the whole period her and another friend of mine keep passing me notes begging me to tell Bob about my crush on him. Thank god I had a good way to start it, because the day before he had asked who my crush was. (Talk about awkward.) Of course, in fourth, the teacher gets mad at him, and moves him as far away from me as possible. Great. Then comes 5th period, which is when I tell him. The conversation goes something like this.
"Hey Bob."
"Sup?"
"Soo.. You wanted to know who my crush is?"
"Heck yeah!"
"Don't judge me."
"Fine."
"It's.. Uh.. You."
And then we lapse into an extremely awkward silence. I then ask if the feeling is mutual, and he says "mostly". Now, I don't know if he just didn't want to hurt my feelings or what. For the rest of the period, he stands by me, and at one point he sat next to me, and put his hand on top of mine. I was on Cloud Nine. Then we went through the rest of the day, but of course he had gotten in trouble with the teachers somewhat flirting with me, and was moved. Was this on purpose? I don't know. Finally, the day ends, and my friend who Bob had/has a crush on chants "Kiss! Kiss! Kiss! Or at least hug!" He ended up just saying bye, and he patted my back. Not my bottom, more like my shoulder blades. The next day, which I was hoping that he would be there, saying there was a delay, but he never did come back. It's been a few weeks, and I still can't get over him. My only problem is that I didn't get his number, email, or anything. I tried searching him on FB, but nothing showed. Earlier today though someone said that they had his number. How do I ask? Should I ask? Should I move on?

I felt like ranting about this.

this whole story was kinda sweet c:
definitely ask! just casually, "hey, i was wondering if you had --'s number?" is fine! it sounded like things were going positively between the two of you, so don't move on until you're 100% sure you have no way to contact him. maybe he's feeling the same way? if you really can't find him and it's starting to impact you negatively then just move on and enjoy the memories. good luck!

Thanks, I did end up getting in contact with him. Apparently he never did like me. Not as a crush, or friend. I quote, "You were some kid who I felt pity on."
I now feel fully confident moving on!

[Toy Dragon]

I just...uh have a question...

So I have a couple of guys which sort of 'stare/glance' or 'look' at me...my crush gives me a confused/shocked/happy look, looking for 3 secs when he thinks I'm not looking. Most of the time, he seems to give a nice look and i am doing nothing in particular...he also seems to just talk to me randomly, as if trying to start a conversation..but i kinda just give him a short answer and get back to what i was doing before. (Porbably because I get sorta shy when he actually does talk to me.)The other guys keep...sort of...uh...look at me and aren't really showing any expression at all...and we kind if lock eyes for 2 secs and then he looks away. I sort of take a bit to process what happened...and then get back to what I was doing.
Sometimes, guys tease me since when I get mad or annoyed, my face gets all hot and red...and that also happens sometimes when I get shy...but it practically always happens when I get pissed. So guys tease me because they think I like a guy which I dislike...

So do I do anything and are they signs of having a crush one me or liking me? Or are they staring at me because I am a complete weirdo....

[[x]]

I'm gonna try to tell my crush I like him..
Hopefully Monday, but for sure next week...

Wish me luck!
{I say next week because he and everyone else that is in band is leaving for band camp tomorrow}

[crossbow]

I go to a really small school and my crush doesn't ever talk to me even with that factored in. I'm not sure if I really really like him or not, but it's awkward because at the end of the spring he asked my other friend out and she turned him down.

Oops.

[Toy Dragon]

I just...uh have a question...

So I have a couple of guys which sort of 'stare/glance' or 'look' at me...my crush gives me a confused/shocked/happy look, looking for 3 secs when he thinks I'm not looking. Most of the time, he seems to give a nice look and i am doing nothing in particular...he also seems to just talk to me randomly, as if trying to start a conversation..but i kinda just give him a short answer and get back to what i was doing before. (Porbably because I get sorta shy when he actually does talk to me.)The other guys keep...sort of...uh...look at me and aren't really showing any expression at all...and we kind if lock eyes for 2 secs and then he looks away. I sort of take a bit to process what happened...and then get back to what I was doing.
Sometimes, guys tease me since when I get mad or annoyed, my face gets all hot and red...and that also happens sometimes when I get shy...but it practically always happens when I get pissed. So guys tease me because they think I like a guy which I dislike...

So do I do anything and are they signs of having a crush one me or liking me? Or are they staring at me because I am a complete weirdo?

[Casistrophic]

I go to a really small school and my crush doesn't ever talk to me even with that factored in. I'm not sure if I really really like him or not, but it's awkward because at the end of the spring he asked my other friend out and she turned him down.

Oops.

You could always try initiating conversation yourself and taking the initiative to get the ball rolling.

[anathema]

so there's this guy in my art class. i've known him since fourth grade, except he moved away and then returned in seventh grade (i'm a sophomore now). we've been pretty good friends for a while, and we share the same taste in music. i know him on a personal level; all his insecurities, all his flaws, etc. thanks to a group chat a couple of months back.
he's a really nice guy. he's very kind and respectful even when i'm with him around other guys. we talk a lot in our art class, and we've told each other a few secrets that no one else knows. he also pays a lot of attention to me compared to his other friends that are girls.
my birthday's coming up and he said he was going to get me a present -- at first i believed he was kidding, but he insisted that he would over and over. he told me that i deserved a present because i was the 'best girl he'd ever met'. i don't really know if this means something. i don't exactly have a crush on him yet; i'm in that in-between-a-squish-and-a-crush phase.
i'd like a little advice, and i want the truth as to whether if i'm overthinking things. i've known him for a while but i'm not really sure if that means the chances a relationship will begin are higher. i don't really want to be told what i'd like to hear, i want to know if i'm rushing things or if he's just a close friend or if this really could be the start of something. thank you!

[bugiscool]

Hi, I posted on here a while ago and got some advice, but some new things have occurred that I need help on. Okay so a summary. C (for crush) is my very best guy friend. We truly argue like an old married couple and act like best friends. Everyone says or asks us if we are dating. It has gotten to the point where we have started to mark down a tally whenever we are asked if we are dating. (I am glad he is having fun with this. It makes my heart stop when someone asks if we are together because I want us to be together.) Anyways we are really good friends. I just pop up at his house to hang out whenever. On the weekends we spend almost both Saturday and Sunday together (like all day). We watch movies, talk, or play games. Both of our parents trust us completely and don't really care how late we are with one another. He has had dinner with my family at least five times now and I've eaten at his house who knows how many times. Even my parents ask me if are dating yet. It has gotten to the point where even teachers at my school think were are dating and ask wither one of openly if we are. Its a little weird but at the same time it makes me wonder what we are doing for teachers to think we are dating. Anyways so my best girl friend is like our greatest shipper. She just can't wait for the day that we get together (even if that day may not happen). So she's friends with C and asks him questions about who he likes. He told her if I was curious about who he likes I should just ask him and being the cool friend I am I asked him and he became very flustered. He acted like he thought I wasn't going to ask him, but I did... So because we are so close I kept pressing him until he said he did in fact like someone. So I became excited and asked more questions to see if I could figure it out. He never told me but he did say that he won't tell me because of "reasons", "Certain reasons." When I asked what he meant by that he said it was complicated and then started to avoid the questions. He started to grow uncomfortable so I stopped asking him question about who he liked. My girl friend said that he likes me just based on his response. Well I wasn't sure so I asked some of my other girl friends and they said the same thing. However I am still not quite sure.... Some help would be nice. Thank you.

[Casistrophic]

I just...uh have a question...

So I have a couple of guys which sort of 'stare/glance' or 'look' at me...my crush gives me a confused/shocked/happy look, looking for 3 secs when he thinks I'm not looking. Most of the time, he seems to give a nice look and i am doing nothing in particular...he also seems to just talk to me randomly, as if trying to start a conversation..but i kinda just give him a short answer and get back to what i was doing before. (Porbably because I get sorta shy when he actually does talk to me.)The other guys keep...sort of...uh...look at me and aren't really showing any expression at all...and we kind if lock eyes for 2 secs and then he looks away. I sort of take a bit to process what happened...and then get back to what I was doing.
Sometimes, guys tease me since when I get mad or annoyed, my face gets all hot and red...and that also happens sometimes when I get shy...but it practically always happens when I get pissed. So guys tease me because they think I like a guy which I dislike...

So do I do anything and are they signs of having a crush one me or liking me? Or are they staring at me because I am a complete weirdo?

This is impossible to read, just so you know.

I don't think eye contact is as reliable an indicator of romantic interest as everyone seems to think it is. Why not start some conversations? If you have a crush on a guy, outright ask him how he feels about you so you can stop wondering about it and reading into little signals that may or may not actually be signals.