hmmm, because you were too afraid of people talking about you wanting to ask me out, you can't make it all my fault. why does it need to be private with us in a quiet place? it's not a long time commitment, come on. you aren't going to go buy a red velvet cake with a red carpet sprinkled with roses.
it's okay if you date that girl instead but you need to talk with her more, you just asked her out and she says yes and you guys hardly ever talk or sit together at lunch. that was a waste of your confidence right there because if you are just hanging with your friends and hiding in that hole, it's obvious that you lost every ounce of that confidence. =_=