♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[Fox,]

Help me ;-;

So:
There's this guy, named J, and he likes me. He flirts all the time with me. I have small feelings for him, but nothing strong.
That I'm fine with, but it's the situation. He told me he also likes this other girl, which I shrugged off. He asked her out, she said no, blocked him on everything, you get the point.
Thing is, he still likes me and her.
I asked him the other day,
"Who do you like? I'm curious to know. Is it me or ____?"
He responeded with,
"Why?"
I told him,
"Because I don't know who you like anymore.." [;-;]
He responded, saying,
"I don't know either,"
"I guess both of you,"
"But your nicer to me than ______ is,"

I'm over here, questioning my whole exsistance atm.
Any advice on what to say, or do? I'm so confused Dx

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@cookiepaw

Hmm, well you need to ask him who he has the strongest feelings for. If the other girl is ignoring him, then it seems he's gonna
go for you now. If you don't like him, and you're just feeling sorry for him because the other girl denied him, don't date him!
Tell him how you feel.

@Cursed at the Heart

Ask him about it maybe...? If he likes you maybe he'll admit his feelings, or if he doesn't he'll probably just brush it off as joking from the other boys.

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I'm so confused with 'A'. So basically we are best friends now, but he told me he has feelings for me, and would in time like to get back together but would like sometime. But he broke up with his ex technically for me, but he was also beginning to dislike her, and she was also very rude and inappropriate over social media to me and him. I want to give him time, because I do in fact share those feelings, but not in the same way anymore. It's like I've lost interest as I've waited for him to get comfortable. And I always now have this very sickening feeling (like physically sickening) that he is cheating again. I'm going to ask for a little reassurance, because this insecurity and basically jealousy is just eating away at me.
Anyways, Jay basically has stopped talking to me all together. I'm just going to assume he's busy, and also my slight crush on him
is gone now >.<
'S' I'm still not sure about. He's cute and funny and all, but I'm still waiting for 'A' to make a decision. So for now, 'S' will be at
the back of mind right now, only friends.
I feel like I fall for guys too easily it seems ;-;

[Fox,]

@radtiger

Ok, I'll try that. Thank you c:

[critter]

HELP ME ;-;

I met this guy when I was younger and we talked(Connor), we became friends. Years go by and our group got bigger and they were treating me like trash, the only one who didn't treat me like trash was Connor. The first one I met. I have grown to have strong feelings toward him ;-; i know he like someone else. He fixs me when im broken, he clears my sky when its cloudy, he picks me up when i have fallen. He's the best but I know he would never feel the same. Should I go for it? I mean, i REALLY like him. I think It may harm our friendship. I need someone to tell me if I should as him out or not. Thank in advanced.

[Oh My Mercie]

Guys, I need some help. The other day my boyfriend and I planned to hangout at my place for the second day in a row but this second visit was cancelled because he was exhausted. Having to run all about in order to get to just my place takes a toll on not only his wallet but it is alot of work. I was a bit upset but reassured him that he wasnt a dissapointment and that I loved him.
Later on I started my monthly and it left me irritable and with horrid cramps throughout the day. Later that night I jumped on to play League of Legends with him and our friends. We were over skype and there were points I went quiet to focus on the game and passed the pain in my abdomen. After it all suddenly he seemed irritated with me. I told him I loved him and his only response was 'Mkay'... When I tried to see what was wrong he told me 'Just go to bed'...
The morning after I asked if everything was alright and he was rather clueless yet his responses were still short and blunt. I then told him if he were still feeling these things I would give him space and he said 'okay'
Its been almost three days since this and I havent heard from him. I have seen him on League of Legends and facebook but he has not spoken to me...
What do I do?

[thunderofthedrum]

HELP ME ;-;

I met this guy when I was younger and we talked(Connor), we became friends. Years go by and our group got bigger and they were treating me like trash, the only one who didn't treat me like trash was Connor. The first one I met. I have grown to have strong feelings toward him ;-; i know he like someone else. He fixs me when im broken, he clears my sky when its cloudy, he picks me up when i have fallen. He's the best but I know he would never feel the same. Should I go for it? I mean, i REALLY like him. I think It may harm our friendship. I need someone to tell me if I should as him out or not. Thank in advanced.

No one can really tell you what you 'should' do or not. It's ultimately up to YOU. How much you like him, whether you are willing to take that risk to see if he'll say yes, how likely you think it is that he'll say yes, etc.

You've definitely put him on a pedestal in your description (which isn't realistic) but generally it sounds like you consider him a decent guy and he's treated you nicely even when other friends didn't, which is good.

Thing is, you just say "but I know he would never feel the same" - if you 'know' he doesn't feel that way, then what is there to go for?

Guys, I need some help. The other day my boyfriend and I planned to hangout at my place for the second day in a row but this second visit was cancelled because he was exhausted. Having to run all about in order to get to just my place takes a toll on not only his wallet but it is alot of work. I was a bit upset but reassured him that he wasnt a dissapointment and that I loved him.
Later on I started my monthly and it left me irritable and with horrid cramps throughout the day. Later that night I jumped on to play League of Legends with him and our friends. We were over skype and there were points I went quiet to focus on the game and passed the pain in my abdomen. After it all suddenly he seemed irritated with me. I told him I loved him and his only response was 'Mkay'... When I tried to see what was wrong he told me 'Just go to bed'...
The morning after I asked if everything was alright and he was rather clueless yet his responses were still short and blunt. I then told him if he were still feeling these things I would give him space and he said 'okay'
Its been almost three days since this and I havent heard from him. I have seen him on League of Legends and facebook but he has not spoken to me...
What do I do?

It sounds like something's up. None of us can really guess what's on his mind but it does sound like you guys need to communicate about it. You were disappointed at him not being able to visit and maybe that's part of it - maybe he feels you didn't appreciate how much effort it is for him to get to your place, I don't know. Maybe he thought you weren't fun on LoL. Maybe he has just been in a bad mood. Maybe he has other life stuff going on and he hasn't told you about it yet. Ultimately, you are the one that will have to talk to him. Say that he seemed off, or ask how he's doing. I don't know about you, but my guy appreciates when I notice that he isn't quite normal, especially as he can usually fool other people but not me. And then he appreciates me giving him the opportunity to vent or talk about it. Your boyfriend is a different individual of course, but I do think that communication is important!

[critter]

What i am going for is making a spark. I made friends with him and being the only girl in the group the other males are not as friendly. Hes the only one who would take a bullet for me.

[[x]]

This is going to be really long

Yesterday I went to a party with a couple of friends from school.
The host's mom made us go on a scavenger hunt type thing all around his neighbourhood, so we all gathered outside. We decided to go in a big group instead of teams, but when one of the girls were still changing (it was a pool party) half of us started leaving.

As we were walking to the park, I started talking to this one guy, Caleb. Now, I have had on and off crushes on him before, and I still found him wildly cute and adorable. We were walking and making jokes and it was just really fun. When we had gotten to the park, we played tic-tac-toe until the other group passed us, so my group decided to follow them. Caleb and I were still chatting and joking. Now, a guy who was invited couldn't make it so one of the things we had to do was write a note at his house saying we wished he was here. As we were walking to his house I tripped, and once I regained my posture I said, "I almost died, but it's ok!"
A couple minutes later I tripped again and said the same thing. Caleb said that if I were to actually die, I should tell him first so that he can catch me. Which was adorable.
Once we got to the guys house, we decided we should make the note look really creepy, so Caleb and a couple others went back up the street to get blackberries to make the note look like it has blood on it. Caleb's hands were all red so I high-fived him and got some on my hands as well.
As we were walking back to the host's house we made jokes about how Caleb had killed someone and that I had helped.

While we were eating dinner, I would notice Caleb turning his head to look at me every so often. I started choking on my drink and yelled out "I'm dying!" and I saw him looking back at me again.

After supper there were game type things that we participated in. One of those games involved shaving cream, so once it was over I had some in my hand and rubbed it on the back of his neck, and then again a couple minutes later on his arm. A little later, two people had to try to open and put on a frozen shirt, which the others had to help open. Caleb randomly grabbed my arm because his hand was red and cold.


So... what do you guys think? We have always been acquaintances/friends since grade 3, and I've liked him before and he has liked me before.. But do you think he likes me again? Or is it just him being silly and cute?

[Sinbreaker]

okay, first time being here. Someone I used to date came here often (still does) and I thought I try it out. It's not about them though c:

High School has just started yet again, and someone I've known since...well about 3'rd grade finally asked me out. I mean, he told me his feelings about 2 years ago. but at the time I had just started a relationship with my... last love ^^ (I dislike using ex) Now, here's the thing, I said yes.

But, I'm only... 5 days in now and I'm having second thoughts. Not that I don't care about him, nor that he's a bad boyfriend. But I had my heart set one someone else, a girl. I'm bisexual. Either you believe in that is an actual preference, or if you think "she just doesn't know what she wants', well then, whatever c: not my problem. What my problem is, that I'm still very much wanting to try relationship with this said girl. But had given up hope on 2 different aspects.

One, there is a girl I think is much closer with her then I will ever be (though is dating a guy atm), and 2, I assumed she was straight as a line. Only today did I learn she was into girls. And one of my friends is trying to learn if she has any interest at all to me.

Problem being, should I try to peruse this new possibility of a relationship with her? Or should I stick with the guy I got. My feelings for him arn't strong, but if I were to date any guy, it would be him and only him. No one else.

Any advise on how to go about this?...

[Dreamo]

I need help! Theres this guy who likes me, and he's nice, but I'm not sure if i like him or not.. He is getting really annoying and i don't want to be rude and tell him that, what should i do