♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[leeheeseung]

hi, its okay to like someone even if they're with someone
else right?

i don't want to do anything but just like him.

that's okay, right?

[Canis2954]

hi, its okay to like someone even if they're with someone
else right?

i don't want to do anything but just like him.

that's okay, right?

yes, if thats fine with your partner, because you aren't acting on it
but everyone's relationship boundaries vary.

[Haagen-Daagen]

hi, its okay to like someone even if they're with someone
else right?

i don't want to do anything but just like him.

that's okay, right?

There's nothing wrong with liking something in a relationship as long as you aren't acting on it.(: As long as you aren't trying to break them up or get in between him and his SO, it's totally fine to have feelings for him.(:

[Emma Swan]

Help me... help me... help me. Please? Anyone...

So, ummm... My crush on this guy, let's call him D.J., might actually go somewhere now. He is the one I use to talk about, two years older than me and taken. I don't know if anyone remembers. They broke up... today. I'm super conflicted because I feel so bad and I'm so sorry for him. At the same time, I'm happy, cuz I stand a chance. A while back, May 8th, he told me that if he wasn't dating his now ex, he would most likely be dating me. I see him tomorrow as well, and I am just so conflicted. I know not to jump right on it, but I don't want to act... weird, different, awkward?

Any opinions would be great...

Thanks in advance,
Emma Swan xx

[Casistrophic]

Help me... help me... help me. Please? Anyone...

So, ummm... My crush on this guy, let's call him D.J., might actually go somewhere now. He is the one I use to talk about, two years older than me and taken. I don't know if anyone remembers. They broke up... today. I'm super conflicted because I feel so bad and I'm so sorry for him. At the same time, I'm happy, cuz I stand a chance. A while back, May 8th, he told me that if he wasn't dating his now ex, he would most likely be dating me. I see him tomorrow as well, and I am just so conflicted. I know not to jump right on it, but I don't want to act... weird, different, awkward?

Any opinions would be great...

Thanks in advance,
Emma Swan xx

Maybe the best thing to do would be to give him some space for a week or two. That way, you not only clear yourself of any possible suspicion of trying to pick him up on the rebound, but you avoid the "weirdness" that you are worried about.

[Swordboy]

Hey I need some advice. Would someone mind pming me? I feel awkward discussing all of this and it's kinda complicated. . .

[owl0430]

--if anyone remembers me, last time i posted i was asking about how to ask out the guy i liked, sense i was not sure if he likes me back or not.i took the advice and asked if he wanted to hang out sometime.he said sure.now i need to know a few things.
A.could it be a sign he likes me?
B.how do i 'hand out' with him?
c.what do we talk about?
d.what if its during shcool lunch and he is hanging with his friends.(who are not girls like me)

[Medusa72]

Oh my goodness, it's been a while...
Well JG and I went on our first date last Wednesday. I was expecting it to be awkward or weird, but we connect so well that it was neither of those things. We had breakfast together. It was very nice and I quite enjoyed seeing and talking to him.
We text each other all the time and I have to say, it's somewhat lacking. I would much prefer to speak to him face to face. Yes, we have had some very deep conversations over text message. However, seeing him in person is always better.
I've only told two of my friends that I like JG, and now they tease me all the time. They'll refer to JG as, "your man" and they apparently take pics of us when we see each other and then they send the pics to JG and I.
It is funny and JG and I just laugh along. Because he is honestly the first person I've felt this comfortable around and it doesn't embarrass me when others tease.

I don't know how many people here would remember but I posted to the last thread a series of 3 letters titled To JG from Me. last year and I find it ironic that we're actually in a relationship now. So I thought I'd share... The Original

JG~

When we first met, I forgot about you the next day.
Four years later, you flirt with me.
Then you avoid me.
Now, you make awkward conversations.
Now, every time I glance at you, you're already looking.
Your eyes are blue.
You don't know how to sit still around me.
I wish you'd ask me out.
I wish you'd kiss me.
I've dreamed about it darling.
And I think it'd be wonderful.

~Me.

JG~

I don't care that you're a skinny bean pole.
I'll still love you even if you are self-conscience about that.
I don't care how obnoxious you are sometimes.
I'll be obnoxious with you.
I know you have a past that hurts.
I'll be a good listener.
I'll be a good comforter.
I just want to hug you.
I just want you to hug me back.
I want to put my arms around your neck.
I want your arms around my waist.

~Me.

JG~

You're the one I'd sneak out late for.
You're the one I'd want to cuddle next to.
I want to know what you smell like.
I want to know what body wash you use.
Tell me all your secrets.
I'd tell you all of mine.
Let me touch your soft hands.
Let me feel your lips against mine.
Your not exactly a diamond.
But neither am I.
Who cares if people would judge us?

~Me.

These were written Oct. 20, 2014...

[frozen.]

Oh my goodness, it's been a while...
Well JG and I went on our first date last Wednesday. I was expecting it to be awkward or weird, but we connect so well that it was neither of those things. We had breakfast together. It was very nice and I quite enjoyed seeing and talking to him.
We text each other all the time and I have to say, it's somewhat lacking. I would much prefer to speak to him face to face. Yes, we have had some very deep conversations over text message. However, seeing him in person is always better.
I've only told two of my friends that I like JG, and now they tease me all the time. They'll refer to JG as, "your man" and they apparently take pics of us when we see each other and then they send the pics to JG and I.
It is funny and JG and I just laugh along. Because he is honestly the first person I've felt this comfortable around and it doesn't embarrass me when others tease.

I don't know how many people here would remember but I posted to the last thread a series of 3 letters titled To JG from Me. last year and I find it ironic that we're actually in a relationship now. So I thought I'd share... The Original

-snip-

These were written Oct. 20, 2014...

this is so cute, I'm really happy for you <3

it looks like you've really found someone you're comfortable around, may it last a long time!~

[Medusa72]

Aww, thank you frozen. I'm really hoping it does!