♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[Apyrisol]

Grr... I asked you guys for help about one guy and you said to leave him. I JUST CAN'T GET OVER HIM! He passed by my house a few days ago and I had just gotten back from the beach (#Summer). I couldn't even bring up the courage to say 'hey'! I FEEL SO ASHAMED! EVEN THOUGH YOU SAID TO LEAVE HIM! I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT HIM BUT ALL THE TIME I DO!







It make's me wanna claw my eyes out...

[littleminicooper]

Hi! Please help. I have a huge problem. My parents are very strict about my boyfriend and I. No touching, kissing, ect. I understand not wanting me to do anything but we don't. I can understand not wanting me to kiss him and I'll respect that one(Although we still do) but I like to cuddle him while watching scary movies and they just won't allow it. I also like to fall asleep and take naps in his arms because it comforts me. I have really bad anxiety and depression. When we cuddle or I am able to fall asleep I can listen to his heartbeat which really calms me down. I don't think my parents understand that. What can I do to make this easier for all of us?

[littleminicooper]

just asked out my best friend.

AND NOW I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND HOLLA

but she lives in Florida ;^; any advice on how to deal with long-distance?

Don't EVER put off video chatting or calling them. EVER.

I agree! My last relationship was long distance and we grew apart because one of us was always busy. ALWAYS make time for them.

[•d e s t i e l•]

So i was at my friends house, and we where swimming, Keep in mind this was the first day of summer break, so early June. So she was snapchatting her boyfriend at the time, who is also my crush, and she didnt want to get out of the pool, so i would do it for her. Well. He found out and he said he hated me. But then early THIS month, i asked for a tbh on ask.fm, and he friendzoned me and its really confusing.
Help?

[Casistrophic]

So i was at my friends house, and we where swimming, Keep in mind this was the first day of summer break, so early June. So she was snapchatting her boyfriend at the time, who is also my crush, and she didnt want to get out of the pool, so i would do it for her. Well. He found out and he said he hated me. But then early THIS month, i asked for a tbh on ask.fm, and he friendzoned me and its really confusing.
Help?

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I don't exactly know what you're asking here. If you are interested in someone who is already someone else's boyfriend, you need to not try and pursue him in a romantic way. If you are sure that you could be strictly platonic friends with him, ask your friend if she is okay with it first. It would not be unreasonable of her for her to want you to keep your distance from him even as friends if you have an active crush on him.

[•d e s t i e l•]

just asked out my best friend.

AND NOW I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND HOLLA

but she lives in Florida ;^; any advice on how to deal with long-distance?

Don't EVER put off video chatting or calling them. EVER.

I agree! My last relationship was long distance and we grew apart because one of us was always busy. ALWAYS make time for them.

Long distance is never easy, but you need to keep interest, maybe set a time a day to call, or skype. Try to stay away from
other girls/genders so you dont forget about her/

[littleminicooper]

Hi! Please help. I have a huge problem. My parents are very strict about my boyfriend and I. No touching, kissing, ect. I understand not wanting me to do anything but we don't. I can understand not wanting me to kiss him and I'll respect that one(Although we still do) but I like to cuddle him while watching scary movies and they just won't allow it. I also like to fall asleep and take naps in his arms because it comforts me. I have really bad anxiety and depression. When we cuddle or I am able to fall asleep I can listen to his heartbeat which really calms me down. I don't think my parents understand that. What can I do to make this easier for all of us?

[Casistrophic]

Hi! Please help. I have a huge problem. My parents are very strict about my boyfriend and I. No touching, kissing, ect. I understand not wanting me to do anything but we don't. I can understand not wanting me to kiss him and I'll respect that one(Although we still do) but I like to cuddle him while watching scary movies and they just won't allow it. I also like to fall asleep and take naps in his arms because it comforts me. I have really bad anxiety and depression. When we cuddle or I am able to fall asleep I can listen to his heartbeat which really calms me down. I don't think my parents understand that. What can I do to make this easier for all of us?

I know how you feel. I'm in my 20s and my parents still try to dictate some of my and my boyfriend's behavior together when he stays over at my house. Unfortunately, it is somewhat of a "their house, their rules" situation, but there's nothing stopping you from having a calm discussion with them about it. Personally, I think restricting kissing and cuddling is a little strict, even if you're young. I was interested in going further physically with my first real boyfriend and the reason I was able to do that safely was because I knew I could talk to my parents about it and they would be supportive and make sure I got the things I needed. But, I'm also not your parents nor am I the one who makes the rules in your household, so my personal views don't really matter here. Hopefully they will be reasonable.

[L7BAE]

I really need help. How do I tell my best friend that I have a major crush on her? I was thinking about singing the song Not In That Way. But Im so bad at singing. Also how would I tell my parents.. Also if you havn't noticed... Im a girl. Please no rude replys saying that being Gay or being lesbian is gross or wrong.

[Casistrophic]

I really need help. How do I tell my best friend that I have a major crush on her? I was thinking about singing the song Not In That Way. But Im so bad at singing. Also how would I tell my parents.. Also if you havn't noticed... Im a girl. Please no rude replys saying that being Gay or being lesbian is gross or wrong.

Personally I would be very uncomfortable if someone started singing to me, especially if it was a confession of attraction. It would spike my anxiety real bad. Your best bet is to just be open and frank. No theatrics, no gimmicks, just ''hey, I think I like you as more than a friend, what do you think about that?"