|TheComfortCorner| v.4

[aerti]

of course, just because I'm a woman, that automatically means I'm on my period if I'm upset.
totally right, mom.

No it's totally not because of how stressful school is and how I'm failing in my track team...

[dispute]

im pretty sure i have borderline personality disorder and i want to ask my therapist if i could get screened for it, but i have no idea how to bring it up. i know i sound like an idiot for not knowing how to ask, but how would someone even bring that up for discussion? any tips would help. thank you in advance.

[il tuo ♥ amore]

Sometimes I feel like I'm paranoid, in a way. .-. I sometimes feel like everybody's against me, that everything they say holds some type of hidden meaning, yet no matter how hard I try, I can't crack the code ... There are times where I will honestly reread somebody's message ten+ times, even if it's just a simple "Hey, what's up?", just to make sure I caught every punctuation mark, analyzed their word choice, get a good feel for the tone of the message- because I am terrified that there is some hidden meaning in their words and I have to find out what they truly mean.
I just get so wrapped up in the thought that my friends might actually not care for me, or that complete strangers I meet might know something about me that they're willing to hold against me ... I just can't help myself from obsessing over the words they use, reading their body language. I just feel like there's always something they aren't telling me, and it drives me insane sometimes.
Yet, this isn't all the time. I just have random episodes where I'll feel like this, but even still, it drives me crazy.

A hug would be nice, but in this situation, I'm mostly just looking for somebody who feels like they understand. Perhaps this isn't as uncommon as I'm thinking it is, maybe most people feel this way from time to time, but I would just love to talk to somebody who feels they can relate- and can possibly give me advice to control my semi-paranoid thoughts, since I don't want to worry about all these little things anymore. ;-;

Bringing up an old post I made a few days earlier. I realize that this issue isn't nearly as major as other people's concerns posted on this thread, so I'm in no way forcing anybody to reply! I simply wanted to bring it up, since today was a rougher day for me (I thought some of my friends were ignoring me and it caused me to freak out a little bit)... I don't think I'm truly "paranoid," as in having the mental disorder- I simply just have a lot of worries that I never learned how to properly deal with. Any type of advice would be greatly appreciated, or a simple conversation will do just as nicely. If you have the time, that is.

Thank you in advance for any help. c:

[Kittehhcat]

I am really, really lonely.
I have no friends near me, and it's not like I am good in social situations.
I'm just ready to break down and sob.
Is that okay? Nobody cared in my area anyway. .n.

[jellie10]

A guy at my school said "Tim McGraw sucks." and that offended me lots because I enjoy listening to Tim McGraw's music ;-;
I just need a hug :c

[nagisa.]

i was shut down about wearing a suit for this easter party my stepmother throws every year. there isnt a shadow of a doubt in my mind ill be forced to dress like a girl, and i know nobody will use my name/pronouns. on top of that, my mother undermined my dysphoria today and doesnt even believe it's real.

i'm just...done.

[My Immortal]

The pain in my chest is getting worse

[pendulum.]

i found out today that my aunt has numerous spinal rumors. surgery runs the high risk of death and there's already one too many deaths in my family this year. i'm worried for her and the stability of my family.

[notactive]

I just feel so bad, I hate giving late replies to my friends, why did my computer have to screw up? :c I need a huggggg

[emoji movie]

I just feel so bad, I hate giving late replies to my friends, why did my computer have to screw up? :c I need a huggggg

*HUGS* Don't worry, your friend will understand, and don't feel bad, happens to the best of us ^^.

i found out today that my aunt has numerous spinal rumors. surgery runs the high risk of death and there's already one too many deaths in my family this year. i'm worried for her and the stability of my family.

*HUGS* Stay strong, and help your family and aunt stay strong. Visit her and comfort her, I'm not the best at advice but all I can say is help her stay strong and hold her hand. And about your family, let them know your concerns and do your best to help them. Sorry I can't do more but I'm praying for your family, you, and your aunts well being.

The pain in my chest is getting worse

*HUGS* Please seek help from a doctor or let someone know. Don't struggle alone. I hope your chest pain gets better and you seek help immediately.

i was shut down about wearing a suit for this easter party my stepmother throws every year. there isnt a shadow of a doubt in my mind ill be forced to dress like a girl, and i know nobody will use my name/pronouns. on top of that, my mother undermined my dysphoria today and doesnt even believe it's real.

i'm just...done.

*HUGS* Have you tried consulting your father or letting a teacher or friend know? As I've said, don't struggle alone. Also, I'm sorry about the Easter thing. I'm not the best at advice again but I know how it feels to be forced to dress like a 'proper girl'. If it real gets you stressed or angry take a walk, it helps.

I am really, really lonely.
I have no friends near me, and it's not like I am good in social situations.
I'm just ready to break down and sob.
Is that okay? Nobody cared in my area anyway. .n.

*HUGS* I care, and so do many other people. You just don't see them. And break down and cry if you must, it's a good way to let things out. Also, have you tried to practice speech and approach someone? Good luck and I hope your days get better.

Sometimes I feel like I'm paranoid, in a way. .-. I sometimes feel like everybody's against me, that everything they say holds some type of hidden meaning, yet no matter how hard I try, I can't crack the code ... There are times where I will honestly reread somebody's message ten+ times, even if it's just a simple "Hey, what's up?", just to make sure I caught every punctuation mark, analyzed their word choice, get a good feel for the tone of the message- because I am terrified that there is some hidden meaning in their words and I have to find out what they truly mean.
I just get so wrapped up in the thought that my friends might actually not care for me, or that complete strangers I meet might know something about me that they're willing to hold against me ... I just can't help myself from obsessing over the words they use, reading their body language. I just feel like there's always something they aren't telling me, and it drives me insane sometimes.
Yet, this isn't all the time. I just have random episodes where I'll feel like this, but even still, it drives me crazy.

A hug would be nice, but in this situation, I'm mostly just looking for somebody who feels like they understand. Perhaps this isn't as uncommon as I'm thinking it is, maybe most people feel this way from time to time, but I would just love to talk to somebody who feels they can relate- and can possibly give me advice to control my semi-paranoid thoughts, since I don't want to worry about all these little things anymore. ;-;

Bringing up an old post I made a few days earlier. I realize that this issue isn't nearly as major as other people's concerns posted on this thread, so I'm in no way forcing anybody to reply! I simply wanted to bring it up, since today was a rougher day for me (I thought some of my friends were ignoring me and it caused me to freak out a little bit)... I don't think I'm truly "paranoid," as in having the mental disorder- I simply just have a lot of worries that I never learned how to properly deal with. Any type of advice would be greatly appreciated, or a simple conversation will do just as nicely. If you have the time, that is.

Thank you in advance for any help. c:

*HUGS* Don't worry, every problem is important.
Okay, anyways. Take a deep breath, and talk to your friends and parents about how you feel. It helps. Trust me. And that's also something you must do. Trust your friends. Good luck! I'm sure you'll managed to figure out this problem.

im pretty sure i have borderline personality disorder and i want to ask my therapist if i could get screened for it, but i have no idea how to bring it up. i know i sound like an idiot for not knowing how to ask, but how would someone even bring that up for discussion? any tips would help. thank you in advance.

Well... You could try bringing up how you've been feeling and what's been going on to make you think this. After that you can bring it up.

Or you can just ask confidently, like, "_Insert Name_, I've been having these symptoms/problems/feelings and I think I have Borderline Personality disorder, I was wondering if I should get screened for it."

Sorry if this wasn't helpful at all. Try getting advice from a trusted adult or friend. Good luck!

of course, just because I'm a woman, that automatically means I'm on my period if I'm upset.
totally right, mom.

No it's totally not because of how stressful school is and how I'm failing in my track team...

*HUGS* Cheer up! I know how stressful school is sometimes you need to take a break and relax. Try managing your time well and if you ever need help on homework get help from you parents or friends! Also, I'm sure you're not doing very bad at track. And if you are, maybe managing your time to have more training could help? Sorry for not being very helpful but I hope it all gets better.

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If anybody ever needs help I'm open for a PM. Don't worry, although I don't give the best advice I'll listen to you.
I'm also sorry if there is a typo occasionally, I'm on mobile so it's hard to type >~<