Ellijah wrote:I've never been the type to end up depressed
or hopeless over negativity against my sexuality,
but as of late...not so much. It seems that now
that I finally felt comfortable with coming out
as trans, I'm seeing more hate posts than I have
ever seen before.
Don't get depressed of who you are. No matter how many hate posts there are, don't let them affect your optimism, or who you really are as a person. Instead, wear your sexuality with pride, having come out as trans, you should be proud of yourself, for you have shown the world who you really are, instead of hiding behind something you're not. Keep that smile on your face, keep smiling and shining, for you really are a unique individual - cherish your individuality!
shadoweon wrote:In the past couple of days I've been trying to be really nice on here and give away pets as well as talk/post more. But some of the users with trading are just outright mean and it kind of hurts my feelings. :c
I know this is just a pet site and all but I've spent so many years here, kind of gets to me a little.
I really appreciate the fact that you're putting in the effort to be nice, talk/post more on the site, and give away pets to users c: It's really nice of you to do so! Unfortunately, it's a sad reality that there are mean and horrible people out there, be it online or offline. Don't let those mean users affect your good nature! Perhaps they just had a bad day c: Brush the mean words off, for they do not reflect who you are as a person, you know your true self best! As one of my favourite phrases goes: "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me"! (As a side note, if there are mean messages in trade messages when you're trading with users on CS, you can report them. Check out
this post for more info!)
ferretjuice wrote:i feel yuck, like i dont want to be here any ore i have had that feeling for a while, but what i dont understand is, people love me i dont have any reason to be upset (except deaths and stuff) i have family and friends that look out for me. but i still feel sad and depressed. hug please? ._.
*Hugs* Deaths and other things like that are never easy to take, but if you are upset for no reason, as you say, place a smile on your face for me ^^ A simple smile can brighten up anyone's day! c: However, if you feel upset for no reason, you might want to consult medical advice, there might be an underlying problem.
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RemovedWhilst I have not known your sister, or her friend, I'm sure he was a great person, and will look upon all who knew him from above, with his best wishes to all of you c: *Hugs*
Olleyy wrote:My Great Grandma had a stroke and is coming really depressed. She's given up on life in the Extended Care Hospital. All she does is sit on her bed and cry. I saw her today and she smiled, which made her cry. She can't talk. Life is hardddd
Making the decision to give up on life, especially when one is already in the extended care part of the hospital, is never easy. Life is definitely hard, but the decision to give up life is even harder. Comfort her in her last days, and please, take care of both yourself and her! Do anything you can to keep that smile on her face, and smile while she is still here, for no one likes looking at tears! Best wishes to the both of you! Hugs and cookies to you both for staying strong c: <3
Shadowolf64 wrote:Okay. Please stop. Please teacher. I hate group work. I'm antisocial and even though I've known everyone for a really long time, I am just not social. Please stop.
With all the unique individuals in the class, teachers must try to suit all learning abilities. Some people are better at group work, others may not be. It seems like you happen to be one of those who are not as great at group work. Perhaps you could speak to your teacher about this, and see if individual work could be arranged for you? c: Hopefully all goes to your favour in the future!
Life is full of unfortunate events, life is not fair. And yet we must continue to live on. I'm not sure who you were referring to when you said 'she', though there are a few options 'she' could look into if she's pregnant. I'm not in the place to give medical advice, so I suggest 'her' to go somewhere to get the needed advice. What has happened has happened, and what is done, cannot be undone. I can only wish you and 'her' the best of luck in the future. But please remember, whatever has happened, only show how strong you (and 'her') can be, going through all this shows how amazing you are to be able to stay strong after all this <3 Stay amazing, stay strong, and may what the future holds be in your favour.
yowzah. wrote:if my parents could stop critizing everything i do
that'd be great
yes i want to be an author when i'm older
yes i want to travel the world and ACTUALLY BE HAPPY as opposed to try hopelessly to get laid/married
yes i listen to pop-punk music obnoxiously loudly
no your stupid whining and critizing is not going to change my opinions
i kinda just need a bit of reassurance?? yeah
Don't worry, you're definitely not the only one who feels likes that! I've got so many things I want to do that my parents shake their heads, a 'no' to. I might not have the exact same wishes and goals as you, but you probably share a lot of the feelings that I do! Your parents only want the best for you though, so perhaps listening to some of their opinions might be useful/helpful for you? Their opinions are not binding, but surely they have more experience than you in life, they know what's best. As for the criticism, if you don't think what they say is fair, don't take it too hard on yourself c: Be proud of who you are as an individual, be proud of what you do, strive to improve, lift those wings and soar <3