♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[anathema]

my crush is my best friend.
i have liked her for almost two years. i really
can't keep this a secret anymore, but i don't
want to ruin our close friendship. any help or
advice? she moved away about a month ago
and is coming back in about three weeks, and
i've been thinking about telling her when i see
her again.

[vash ♡]

so i finally brought up my feelings with my current crush, and i warned her i'm scared and confused and don't know what to feel since i broke up with my ex (not that i still have lingering feelings for said ex, but just that it's left me in a bit of a daze and the crush came unbidden at a difficult time). she responded, saying she felt the same way but she didn't want to say anything bc she knew my ex and i had started fighting again even though we already broke up, and she felt like i'd drift away from her once i knew and she didn't want that. but after talking it out, since we've only known each other for 3 weeks come monday, we wanted to take it very slow and get to know each other better before we decided to act on our infatuation with one another. we definitely have our eyes set, yes, and we thoroughly enjoy talking to each other every second of the day, but we're content with taking our time and not rushing. we are too scared to lose each other already. ;w; i don't just see her as my potential gf, i see her as an amazing friend and one of my best already.

[hermytail]

Agh he worries me so much sometimes.

I know he's depressed, givin what he's been through how could he not be? Maybe he's not but I doubt it.

He doesn't even get out of bed for more than three hours most days. He skips school all the time. He's failing.

Sometimes I don't know what to do with him. I just want to help him but I don't know how.

I love him so much and hate all the crap that's happened to him. He doesn't deserve it.

I have no idea what to do.
worst girlfriend ever right here

I have been him. Depression is not something triggered by an event. Keep that in mind. It is a chemical imbalance in your brain.

As for helping him with it, you probably can't, and in a way, shouldn't. He will learn to deal with it, and grow past it. Helping him too much will make you his crutch, and that can be dangerous. Just be there for him. Bake him his favorite sweets, take him out to a feild and force him to have a picnic with you, show him the beauty in the world he would not see at home. Help him decide the world is beautiful.

[neli]

I confessed that I like B..
Sorry I kept stuffing up letters

B took it cute haha
He thought it was adorable I liked him
He's my best friend, my everything. :3

I'm seeing him tomorrow out of school so score for me hehe, it's his birthday tomorrow too!

[dozy]

So my ex-boyfriend from two years ago got in contact with me & arranged a coffee date, and has spent the last three hours pursuing a 'beneficial friend' situation.

I came out as a lesbian six months ago.



But seriously, he's been in a relationship for over a year now. That poor, poor girlfriend of his ):

[thunderofthedrum]

So my ex-boyfriend from two years ago got in contact with me & arranged a coffee date, and has spent the last three hours pursuing a 'beneficial friend' situation.

I came out as a lesbian six months ago.



But seriously, he's been in a relationship for over a year now. That poor, poor girlfriend of his ):

That is absolutely hilarious in a super horrible kind of way. xD

[dozy]

I would feel a bit bad for him if he wasn't in a relationship (since he is free to do whatever he wants with his body parts) but he's been in a committed relationship for a year and was going on about how happy he was with her IN THE SAME MESSAGE as him asking for his little arrangement.

I agreed to the coffee catch up before he started with his little talks. I'm still going to go, but I will be stamping any sort of talk like that into the ground. It's been two years, I'm not some shy, lovestruck teenager anymore.

I couldn't help but laugh though. Out of all his exes, he picks the gay one xD

[Casistrophic]

I would feel a bit bad for him if he wasn't in a relationship (since he is free to do whatever he wants with his body parts) but he's been in a committed relationship for a year and was going on about how happy he was with her IN THE SAME MESSAGE as him asking for his little arrangement.

I agreed to the coffee catch up before he started with his little talks. I'm still going to go, but I will be stamping any sort of talk like that into the ground. It's been two years, I'm not some shy, lovestruck teenager anymore.

I couldn't help but laugh though. Out of all his exes, he picks the gay one xD

You should forward the messages to the girlfriend. If he's sleeping around behind her back, she deserves to know because he might be exposing her to STDs.

[Apyrisol]

Grr... I asked you guys for help about one guy and you said to leave him. I JUST CAN'T GET OVER HIM! He passed by my house a few days ago and I had just gotten back from the beach (#Summer). I couldn't even bring up the courage to say 'hey'! I FEEL SO ASHAMED! EVEN THOUGH YOU SAID TO LEAVE HIM! I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT HIM BUT ALL THE TIME I DO!







It make's me wanna claw my eyes out...

[wicked;]

i think that too much time is invested into love. far too much. is it really worth it to fall in love? like, is it worth it spending so much time on something so hopeless? love changes us, too. because of love, i feel like i was reborn. the things i did for love.. it was absurd. i don't even know why of all places, this is where i go to. but honestly, love turned me into someone completely different. i regret so much for these past seven months.. just because i loved someone. because i love someone. i know most of the people here are younger then me, so i want to give you all a warning; love is going to make you do something crazy. love is going to change you. and you'll learn from it, you'll learn that it was never worth it. after a while, you'll feel like you never should have loved, and then you'll learn that you couldn't help it. and it sucks, i honestly feel for you. there are a lot of people who say that love is the closest thing we have to magic.. maybe this is true, but who ever said that it was a good magic.

i don't believe that love is good. i think it's been giving a positive reputation, which is so completely deceiving. sorry, this is my opinion, but it comes from real experiences. it's never going to be worth it. love turned me into a new person.. and i hate it. maybe love and hate aren't as opposite as we are taught.. love taught me to hate.