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[Casistrophic]

ah, darn
my bf broke up with me after a week
and kissing me the day before on our first time seeing each other outside work

his excuse was that he'd have to move in a year and didn't want to date anyone
is that a good reason?

The thing is, his reason doesn't actually have to be good. It is his reason and you are broken up now. I'm sorry that happened, but I can empathize with your ex because I was in the same situation and now my relationship is long distance and it's a lot harder than it was before. I can understand someone not wanting to go through with that, especially with someone they've only been dating a week. I was seriously considering ending it with my boyfriend for the same reason as your ex and we had been dating over six months.

yeah i didn't mean that he had to have a good reason, just was wondering if he was really being honest when he said that
ah well, only he knows that answer anyway

It's very possible. Maybe he enjoyed being with you, but when he looked ahead all he could see was the fact that the relationship had an expiration date. Perhaps he wanted to end it before he got too attached so that it wouldn't be very painful when that day came.

[ｂｉｎａ－ｃｈａｎ]

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im just bitter with myself for not being able to maintain my first relationship for more than a week, i guess :"v

If it makes you feel better my first relationship lasted three days....

[mimosal]

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im just bitter with myself for not being able to maintain my first relationship for more than a week, i guess :"v

If it makes you feel better my first relationship lasted three days....

Mine only lasted a week as well xD don't feel bad. He just wasn't the one. You'll find someone so much better out there who will treat you like royalty.

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In other news, fun little story. My boyfriend and I have taken to skyping each other every night before bed. We're not exactly long distance, but there's distance and busy schedules so we don't get to see each other more than probably once a week. So, we Skype. Usually we say goodnight then hang up and go to bed. However, last night, I fell asleep while we were talking. I woke up this morning to him on the other end saying good morning until I woke up. It was kind of adorable to "wake up next to him". I haven't woken up in such a good mood before.

[ｂｉｎａ－ｃｈａｎ]

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im just bitter with myself for not being able to maintain my first relationship for more than a week, i guess :"v

If it makes you feel better my first relationship lasted three days....

Mine only lasted a week as well xD don't feel bad. He just wasn't the one. You'll find someone so much better out there who will treat you like royalty.

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In other news, fun little story. My boyfriend and I have taken to skyping each other every night before bed. We're not exactly long distance, but there's distance and busy schedules so we don't get to see each other more than probably once a week. So, we Skype. Usually we say goodnight then hang up and go to bed. However, last night, I fell asleep while we were talking. I woke up this morning to him on the other end saying good morning until I woke up. It was kind of adorable to "wake up next to him". I haven't woken up in such a good mood before.

I was also in grade seven and so was he, so, yeah, obviously not the one
Ive been in several other relationships since him tho..
[idontwannafeellikeroyaltythoughalliwannaknowissomeone'lovesme'whoisntrelatedtome]

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Aww, cute




I've still got my fourteen crushes problem and yeah
I don't have contact with a counselor like Casistropic said, and when I brought it up someone said it was normal for a teenager
so yeah

I was about to ask a friend out but changed my mind 'cause I met him, like, a month ago
[I'm pretty sure he's open to relationships with other guys, but, I can't remember...]
[I'm also tempted to ask this girl out, but, again, met her a damn month ago, so yeah]

Cinromantic basically means you have romantic feelings for another person VERY easily...
which, I'm pretty sure is me, though, panromantic as well, so yeah, I fall in love with everyone
annnnnnd if you can't see the problem, I want relationships but I don't know who out of the fourteen crushes to ask out

[Casistrophic]

Maybe you shouldn't ask any of them out. If you're a younger teen it might be normal to get so many crushes and it's probably something you will grow out of. But wanting a relationship just for the sake of a relationship is a bad idea, and someone is going to get hurt. If the only qualification for earning your attraction is being a warmblooded human, then you need to take a closer look at what actually makes you compatible with these people. So far it sounds like you'll basically be spinning a wheel to choose an arbitrary partner; you haven't mentioned anything like "Jeff has a wonderful sense of humor and I really feel a connection when we talk after soccer practice", it just sounds like you have a line of crushes and are trying to pick between Crush Unit 203A and Crush Unit 203B. Not a great jumping off point for a relationship.

Maybe take a step back and try to fix the fact that you are so unhappy and restless with being single. If you feel like you need someone else to complete you, that relationship is not going to work out.

[ｂｉｎａ－ｃｈａｎ]

I'm an older teenager, so, yeah, I'm unsure if ill grow out of it - hope I do tho

[I also want a relationship because I have very bad self confidence and such... it sounds very narcissistic to only want a relationship so someone cap say 'i love you' but, that's why I want one, to feel wanted....]
[not going into depth about that, so, please don't ask]

And, I have a ton of reasons, it's mostly everyones personalities...
Over half of the fourteen have been my friends for two years, or more
some were acquaintances till a year ago
others have been friends for a month, but we have so much in common....
yeah, I have great reasons, not just 'oh, your a human, date me'
I'm not so desperate I'll go out with ANYONE
I have reasons for all my crushes, its just that I still fall in love easily.
But, when I do, I have my reasons
[and I'm not some guy who date a chick [or dude] for their looks, only time that ever takes effect is if they don't take care of themself]

I do plan on being single for a long while, though it may be a struggle
I'm gonna try and see how long I last - hopefully a full semester but, I'm not sure
If I'm in a relationship when the end of the semester comes around, it will hopefully be because they asked me out, but, I doubt that.

[Casistrophic]

I'm an older teenager, so, yeah, I'm unsure if ill grow out of it - hope I do tho

[I also want a relationship because I have very bad self confidence and such... it sounds very narcissistic to only want a relationship so someone cap say 'i love you' but, that's why I want one, to feel wanted....]
[not going into depth about that, so, please don't ask]

And, I have a ton of reasons, it's mostly everyones personalities...
Over half of the fourteen have been my friends for two years, or more
some were acquaintances till a year ago
others have been friends for a month, but we have so much in common....
yeah, I have great reasons, not just 'oh, your a human, date me'
I'm not so desperate I'll go out with ANYONE
I have reasons for all my crushes, its just that I still fall in love easily.
But, when I do, I have my reasons
[and I'm not some guy who date a chick [or dude] for their looks, only time that ever takes effect is if they don't take care of themself]

I do plan on being single for a long while, though it may be a struggle
I'm gonna try and see how long I last - hopefully a full semester but, I'm not sure
If I'm in a relationship when the end of the semester comes around, it will hopefully be because they asked me out, but, I doubt that.

Yeah, wanting a relationship so that you'll have someone to validate you is a BAD IDEA. Really bad idea! Like seriously, you need to be happy with yourself. Another person is not going to make you feel all better about yourself, and you should not be making your happiness another person's responsibility. That is an unfair and unhealthy burden.

Obviously you like someone's personality if you are friends with them, but there are things that separate friends from romantic partners and those things are issues of compatibility. I have a hard time believing that you have looked very hard at whether you would be actually romantically compatible with all of these friends if fourteen people apparently fit the bill to a T. That's a sign that your standards, whatever they are, are too low.

I also disagree that you fall in love easily. You get infatuated easily, but that is not the same thing as love. Love is reciprocated. I strongly, strongly recommend that you re-focus this issue as "what can I do to make myself happier?" rather than "which one of these myriad people are going to make me happy?"

[wren]

I gave this guy my phone number and he never texted me haha

[lapidot]

my partner is so cute like how is it possible
he drew me art and hhhhhHHHHhhh yes please

[thunderofthedrum]

I gave this guy my phone number and he never texted me haha

That is definitely going to happen! My friend is super social and flirty and knows how to handle herself, yet there are still plenty of times she gives her phone number to a guy and never hears back. Clearly you were probably never going to hear back WITHOUT giving him your phone number anyway, so you didn't really lose anything!

It's totally possible (and normal) for someone to like you, just not like you enough to pursue it. It's even quite possible that someone talks to you for a while and feels like the 'proper' next step is to ask for your number, even if they don't really intend to call. Like they think it's expected so you don't feel like you completely wasted your time, or they think it's polite protocol or something. It definitely happens.

Anyway, you could always look at it statistically - the more people that have your number, the more likely you are to get a call. xD
[Of course I'm not saying to just post it on fliers, but you get what I'm saying.]