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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Dèvil » Tue Aug 18, 2015 9:29 am

Ian<3Smosh wrote:I need help! Theres this guy who likes me, and he's nice, but I'm not sure if i like him or not.. He is getting really annoying and i don't want to be rude and tell him that, what should i do :(

Im no expert but I've experienced this before the best thing to do is tell him to back off if you're getting really annoyed with him, no one doesn't like people who annoy each other but if you don't know if you like him or not why not talk to him a bit, get to know him a bit more and that might stop him from annoying you as well. These sort of things have helped me so give any of these a try if you want!
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby alleyway » Tue Aug 18, 2015 11:00 am

I've been so pissy lately..and I feel like a terrible girlfriend because he will sit there and feel like I'm pissy because of him and that my mood is his fault..it's just when we play Xbox my room gets extremely hot which makes me even more grouchy..I just feel bad for him..
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby thunderofthedrum » Tue Aug 18, 2015 1:23 pm

goner wrote:I've been so pissy lately..and I feel like a terrible girlfriend because he will sit there and feel like I'm pissy because of him and that my mood is his fault..it's just when we play Xbox my room gets extremely hot which makes me even more grouchy..I just feel bad for him..


Tell him that! Sometimes people just aren't in a good mood, and for no apparent reason. Let him know that you weren't in a good mood already, that it has nothing to do with him, and that the hot room just kind of adds to it because of physical discomfort. It's important for him to know that it's not his fault.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby alleyway » Tue Aug 18, 2015 1:25 pm

thunderofthedrum wrote:
goner wrote:I've been so pissy lately..and I feel like a terrible girlfriend because he will sit there and feel like I'm pissy because of him and that my mood is his fault..it's just when we play Xbox my room gets extremely hot which makes me even more grouchy..I just feel bad for him..


Tell him that! Sometimes people just aren't in a good mood, and for no apparent reason. Let him know that you weren't in a good mood already, that it has nothing to do with him, and that the hot room just kind of adds to it because of physical discomfort. It's important for him to know that it's not his fault.

I will, thank you (:
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Paranoia » Wed Aug 19, 2015 5:19 am

I really have lost all of my patience with this.
They told him that they would for sure send him home this week, but what do they do? Send some kid that's been there for three weeks home in his place. My boyfriend's been there for over a MONTH now and once again it's back to "I have no clue when I'll be home"
I'm so sick of getting excited for his return only to be let down because the army fails to process his stuff when they can do everyone else's.
They can send his friend's papers out to personally get signed while his just sat in limbo.
He's gotten delayed because someone said they were going to quit so all their attention went towards that guy.
He's gotten delayed because he's the only one supposedly sane enough to watch over the people on suicide watch.
He's gotten delayed because they decide to send home some other kid instead.
Like I understand life isn't fair but this is a bunch of crap.
The first sergeant specifically told him he wouldn't keep him past this week.
Yet what do they do?
Not send him to get sent home.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby spring. » Wed Aug 19, 2015 6:05 am

Paranoia wrote:I really have lost all of my patience with this.
They told him that they would for sure send him home this week, but what do they do? Send some kid that's been there for three weeks home in his place. My boyfriend's been there for over a MONTH now and once again it's back to "I have no clue when I'll be home"
I'm so sick of getting excited for his return only to be let down because the army fails to process his stuff when they can do everyone else's.
They can send his friend's papers out to personally get signed while his just sat in limbo.
He's gotten delayed because someone said they were going to quit so all their attention went towards that guy.
He's gotten delayed because he's the only one supposedly sane enough to watch over the people on suicide watch.
He's gotten delayed because they decide to send home some other kid instead.
Like I understand life isn't fair but this is a bunch of crap.
The first sergeant specifically told him he wouldn't keep him past this week.
Yet what do they do?
Not send him to get sent home.


      Sweet pea, I know this is very frustrating. My father suffers the same fate of being pushed to the back burner. He's in the Navy, so I know it's not exactly the same thing, but I know what you're going through. See if he can ask his Commanding Officer when he can go home, and have him drop that it's been over a week since he expected to be home. I know it's hard, and if you need to talk to someone please feel free to PM me. <3 I wish I could say more for you, dear but I think the best thing I can do is offer my ear to you to vent. <3
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Fluff_Nut » Wed Aug 19, 2015 6:07 am

*That awkward moment when you find out a guy you like is 3 grades older than you :? )*
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Casistrophic » Wed Aug 19, 2015 6:16 am

Fluff_Nut wrote:*That awkward moment when you find out a guy you like is 3 grades older than you :? )*


I dated a guy 3 years older than me when I was in Freshman year of high school. It was barely a relationship because I was 14 and immature, but there was nothing really wrong with it. It's not like he would be a predator just for liking you back, but any age difference bigger than 3 or -maybe- 4 years at your age gets iffy fast. Be sure to check your state laws.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Fluff_Nut » Wed Aug 19, 2015 6:25 am

Casistrophic wrote:
Fluff_Nut wrote:*That awkward moment when you find out a guy you like is 3 grades older than you :? )*


I dated a guy 3 years older than me when I was in Freshman year of high school. It was barely a relationship because I was 14 and immature, but there was nothing really wrong with it. It's not like he would be a predator just for liking you back, but any age difference bigger than 3 or -maybe- 4 years at your age gets iffy fast. Be sure to check your state laws.

Yeah, the problem is that he's a senior and I'm a freshman, so even if we were to date the thing is that we would probably only see each other for a year, then he's going to college. Oh well, the problems we have xD
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Sinbreaker » Wed Aug 19, 2015 6:36 am

okay, first time being here. Someone I used to date came here often (still does) and I thought I try it out. It's not about them though c:

High School has just started yet again, and someone I've known since...well about 3'rd grade finally asked me out. I mean, he told me his feelings about 2 years ago. but at the time I had just started a relationship with my... last love ^^ (I dislike using ex) Now, here's the thing, I said yes.

But, I'm only... 5 days in now and I'm having second thoughts. Not that I don't care about him, nor that he's a bad boyfriend. But I had my heart set one someone else, a girl. I'm bisexual. Either you believe in that is an actual preference, or if you think "she just doesn't know what she wants', well then, whatever c: not my problem. What my problem is, that I'm still very much wanting to try relationship with this said girl. But had given up hope on 2 different aspects.

One, there is a girl I think is much closer with her then I will ever be (though is dating a guy atm), and 2, I assumed she was straight as a line. Only today did I learn she was into girls. And one of my friends is trying to learn if she has any interest at all to me.

Problem being, should I try to peruse this new possibility of a relationship with her? Or should I stick with the guy I got. My feelings for him arn't strong, but if I were to date any guy, it would be him and only him. No one else.

Any advise on how to go about this?...
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