♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[Apyrisol]

Grr... I asked you guys for help about one guy and you said to leave him. I JUST CAN'T GET OVER HIM! He passed by my house a few days ago and I had just gotten back from the beach (#Summer). I couldn't even bring up the courage to say 'hey'! I FEEL SO ASHAMED! EVEN THOUGH YOU SAID TO LEAVE HIM! I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT HIM BUT ALL THE TIME I DO!







It make's me wanna claw my eyes out...

[alleyway]

Does anyone have advice for long distance relationships?

[L7BAE]

I really need help. How do I tell my best friend that I have a major crush on her? I was thinking about singing the song Not In That Way. But Im so bad at singing. Also how would I tell my parents.. Also if you havn't noticed... Im a girl. Please no rude replys saying that being Gay or being lesbian is gross or wrong.

Personally I would be very uncomfortable if someone started singing to me, especially if it was a confession of attraction. It would spike my anxiety real bad. Your best bet is to just be open and frank. No theatrics, no gimmicks, just ''hey, I think I like you as more than a friend, what do you think about that?"

Thanks. lol now that I think about it it would be really awkward to sing. Imma pm you to tell you something.

[val.]

do any of you think it's alright that i'm still mutual friends with my ex?
i still really do like him both in a romantic and just friendly way, and we both talked
about our break up and got things straightened out. he did in fact cheat,
and though he pleaded to get back together, i wasn't able to trust him again that way,
but i agreed to be friends, and he accepted that fact.

anyway, i believe i mentioned a long time ago about my crush on s?
s had a girlfriend, but she left him for her ex when he was traveling in
europe (i'm guessing through text, which makes me angry).
continuing, i've had mutual romantic feelings for him for about
two years now, but i never expressed these feelings. we are really
close, we play fight and tease each other (playfully of course) all the
time, i'm just wondering if it's the right time to ask if he has the same feelings or ask him out...?
or is there ever gonna be a time i should ask?

[hermytail]

do any of you think it's alright that i'm still mutual friends with my ex?
i still really do like him both in a romantic and just friendly way, and we both talked
about our break up and got things straightened out. he did in fact cheat,
and though he pleaded to get back together, i wasn't able to trust him again that way,
but i agreed to be friends, and he accepted that fact.

anyway, i believe i mentioned a long time ago about my crush on s?
s had a girlfriend, but she left him for her ex when he was traveling in
europe (i'm guessing through text, which makes me angry).
continuing, i've had mutual romantic feelings for him for about
two years now, but i never expressed these feelings. we are really
close, we play fight and tease each other (playfully of course) all the
time, i'm just wondering if it's the right time to ask if he has the same feelings or ask him out...?
or is there ever gonna be a time i should ask?

Being friends with your ex can be a really bad idea. Do you still have any anger or resentment towards him for cheating? Any insecurities? Even small feelings of resentment or feelings of "was it my fault" can be toxic. If you're even a little unsure if being his friend can cause you even slight discomfort, then don't hang out with him alone, or keep your friendship going mostly over text until any feelings for him beyond just being friends are gone.

As for feelings for your other friends, you should be able to tell him. Say you have a bit of a crush, and go from there. Keep it played low, so if he doesn't feel the same way it doesn't put a dent in your friendship.

[;LEVIATHAN;]

Don't EVER put off video chatting or calling them. EVER.

I agree! My last relationship was long distance and we grew apart because one of us was always busy. ALWAYS make time for them.

Long distance is never easy, but you need to keep interest, maybe set a time a day to call, or skype. Try to stay away from
other girls/genders so you dont forget about her/

thanks guys! this really helps c:

[thunderofthedrum]

Does anyone have advice for long distance relationships?

Communication and making time for each other.
My dude is military and being deployed next month and really - it's about finding ways to stay close. We do Skype calls, watch Netflix together, letters, share interesting things on Facebook, and I send him packages now and then.

It's important to both make the effort and to FEEL like you are both making the effort. If things feel one sided then it can definitely go downhill pretty quickly.

[Apyrisol]

Grr... I asked you guys for help about one guy and you said to leave him. I JUST CAN'T GET OVER HIM! He passed by my house a few days ago and I had just gotten back from the beach (#Summer). I couldn't even bring up the courage to say 'hey'! I FEEL SO ASHAMED! EVEN THOUGH YOU SAID TO LEAVE HIM! I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT HIM BUT ALL THE TIME I DO!







It make's me wanna claw my eyes out...

[Daleks&Dragonlords]

Agh he worries me so much sometimes.

I know he's depressed, givin what he's been through how could he not be? Maybe he's not but I doubt it.

He doesn't even get out of bed for more than three hours most days. He skips school all the time. He's failing.

Sometimes I don't know what to do with him. I just want to help him but I don't know how.

I love him so much and hate all the crap that's happened to him. He doesn't deserve it.

I have no idea what to do.
worst girlfriend ever right here

[alleyway]

Does anyone have advice for long distance relationships?

Communication and making time for each other.
My dude is military and being deployed next month and really - it's about finding ways to stay close. We do Skype calls, watch Netflix together, letters, share interesting things on Facebook, and I send him packages now and then.

It's important to both make the effort and to FEEL like you are both making the effort. If things feel one sided then it can definitely go downhill pretty quickly.

Alright thank you , i talk with him mostly everyday on xbox and he never seems to get bored of me, he always he so into what I talk to {I think it's annoying} but he always tags me in facebook stuff