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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby broker » Tue May 12, 2015 10:04 am

    Nemo.@ Well, as grimace worthy of the thought is of doing it is, I think you should just tell him. I can't say it's going to be easy if he turns you down, but I defiantly think it's worth doing now, instead of worrying about it. :)

    And hey! If it turns out he does have feelings for you, or he wants to give the idea of a relationship a shot, I'd say it's a win win.

    When you do talk to each other, what does he act like around you? feel free to pm me if you'd like

    ArtemisWolf@ Ah well, as unnerving the thought is to actually sum up the courage and try and have a conversation, it's worth pursuing!

    Try not to think of it as such a big deal, :) he's just another human being like you, or your friends.

    Honestly if I was in your circumstance, I'd try and start with a friendship. Just talk with him, the more you're around him, and the better you get to know each other, the more comfortable you'll be. :>

    If you're scared that your feelings for him will be obvious, sometimes that's not a terribly bad thing in itself. He'll probably be flattered if he figures you have a crush on him. :)

    He's tried to talk with you before? (Did he initiate it?) And out of curiosity, how many times have you been in a conversation with him? c:

    CaptainMarvel@ hehehe! that's so cute :D it sounds like it went really well! congratulations <3
    is he making plans to meet up again soon? <3

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    T (my crush) asked me to a dance.

    it's not until after I enthusiastically say yes, and explain that nothing should come up when I realize and fully comprehend the definition of

    "dancing"

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    IT'S NOT LIKE it's a big deal or anything it's a family dance outing and I'm sure he won't do all the dances with me, bUT I'LL BE DANCING WITH HIM?? AS IN MY HANDS WILL BE TOUCHING HIS HANDS AND WE'LL BE CLOSE TOGETHEr brb dying o/////o

    how in the world am I going to dance with him if I can't even think about him without getting butterflies

    any idea how to die down the nerves? ;o; thanks in advance
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Keletheryl » Tue May 12, 2015 10:07 am

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    CaptainMarvel@ hehehe! that's so cute :D it sounds like it went really well! congratulations <3
    is he making plans to meet up again soon? <3


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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby chooch » Tue May 12, 2015 11:56 am

Bonus wrote:
    Nemo.@ Well, as grimace worthy of the thought is of doing it is, I think you should just tell him. I can't say it's going to be easy if he turns you down, but I defiantly think it's worth doing now, instead of worrying about it. :)

    And hey! If it turns out he does have feelings for you, or he wants to give the idea of a relationship a shot, I'd say it's a win win.

    When you do talk to each other, what does he act like around you? feel free to pm me if you'd like

    ArtemisWolf@ Ah well, as unnerving the thought is to actually sum up the courage and try and have a conversation, it's worth pursuing!

    Try not to think of it as such a big deal, :) he's just another human being like you, or your friends.

    Honestly if I was in your circumstance, I'd try and start with a friendship. Just talk with him, the more you're around him, and the better you get to know each other, the more comfortable you'll be. :>

    If you're scared that your feelings for him will be obvious, sometimes that's not a terribly bad thing in itself. He'll probably be flattered if he figures you have a crush on him. :)

    He's tried to talk with you before? (Did he initiate it?) And out of curiosity, how many times have you been in a conversation with him? c:

    CaptainMarvel@ hehehe! that's so cute :D it sounds like it went really well! congratulations <3
    is he making plans to meet up again soon? <3

    ----

    T (my crush) asked me to a dance.

    it's not until after I enthusiastically say yes, and explain that nothing should come up when I realize and fully comprehend the definition of

    "dancing"

    Image

    IT'S NOT LIKE it's a big deal or anything it's a family dance outing and I'm sure he won't do all the dances with me, bUT I'LL BE DANCING WITH HIM?? AS IN MY HANDS WILL BE TOUCHING HIS HANDS AND WE'LL BE CLOSE TOGETHEr brb dying o/////o

    how in the world am I going to dance with him if I can't even think about him without getting butterflies

    any idea how to die down the nerves? ;o; thanks in advance

Thank you so much for the advice. When I do talk to him I keep an I eye out for how he acts. I'll be sure to PM you. Can't thank you enough. :)
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Peppercorn. » Tue May 12, 2015 2:03 pm

Hey so my crush, lets call him W, ive known him since 3rd grade. Some boy in my class named x asked him if he liked me. Then after W came ofer and said "do you like me" and i said as a friend. X siad no she made me say that. Then W knew he lies a lot. Now im just wondering on what to do? Should I make a move or what? Can i have tips to slowly find out if we share feelings?
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Queen of the Kings » Tue May 12, 2015 2:27 pm

Peppercorn. wrote:Hey so my crush, lets call him W, ive known him since 3rd grade. Some boy in my class named x asked him if he liked me. Then after W came ofer and said "do you like me" and i said as a friend. X siad no she made me say that. Then W knew he lies a lot. Now im just wondering on what to do? Should I make a move or what? Can i have tips to slowly find out if we share feelings?

Most likely, you will not have a great amount of luck finding out if he likes you if you already told him you just want to be friends. The best and quickest way of finding out if he likes you is confessing it yourself. Saying you only want to be 'friends' will only push him away from you and will cause him to give up on the potential relationship (if he does like you). If it makes you more comfortable, you could have X (or another one of your friends) go up and tell him that you really do like him, but the only way to make sure everyone is telling the truth is to talk about it with him directly. I know it may be a risk considering that it may be awkward if he doesn't like you back, but if you think that he likes you, chances are he does. When I confessed to my crush that I liked him, I realized that he didn't have the same feelings, but all of the awkward atmosphere around us went away very soon and we are still great friends to this day and have been considering a relationship in the future. I know that some people (possibly including you) absolutely refuse to confess their feelings to their crush. If you happen to be one of these people, you could do some quick internet research of things like:
- Signs a guy likes you
- Does he like me? Quizzes
- Etc.
I would also recommend asking your friends if they think he may like you. You can ask some of his closer friends if he has ever mentioned you in that way, or just talks about you a lot in general.
But above all of these and something everyone has to do to get anywhere, friendship or any other relationship, is to communicate. Speak to him as much as you are able (without making it excessive or making him feel strange). Get his phone number if you don't already, try sitting with him at lunch, or just talk to him in your classes if you have any with him. This will strengthen the relationship between both of you and may lead him to confessing his feelings, or simply make it easier to tell if he shares the same feelings with you.
Hope this helped a little bit, feel free to add on to my advice. c:
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Lincoln » Tue May 12, 2015 2:40 pm

Um... Hi, this is Dakodas sister speaking... I know this girl, she's my friend, maybe even a crush, but when I asked her if she thought homosexual, bisexual, and pansexual relationships were okay with her. Her response:
"What?! No! That thing is NOT OKAY!" I was like, oh-gees… we then had a conversation.
"I think if two people love each other, they have the right to marry. No matter what the bible says. Just because we're religious doesn't mean we absolutely have to follow every single thing in the bible!"(Me)
"I don't think so. God made Adam and Eve so they could be together. They're supposed to be together, so a man and a woman should be the only way. Not two woman or two men. That is wrong and bad."
Later when she left for home, I cried really hard. I'm Bisexual. I don't think she'd hang out with me anymore if I told her. I don't understand love anymore.
(Sorry just had to vent it out.)
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby mouse? » Tue May 12, 2015 2:52 pm

So i am currently too young to date (according to my parents i have to wait a long time...)
But i have had a huge crush on a guy at my church for, like, 3 years! Anyway, i just lose my mind around him and go crazy. I think he thinks I'm rabid or something! Whenever i am around him, i'm like "Okay. I'm gonna nail this and gonna be cool." In my head, and then he walks by. He is like "Hi." and then I'm like: "Oh hey yup nope how are you okay bye um wait nevermind well...uehdefhjvbafv" and i just lose my mind and get awkward and crazy. And then...I LAUGH. My laugh is horrifying. Ugh. Anybody know how to stop that? Lol... Hehehe.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby thunderofthedrum » Tue May 12, 2015 3:57 pm

Holy moly.
One week.
One week and then I will be packing my bag to get on a plane.
I can't wait to see him.
I get to see the Army base and his platoon-mates and meet his absolutely closest Army-friend in the whole world and see the beautiful upstate New York landscape and go to their Memorial Day cookout and experience summer where 90 is considered really hot.
xD
And I finally get to try that pizza he keeps getting that sounds super awesome..
And I can cook for him as our cabin will actually have a stovetop I think.
^____^
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Postby zombles » Tue May 12, 2015 4:11 pm

thunderofthedrum wrote:Holy moly.
One week.
One week and then I will be packing my bag to get on a plane.
I can't wait to see him.
I get to see the Army base and his platoon-mates and meet his absolutely closest Army-friend in the whole world and see the beautiful upstate New York landscape and go to their Memorial Day cookout and experience summer where 90 is considered really hot.
xD
And I finally get to try that pizza he keeps getting that sounds super awesome..
And I can cook for him as our cabin will actually have a stovetop I think.
^____^


    congratulations! i'm so duper happy for you even though i don't know you too well, but what you must be feeling— enjoy it so much! savor every singe moment. have fun. ;)
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby paper planets » Tue May 12, 2015 4:12 pm

Mouse~ wrote:So i am currently too young to date (according to my parents i have to wait a long time...)
But i have had a huge crush on a guy at my church for, like, 3 years! Anyway, i just lose my mind around him and go crazy. I think he thinks I'm rabid or something! Whenever i am around him, i'm like "Okay. I'm gonna nail this and gonna be cool." In my head, and then he walks by. He is like "Hi." and then I'm like: "Oh hey yup nope how are you okay bye um wait nevermind well...uehdefhjvbafv" and i just lose my mind and get awkward and crazy. And then...I LAUGH. My laugh is horrifying. Ugh. Anybody know how to stop that? Lol... Hehehe.


I'd suggest either trying your best to keep the conversation as you would with anyone else... Don't blurt out random things or get to nervous (I know it's hard). Try and act as if he is just one of your friends, get to know him more and it'll get easier to talk. Even if you can't date yet you can at least be friends, right?
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